i have absolutely 0 fucking confidence

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instead of looksmaxxing, i should go do confidencemaxxing.
holy fuck i am so bad at talking to women, I CANT EVEN LOOK AT THEM! WHENEVR I SEE GIRLS CROSSING ME, I GO ANOTHER WAY SO I DONT HAVE TO FACE THEM!
the only women i have talked to are my mum and aunts. thats fucking it. I AM TOO SHY TO TALK TO OPPOSITE GENDER.

Its over for me with 0 confidence.

maybe the ITcels were right after all, just need confidence bro...

i am moving to US next june so maybe i have a chance to do confidence boosting over there by being exposed to opposite gender
 
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it's the same thing, becoming more attractive makes you more confident.
 
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You're probably not on semen retention
 
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it's the same thing, becoming more attractive makes you more confident.
being attractive doesn't fix ur shyness man, especially for someone like me who hasn't even talked to opposite gender cuz of being born in a conservative religious family. Idk how to approach or talk to women
 
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Low T or fag
 
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IDK. If you have not gotten laid yet, you haven't really @ascendedd
 
IDK. If you have not gotten laid yet, you haven't really @ascendedd
if i try to get laid, my dad will insert a stick so far up my ass, i will be pulling it outta my mouth
 
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instead of looksmaxxing, i should go do confidencemaxxing.
holy fuck i am so bad at talking to women, I CANT EVEN LOOK AT THEM! WHENEVR I SEE GIRLS CROSSING ME, I GO ANOTHER WAY SO I DONT HAVE TO FACE THEM!
the only women i have talked to are my mum and aunts. thats fucking it. I AM TOO SHY TO TALK TO OPPOSITE GENDER.

Its over for me with 0 confidence.

maybe the ITcels were right after all, just need confidence bro...

i am moving to US next june so maybe i have a chance to do confidence boosting over there by being exposed to opposite gender
didn't read but same
 
You can be very aspie with girls. It does not matter. You get confidence when these girls will fall love with your face.
 
your dad is right,don't ever do zina
true, i have never done zina and masturbation as well Alhamdulillah. But honestly, this shyness is really interrupting my life. I am not able to talk to waitresses to ask them for stuff or teachers, so i need to fix it someway
 
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true, i have never done zina and masturbation as well Alhamdulillah. But honestly, this shyness is really interrupting my life. I am not able to talk to waitresses to ask them for stuff or teachers, so i need to fix it someway
How old are you, you going to uni/college?
 
I can relate, for me only drugmaxxing helps, drink lots of alcohol, maybe try phenibut
 
i havent masturbated from the day i have been born. Wallahi
You’ve actually never masturbated? For real? What is your life like
 
instead of looksmaxxing, i should go do confidencemaxxing.
holy fuck i am so bad at talking to women, I CANT EVEN LOOK AT THEM! WHENEVR I SEE GIRLS CROSSING ME, I GO ANOTHER WAY SO I DONT HAVE TO FACE THEM!
the only women i have talked to are my mum and aunts. thats fucking it. I AM TOO SHY TO TALK TO OPPOSITE GENDER.

Its over for me with 0 confidence.

maybe the ITcels were right after all, just need confidence bro...

i am moving to US next june so maybe i have a chance to do confidence boosting over there by being exposed to opposite gender
Confidence comes from having value and being better looking than others
In a room of people uglier than you, you naturally become a social leader and feel good
In a room of moggers and stacies, you will feel awkward since you no you don’t have the value they do
 
wrong username then :lul:
 
You’ve actually never masturbated? For real? What is your life like
yeah i didnt ever masturbate in my entire life.
I have never been depressed no matter how tough life is. Thats the good thing about not masturbating
 
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Confidence comes from having value and being better looking than others
In a room of people uglier than you, you naturally become a social leader and feel good
In a room of moggers and stacies, you will feel awkward since you no you don’t have the value they do
doesnt apply here fam, mine is due to the way i have been raised. No exposure to female gender
 
Seems mostly a verbal skills problem.
Only can overcome it, by knowing a bit of small talk skills and talking with people.
 
yeah i didnt ever masturbate in my entire life.
I have never been depressed no matter how tough life is. Thats the good thing about not masturbating
You need to be studied by scientists.
What psl would you rate yourself?
Any male pattern baldness?
Are you confident?
How is your frame / height?

Edit: wait I just saw the title of this thread again, I thought no fap makes you more confident so why are you not confident
 
You need to be studied by scientists.
What psl would you rate yourself?
Any male pattern baldness?
Are you confident?
How is your frame / height?

Edit: wait I just saw the title of this thread again, I thought no fap makes you more confident so why are you not confident
i dont really know how i would rate myself lol. U can see my post history.
Nop, i have extremely good hairline and hair.
I am confident when talking to same gender but as i said, due to me having 0 exposure to female gender, i dont know how to talk or approach them:/
 
i am 17, in clg currently
You need to relax, these skills will develop in the coming years.

In the meantime focus on yourself mentally and physically so when you are speaking to girls you know that it’s no external factor affecting you (for example if you are fat then that’s a reason to maybe feel unconfident).

Put yourself out there, stop looking at woman as some alien being and treat them like any other human.

If you talk to every girl and fantasize about how you are going to get into her pants within the first 30 seconds of interaction that’s just going to make you fumble it.

Treat them normally and don’t put them on a pedestal.
 
Another muslimcel, brozzer just kill yourself so Allah rewards you with 72 virgins in heaven
 
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doesnt apply here fam, mine is due to the way i have been raised. No exposure to female gender
Kind of similar here tbh, may just take exposure from working at a restaurant or something, and just remembering women are inferior to you
Easier said yeah
Also Phenibut once a week when getting started is something to look into
 
Confidence comes from having good genetics either you are at least one of the following; smart, good-looking, or charming or you can't have high confidence.
 
Just drink alcohol, benzomaxx, or ssrimaxx bro
 
being attractive doesn't fix ur shyness man, especially for someone like me who hasn't even talked to opposite gender cuz of being born in a conservative religious family. Idk how to approach or talk to women
lol it doesn't matter what you say, when you are good looking just look all the girls in the eyes and smile to them, if they smile back just say any dumb shit, it doesn't matter as long as you look good and get a smile and stare back
 
Yeah same bhai
 
instead of looksmaxxing, i should go do confidencemaxxing.
holy fuck i am so bad at talking to women, I CANT EVEN LOOK AT THEM! WHENEVR I SEE GIRLS CROSSING ME, I GO ANOTHER WAY SO I DONT HAVE TO FACE THEM!
the only women i have talked to are my mum and aunts. thats fucking it. I AM TOO SHY TO TALK TO OPPOSITE GENDER.

Its over for me with 0 confidence.

maybe the ITcels were right after all, just need confidence bro...

i am moving to US next june so maybe i have a chance to do confidence boosting over there by being exposed to opposite gender
Just get high or drunk
 

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