I have been liberated upon discovering that being an empath is simply a result of childhood circumstances not pre programmed unchangeable behaviour

[6ft4]

Before anyone calls me narcy for claiming to be an empath since even the biggest pieces of shit claim to be empaths (I knew a foid once who gave zero fucks about upsetting anybody with anything she said and was giga combative with people for no reason who told me she was an empath jfl)
it's already been well established that I'm obsessed with self aggrandising but that doesn't detract from the fact that I instinctively put others needs above my own to the point where I have restrained myself from truly living and expressing myself so that others are never made uncomfortable by me revealing my true self as doing so could make them feel inadequate or angry if I cause them to question themselves.
I have always been the geezer to play it down when someone praises me so as not to draw attention from other people who might become envious.
I've always been the geezer to not assert my tastes in certain niches because I didn't want the things that are personal to me which I feel I must protect to become scrutinized.
The reason for this is because of the belief that receiving scrutiny for expressing my inner feels is akin to death, because as a child I was raised to think that expressing my needs could result in severe backlash, therefore I trained myself to always consider the needs of others before expressing my own desires, since that was what would allow me to survive.

What we call empathy in adults often begins as emotional hypervigilance in childhood
A survival mechanism that develops when a child's safety depends on constantly monitoring the emotional states of their caregivers

When you have a mentalcel mother who could go mentalcel at any moment without you having done anything, you are constantly on edge with your flight or fight response triggered thinking you are about to suffer abuse at any moment so you become hyper sensitive to what other people are feeling/thinking so you can get yourself out of harms way if you need to.
The belief that you will suffer severe backlash for expressing your needs trains you to think that expressing yourself in front of others is something you can't do.
This makes your true self feel like something sacred that you can never show to anyone, because your brain subconsciously thinks that showing your true self could get you killed.
Having discovered that I am only an "empath" out of adaptation to circumstances in my youth and it isn't necessarily a pre determined and unchangeable personality type has liberated me into believing that I can express my true self because it's not genetics that's stopping me from doing it, it's simply a learned fear that no longer presents a danger that's stopping me from doing it.
This empathetic nature has actually allowed me to become the worlds most interesting minded man due to the combination with my introspection level so if I was truly able to let go and express myself freely I would develop a cult following in no time.
Every avenue in which I make content I get considerable glaze from my followers due to always making out of the box content
If I put my face and true personality out there I would literally be unstoppable and one of the most entertaining fuckers you'll have ever seen because of my sheer unpredictability combined with my sentience levels you would never know what I'm going to say next but it would either be mind blowing or hilarious.

When I would get drunk during my alcohol consuming prime when it still had positive effects on me, I would become charismatic but also edge close to the line where my loosened filter put me at risk of offending people without realizing and without much fucks given.
This is why lowering my sentience levels with alcohol is a double edged sword but if I was to reveal my true self while sober and express these charisma levels while maintaining my empathetic self who doesn't want to bring anybody else down, I would become one of the biggest internet sensations in the world.
Even in my faceless AI voice content where I bash ethnics and in my essays where I rightfully point out their negative behaviour, I still get ethnics commenting that they know I'm a real one and can see I'm not a bad guy but really I'm just overflowing with empathy and have to prioritize the prosperity of my white kin

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Before anyone calls me narcy for claiming to be an empath since even the biggest pieces of shit claim to be empaths (I knew a foid once who gave zero fucks about upsetting anybody with anything she said and was giga combative with people for no reason who told me she was an empath jfl)
it's already been well established that I'm obsessed with self aggrandising but that doesn't detract from the fact that I instinctively put others needs above my own to the point where I have restrained myself from truly living and expressing myself so that others are never made uncomfortable by me revealing my true self as doing so could make them feel inadequate or angry if I cause them to question themselves.
I have always been the geezer to play it down when someone praises me so as not to draw attention from other people who might become envious.
I've always been the geezer to not assert my tastes in certain niches because I didn't want the things that are personal to me which I feel I must protect to become scrutinized.
The reason for this is because of the belief that receiving scrutiny for expressing my inner feels is akin to death, because as a child I was raised to think that expressing my needs could result in severe backlash, therefore I trained myself to always consider the needs of others before expressing my own desires, since that was what would allow me to survive.

What we call empathy in adults often begins as emotional hypervigilance in childhood
A survival mechanism that develops when a child's safety depends on constantly monitoring the emotional states of their caregivers

When you have a mentalcel mother who could go mentalcel at any moment without you having done anything, you are constantly on edge with your flight or fight response triggered thinking you are about to suffer abuse at any moment so you become hyper sensitive to what other people are feeling/thinking so you can get yourself out of harms way if you need to.
The belief that you will suffer severe backlash for expressing your needs trains you to think that expressing yourself in front of others is something you can't do.
This makes your true self feel like something sacred that you can never show to anyone, because your brain subconsciously thinks that showing your true self could get you killed.
Having discovered that I am only an "empath" out of adaptation to circumstances in my youth and it isn't necessarily a pre determined and unchangeable personality type has liberated me into believing that I can express my true self because it's not genetics that's stopping me from doing it, it's simply a learned fear that no longer presents a danger that's stopping me from doing it.
This empathetic nature has actually allowed me to become the worlds most interesting minded man due to the combination with my introspection level so if I was truly able to let go and express myself freely I would develop a cult following in no time.
Every avenue in which I make content I get considerable glaze from my followers due to always making out of the box content
If I put my face and true personality out there I would literally be unstoppable and one of the most entertaining fuckers you'll have ever seen because of my sheer unpredictability combined with my sentience levels you would never know what I'm going to say next but it would either be mind blowing or hilarious.

