I have a very weird friendship with this girl

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We go to the same class together, she's around half a year younger than me. We've known eachother for 4 years by now. As for looks she's a typical attractive alternative girl, nothing very special about her.

She is extremely autistic and extremely unbothered/low inhib which makes for a weird combo. She keeps texting me, is brutally honest and isn't afraid of sending weird voice messages. Hell, sometimes i get voice messages of her straight up farting or pretending she's beating her (nonexistent) meat.

She's known me throughout 2 of my relationships and openly admits that she likes me more than a friend, and i did (keyword, did) aswell - but we never got together in the long run.

She told me stories about how she prayed that my ex would break up with me so that she could be with me instead.. But before we did break up, she found some other guy. Sounds like something out of a horrible high school movie lol.

But in the past year she's calmed down because of the said boyfriend, and i found a girlfriend of my own, but despite that we haven't changed our contact at all.

This is the reason why the friendship is exceptionally weird - because I'm already in a relationship, and SHE'S already in a relationship - but she's my closest and nicest friend. Even weirder is that my current girlfriend overwhelmingly accepts her and became her friend aswell, which means that her trusted friend and MY trusted friend is texting me more than my girlfriend about her about deeply personal and intimate things.. My girlfriend isn't one for texting much that's why i talk with my friend more.

It feels very dumb talking with her, like borderline cheating but without the intimacy part. Why does it feel so weird despite friendships being a normal part of life? Maybe because i still feel like she might like me?

@Randomized @Daddy's Home @Insomnia @Orka @NumbThePain @tuberculosisinmybal
 
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Fuck her:02Woop:
 
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aight
 
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How attractive is she?
 
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this thread woulda got you hardware banned off .is
 
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However dont cheat if ur relationship is serious
All my relationships are serious, i take love and marriage very seriously.. :feelsohh:
 
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How attractive is she?
It feels even weirder to talk about her attractiveness considering everything lol.. but she's decently attractive. She has very nice, bright green eyes.

Fat is bringing her down, but it's not much.
 
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sometimes i get voice messages of her straight up farting or pretending she's beating her (nonexistent) meat.
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Pass the fucking ball nigga holy fuck
 
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But Im literally going through this rn so I thought we knew the same girl
 
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nothing really weird about it lol

it just is what it is
 
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I try to live by the rule that if it feels wrong, then it probably is. Even if I couldn't point out what's wrong with what I'm doing is, if it feels wrong then I will stop doing it.

In regards of your friendship, it doesn't sound like it's too weird for kids your ages, but you might want to explain you don't want to talk about certain subjects with her anymore, like about sex and stuff.

Friends will talk about sex and other stuff with each other, but it's different when it's two people of the opposite sex and then there's that crush history involved. You would probably feel better by defending your relationship in that regard.
 
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I try to live by the rule that if it feels wrong, then it probably is. Even if I couldn't point out what's wrong with what I'm doing is, if it feels wrong then I will stop doing it.

In regards of your friendship, it doesn't sound like it's too weird for kids your ages, but you might want to explain you don't want to talk about certain subjects with her anymore, like about sex and stuff.

Friends will talk about sex and other stuff with each other, but it's different when it's two people of the opposite sex and then there's that crush history involved. You would probably feel better by defending your relationship in that regard.
Our friendship is totally boundry-less, except for meeting up, we don't meet face to face except at school because she lives like 100km away.

I think you're right, might be time to subtly set some boundaries so both of us don't feel completely uncomfortable.

I feel like an ass even talking about it lol, there should never be these kinds of thoughts when you're in a serious relationship.
 
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We go to the same class together, she's around half a year younger than me. We've known eachother for 4 years by now. As for looks she's a typical attractive alternative girl, nothing very special about her.

She is extremely autistic and extremely unbothered/low inhib which makes for a weird combo. She keeps texting me, is brutally honest and isn't afraid of sending weird voice messages. Hell, sometimes i get voice messages of her straight up farting or pretending she's beating her (nonexistent) meat.

She's known me throughout 2 of my relationships and openly admits that she likes me more than a friend, and i did (keyword, did) aswell - but we never got together in the long run.

She told me stories about how she prayed that my ex would break up with me so that she could be with me instead.. But before we did break up, she found some other guy. Sounds like something out of a horrible high school movie lol.

But in the past year she's calmed down because of the said boyfriend, and i found a girlfriend of my own, but despite that we haven't changed our contact at all.

This is the reason why the friendship is exceptionally weird - because I'm already in a relationship, and SHE'S already in a relationship - but she's my closest and nicest friend. Even weirder is that my current girlfriend overwhelmingly accepts her and became her friend aswell, which means that her trusted friend and MY trusted friend is texting me more than my girlfriend about her about deeply personal and intimate things.. My girlfriend isn't one for texting much that's why i talk with my friend more.

It feels very dumb talking with her, like borderline cheating but without the intimacy part. Why does it feel so weird despite friendships being a normal part of life? Maybe because i still feel like she might like me?

@Randomized @Daddy's Home @Insomnia @Orka @NumbThePain @tuberculosisinmybal
thats easy


crack her
 
she should be honoured to be friends with the 2025 FUOTY winner among 100K+ on looksmax.org (men's self improvement site)
 
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she should be honoured to be friends with the 2025 FUOTY winner among 100K+ on looksmax.org (men's self improvement site)
truth, usually people kneel down when I tell them about it. Yesterday i got recognized in a famous expensive store and got offered a $10000 suit for free. I declined because I'm humble and don't need it.
 
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We go to the same class together, she's around half a year younger than me. We've known eachother for 4 years by now. As for looks she's a typical attractive alternative girl, nothing very special about her.

She is extremely autistic and extremely unbothered/low inhib which makes for a weird combo. She keeps texting me, is brutally honest and isn't afraid of sending weird voice messages. Hell, sometimes i get voice messages of her straight up farting or pretending she's beating her (nonexistent) meat.

She's known me throughout 2 of my relationships and openly admits that she likes me more than a friend, and i did (keyword, did) aswell - but we never got together in the long run.

She told me stories about how she prayed that my ex would break up with me so that she could be with me instead.. But before we did break up, she found some other guy. Sounds like something out of a horrible high school movie lol.

But in the past year she's calmed down because of the said boyfriend, and i found a girlfriend of my own, but despite that we haven't changed our contact at all.

This is the reason why the friendship is exceptionally weird - because I'm already in a relationship, and SHE'S already in a relationship - but she's my closest and nicest friend. Even weirder is that my current girlfriend overwhelmingly accepts her and became her friend aswell, which means that her trusted friend and MY trusted friend is texting me more than my girlfriend about her about deeply personal and intimate things.. My girlfriend isn't one for texting much that's why i talk with my friend more.

It feels very dumb talking with her, like borderline cheating but without the intimacy part. Why does it feel so weird despite friendships being a normal part of life? Maybe because i still feel like she might like me?

@Randomized @Daddy's Home @Insomnia @Orka @NumbThePain @tuberculosisinmybal
You should definitely keep it as a friendship and nothing more with that woman (or girl).

You have a relationship with your partner, and she has a relationship with her partner. It should not go any further than that.
 
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You should definitely keep it as a friendship and nothing more with that woman (or girl).

You have a relationship with your partner, and she has a relationship with her partner. It should not go any further than that.
Yeah that's obvious.. the less obvious part is the line between a friendship and something weirder, hence the post. I appreciate all the advice tho :heart:
 
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Like the wise uncle with a cool badge above me said, itโ€™s probably best to set up some boundaries ngl. I donโ€™t think you should fully cut contact but tell her that you arenโ€™t contactable talking about xyz stuff with her
 
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Our friendship is totally boundry-less, except for meeting up, we don't meet face to face except at school because she lives like 100km away.

I think you're right, might be time to subtly set some boundaries so both of us don't feel completely uncomfortable.