When I would get drunk during my alcohol consuming prime when it still had positive effects on me, I would become charismatic but also edge close to the line where my loosened filter put me at risk of offending people without realizing and without much fucks given.
This is why lowering my sentience levels with alcohol is a double edged sword but if I was to reveal my true self while sober and express these charisma levels while maintaining my empathetic self who doesn't want to bring anybody else down, I would become one of the biggest internet sensations in the world.
Even in my faceless AI voice content where I bash ethnics and in my essays where I rightfully point out their negative behaviour, I still get ethnics commenting that they know I'm a real one and can see I'm not a bad guy but really I'm just overflowing with empathy and have to prioritize the prosperity of my white kin

Nigger listening to AI Carl Jung slop

 

[Node]

Woah that’s a lot of words

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Before anyone calls me narcy for claiming to be an empath since even the biggest pieces of shit claim to be empaths (I knew a foid once who gave zero fucks about upsetting anybody with anything she said and was giga combative with people for no reason who told me she was an empath jfl)
it's already been well established that I'm obsessed with self aggrandising but that doesn't detract from the fact that I instinctively put others needs above my own to the point where I have restrained myself from truly living and expressing myself so that others are never made uncomfortable by me revealing my true self as doing so could make them feel inadequate or angry if I cause them to question themselves.
I have always been the geezer to play it down when someone praises me so as not to draw attention from other people who might become envious.
I've always been the geezer to not assert my tastes in certain niches because I didn't want the things that are personal to me which I feel I must protect to become scrutinized.
The reason for this is because of the belief that receiving scrutiny for expressing my inner feels is akin to death, because as a child I was raised to think that expressing my needs could result in severe backlash, therefore I trained myself to always consider the needs of others before expressing my own desires, since that was what would allow me to survive.

What we call empathy in adults often begins as emotional hypervigilance in childhood
A survival mechanism that develops when a child's safety depends on constantly monitoring the emotional states of their caregivers

When you have a mentalcel mother who could go mentalcel at any moment without you having done anything, you are constantly on edge with your flight or fight response triggered thinking you are about to suffer abuse at any moment so you become hyper sensitive to what other people are feeling/thinking so you can get yourself out of harms way if you need to.
The belief that you will suffer severe backlash for expressing your needs trains you to think that expressing yourself in front of others is something you can't do.
This makes your true self feel like something sacred that you can never show to anyone, because your brain subconsciously thinks that showing your true self could get you killed.
Having discovered that I am only an "empath" out of adaptation to circumstances in my youth and it isn't necessarily a pre determined and unchangeable personality type has liberated me into believing that I can express my true self because it's not genetics that's stopping me from doing it, it's simply a learned fear that no longer presents a danger that's stopping me from doing it.
This empathetic nature has actually allowed me to become the worlds most interesting minded man due to the combination with my introspection level so if I was truly able to let go and express myself freely I would develop a cult following in no time.
Every avenue in which I make content I get considerable glaze from my followers due to always making out of the box content
If I put my face and true personality out there I would literally be unstoppable and one of the most entertaining fuckers you'll have ever seen because of my sheer unpredictability combined with my sentience levels you would never know what I'm going to say next but it would either be mind blowing or hilarious.

When I would get drunk during my alcohol consuming prime when it still had positive effects on me, I would become charismatic but also edge close to the line where my loosened filter put me at risk of offending people without realizing and without much fucks given.
This is why lowering my sentience levels with alcohol is a double edged sword but if I was to reveal my true self while sober and express these charisma levels while maintaining my empathetic self who doesn't want to bring anybody else down, I would become one of the biggest internet sensations in the world.
Even in my faceless AI voice content where I bash ethnics and in my essays where I rightfully point out their negative behaviour, I still get ethnics commenting that they know I'm a real one and can see I'm not a bad guy but really I'm just overflowing with empathy and have to prioritize the prosperity of my white kin

Caging after reading this self important ego trip thread

Go make something of yourself instead of posting about it on fucking org

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Woah that’s a lot of words

The OP argues that his “empath” tendencies are not an innate personality trait but a survival mechanism learned in childhood from dealing with volatile caregivers. He explains that constantly putting others’ needs above his own and hiding his true self came from fear of backlash, not genetics. Realizing this has made him feel “liberated,” since he now sees empathy as a learned behavior he can unlearn in order to express himself more freely. He concludes that embracing his authentic personality would make him highly charismatic, creative, and potentially a major online figure.

 

[looksmaxxed]

we just need to indulge in our darker impulses

 

[karmacita901]

makes sense, except i have shown my true self many times, and it never really goes well. people usually just think i don't look good enough to be acting like that

 

[BeanCelll]

If you ever want to make a heavens gate style cult I'm down, always wanted to see what one was like.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

makes sense, except i have shown my true self many times, and it never really goes well. people usually just think i don't look good enough to be acting like that

My true self is a pretty nice person

I feel an impulse to make others comfortable

I dont think it's self deception however I'm definitely not an empath like OP

Maybe it is self deception,

I crashed my car into some old fart and she got fucked up, or atleast her car did, she seemed fine

But I flipped that bitches car on its side

I was standing there, some guy said "are you alright"

I said "I'm fine I'm just worried about this lady"

Bro I didn't give a fuck about that lady All I was thinking about is what the police will do to me and the financial shit I'm about to deal with

How can a guy like that care about "making people comfortable"

Maybe it's just politeness. Not kindness