I feel like an ass even talking about it lol, there should never be these kinds of thoughts when you're in a serious relationship.
I doubt you'd need to subtly do it if she's a blunt kind of person. It would probably reassure your girlfriend if you were more direct about it instead of passive about it. You don't want it to come off like you're sheepish while doing it. You don't have to be mean, but you should be like "I feel like we should stop talking about X, out of respect of our relationships."

With that being said, no point in feeling too bad about it. It's normal and happens. You're going to learn how to navigate this stuff as time goes on.

Are you saying you feel like you might still have a crush on this girl?
 
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Do the freaky deaky with her
 
Put a finger in her cervix onna backward to forward motion in repetition
 
Do the kiss with her
 
Are you saying you feel like you might still have a crush on this girl?
It's hard to say really, which is already bad in enough itself. I feel like there is zero world where i go in a relationship with her, let alone cheat on my lady with her, but there is some feelings involved.

On the other hand, i feel like feelings are sort of unavoidable if you're this close with someone from the opposite gender as a man. Atleast they aren't strong, i don't feel lust or strong attraction towards her, but there is a slight hint of something

But what you're saying is very solid.. Hopefully when the boundaries are set and we stop being so close together, it'll improve my mental. :02Pat:
 
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We go to the same class together, she's around half a year younger than me. We've known eachother for 4 years by now. As for looks she's a typical attractive alternative girl, nothing very special about her.

She is extremely autistic and extremely unbothered/low inhib which makes for a weird combo. She keeps texting me, is brutally honest and isn't afraid of sending weird voice messages. Hell, sometimes i get voice messages of her straight up farting or pretending she's beating her (nonexistent) meat.

She's known me throughout 2 of my relationships and openly admits that she likes me more than a friend, and i did (keyword, did) aswell - but we never got together in the long run.

She told me stories about how she prayed that my ex would break up with me so that she could be with me instead.. But before we did break up, she found some other guy. Sounds like something out of a horrible high school movie lol.

But in the past year she's calmed down because of the said boyfriend, and i found a girlfriend of my own, but despite that we haven't changed our contact at all.

This is the reason why the friendship is exceptionally weird - because I'm already in a relationship, and SHE'S already in a relationship - but she's my closest and nicest friend. Even weirder is that my current girlfriend overwhelmingly accepts her and became her friend aswell, which means that her trusted friend and MY trusted friend is texting me more than my girlfriend about her about deeply personal and intimate things.. My girlfriend isn't one for texting much that's why i talk with my friend more.

It feels very dumb talking with her, like borderline cheating but without the intimacy part. Why does it feel so weird despite friendships being a normal part of life? Maybe because i still feel like she might like me?

@Randomized @Daddy's Home @Insomnia @Orka @NumbThePain @tuberculosisinmybal
This looks like a shitty heartbreaking situation to be in man.
 
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We go to the same class together, she's around half a year younger than me. We've known eachother for 4 years by now. As for looks she's a typical attractive alternative girl, nothing very special about her.

She is extremely autistic and extremely unbothered/low inhib which makes for a weird combo. She keeps texting me, is brutally honest and isn't afraid of sending weird voice messages. Hell, sometimes i get voice messages of her straight up farting or pretending she's beating her (nonexistent) meat.

She's known me throughout 2 of my relationships and openly admits that she likes me more than a friend, and i did (keyword, did) aswell - but we never got together in the long run.

She told me stories about how she prayed that my ex would break up with me so that she could be with me instead.. But before we did break up, she found some other guy. Sounds like something out of a horrible high school movie lol.

But in the past year she's calmed down because of the said boyfriend, and i found a girlfriend of my own, but despite that we haven't changed our contact at all.

This is the reason why the friendship is exceptionally weird - because I'm already in a relationship, and SHE'S already in a relationship - but she's my closest and nicest friend. Even weirder is that my current girlfriend overwhelmingly accepts her and became her friend aswell, which means that her trusted friend and MY trusted friend is texting me more than my girlfriend about her about deeply personal and intimate things.. My girlfriend isn't one for texting much that's why i talk with my friend more.

It feels very dumb talking with her, like borderline cheating but without the intimacy part. Why does it feel so weird despite friendships being a normal part of life? Maybe because i still feel like she might like me?

@Randomized @Daddy's Home @Insomnia @Orka @NumbThePain @tuberculosisinmybal
wait actually can you send those voice messages here (y)
 
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We go to the same class together, she's around half a year younger than me. We've known eachother for 4 years by now. As for looks she's a typical attractive alternative girl, nothing very special about her.

She is extremely autistic and extremely unbothered/low inhib which makes for a weird combo. She keeps texting me, is brutally honest and isn't afraid of sending weird voice messages. Hell, sometimes i get voice messages of her straight up farting or pretending she's beating her (nonexistent) meat.

She's known me throughout 2 of my relationships and openly admits that she likes me more than a friend, and i did (keyword, did) aswell - but we never got together in the long run.

She told me stories about how she prayed that my ex would break up with me so that she could be with me instead.. But before we did break up, she found some other guy. Sounds like something out of a horrible high school movie lol.

But in the past year she's calmed down because of the said boyfriend, and i found a girlfriend of my own, but despite that we haven't changed our contact at all.

This is the reason why the friendship is exceptionally weird - because I'm already in a relationship, and SHE'S already in a relationship - but she's my closest and nicest friend. Even weirder is that my current girlfriend overwhelmingly accepts her and became her friend aswell, which means that her trusted friend and MY trusted friend is texting me more than my girlfriend about her about deeply personal and intimate things.. My girlfriend isn't one for texting much that's why i talk with my friend more.

It feels very dumb talking with her, like borderline cheating but without the intimacy part. Why does it feel so weird despite friendships being a normal part of life? Maybe because i still feel like she might like me?

@Randomized @Daddy's Home @Insomnia @Orka @NumbThePain @tuberculosisinmybal
bang both of em and call it a day
 
Yeah that's obvious.. the less obvious part is the line between a friendship and something weirder, hence the post. I appreciate all the advice tho :heart:
The line between a friendship and a romantic relationship is that friendships do not have sexual messaging, sexual conatct, and intimate contact.

You wrote that she sometimes send you voice messages of her farting or masturbating. This is inappropriate and gross. This is crossing boundaries. I would have established a clear boundary there. You need to end it with her or establish boundaries.

What you would avoid saying or doing to your partner (girlfriend), you should avoid saying or doing to your friend.

Your partner (girlfriend) should be your priority. Your girlfriend is an individual that I assume you plan on being with forever and having children with (raising your family).
 
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So you have foid friends
 
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Just change your name to BigHaremLarry* at this point bro.. :fuk:

The way bro feels when he's having so much motion, action and traction with DMs always full will spinning between all these cute horny bitches with colored eyes begging the gods for a drop of his balls essence of A50 eyes for mass production of polish cute babies.. :feelswhat:

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A truly HTBs slayer indeed.. :veryCat::CatChest:


 
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We go to the same class together, she's around half a year younger than me. We've known eachother for 4 years by now. As for looks she's a typical attractive alternative girl, nothing very special about her.

She is extremely autistic and extremely unbothered/low inhib which makes for a weird combo. She keeps texting me, is brutally honest and isn't afraid of sending weird voice messages. Hell, sometimes i get voice messages of her straight up farting or pretending she's beating her (nonexistent) meat.

She's known me throughout 2 of my relationships and openly admits that she likes me more than a friend, and i did (keyword, did) aswell - but we never got together in the long run.

She told me stories about how she prayed that my ex would break up with me so that she could be with me instead.. But before we did break up, she found some other guy. Sounds like something out of a horrible high school movie lol.

But in the past year she's calmed down because of the said boyfriend, and i found a girlfriend of my own, but despite that we haven't changed our contact at all.

This is the reason why the friendship is exceptionally weird - because I'm already in a relationship, and SHE'S already in a relationship - but she's my closest and nicest friend. Even weirder is that my current girlfriend overwhelmingly accepts her and became her friend aswell, which means that her trusted friend and MY trusted friend is texting me more than my girlfriend about her about deeply personal and intimate things.. My girlfriend isn't one for texting much that's why i talk with my friend more.

It feels very dumb talking with her, like borderline cheating but without the intimacy part. Why does it feel so weird despite friendships being a normal part of life? Maybe because i still feel like she might like me?

@Randomized @Daddy's Home @Insomnia @Orka @NumbThePain @tuberculosisinmybal
is this what chad life is like?
also u should just crack ts if u like her ur personality more then ur gf u might gotta do a switcharoo and make ur new gf

also u feel she might like u bc she does :lul:
 
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We go to the same class together, she's around half a year younger than me. We've known eachother for 4 years by now. As for looks she's a typical attractive alternative girl, nothing very special about her.

She is extremely autistic and extremely unbothered/low inhib which makes for a weird combo. She keeps texting me, is brutally honest and isn't afraid of sending weird voice messages. Hell, sometimes i get voice messages of her straight up farting or pretending she's beating her (nonexistent) meat.

She's known me throughout 2 of my relationships and openly admits that she likes me more than a friend, and i did (keyword, did) aswell - but we never got together in the long run.

She told me stories about how she prayed that my ex would break up with me so that she could be with me instead.. But before we did break up, she found some other guy. Sounds like something out of a horrible high school movie lol.

But in the past year she's calmed down because of the said boyfriend, and i found a girlfriend of my own, but despite that we haven't changed our contact at all.

This is the reason why the friendship is exceptionally weird - because I'm already in a relationship, and SHE'S already in a relationship - but she's my closest and nicest friend. Even weirder is that my current girlfriend overwhelmingly accepts her and became her friend aswell, which means that her trusted friend and MY trusted friend is texting me more than my girlfriend about her about deeply personal and intimate things.. My girlfriend isn't one for texting much that's why i talk with my friend more.

It feels very dumb talking with her, like borderline cheating but without the intimacy part. Why does it feel so weird despite friendships being a normal part of life? Maybe because i still feel like she might like me?

@Randomized @Daddy's Home @Insomnia @Orka @NumbThePain @tuberculosisinmybal
your name color just turned me blind
 
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We go to the same class together, she's around half a year younger than me. We've known eachother for 4 years by now. As for looks she's a typical attractive alternative girl, nothing very special about her.

She is extremely autistic and extremely unbothered/low inhib which makes for a weird combo. She keeps texting me, is brutally honest and isn't afraid of sending weird voice messages. Hell, sometimes i get voice messages of her straight up farting or pretending she's beating her (nonexistent) meat.

She's known me throughout 2 of my relationships and openly admits that she likes me more than a friend, and i did (keyword, did) aswell - but we never got together in the long run.

She told me stories about how she prayed that my ex would break up with me so that she could be with me instead.. But before we did break up, she found some other guy. Sounds like something out of a horrible high school movie lol.

But in the past year she's calmed down because of the said boyfriend, and i found a girlfriend of my own, but despite that we haven't changed our contact at all.

This is the reason why the friendship is exceptionally weird - because I'm already in a relationship, and SHE'S already in a relationship - but she's my closest and nicest friend. Even weirder is that my current girlfriend overwhelmingly accepts her and became her friend aswell, which means that her trusted friend and MY trusted friend is texting me more than my girlfriend about her about deeply personal and intimate things.. My girlfriend isn't one for texting much that's why i talk with my friend more.

It feels very dumb talking with her, like borderline cheating but without the intimacy part. Why does it feel so weird despite friendships being a normal part of life? Maybe because i still feel like she might like me?

@Randomized @Daddy's Home @Insomnia @Orka @NumbThePain @tuberculosisinmybal
Ur life is a movie
 
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