I have been unhappy for years and i kinda grew onto it. Does anyone know how to fix that or atleast in a simmilar situation

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Get a bike
 
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surgery , the only way to be happy is to look good.. :blackpill: sadly bp is right
 
youve given us absolutely no context so how are we supposed to help
i was asking if there are any guys like me, also here is some context. idk if that are the reasons maybe i am just a pussy low t, but during covid i got addicted to anime then hentai and then porn. that combined with social isolation started worsening my social skills. 1 year later i found friends and a girl but she left me and started making fun of me because i was as tall as her shoulders or boobs( i kinda deserved it because i made fun of people behind their back) and for some period she started teasing me with some posts she send only to me to make me jealous and yeah. 1 year after she left me 99% of my friends ghosted me and started making fun of me. that period of time i was almost completely alone( i still had 1 friend tho). 1 year later(now) we grew apart with that friend but this year i started going out with some school friends more commonly and i met new people.
I am still addicted to porn, tik tok, phone, and newly black pill to this day. i sometimes zone out and look sad unknowingly and people point that a lot(it gets annoying). that is pretty much all. the lack of confidence is obvious
 
get a bike and a cart go on a hill before sunset and chill there its pretty good
i think that is only temporary happiness. i think maybe happiness should come from within but idk how to do that
 
surgery , the only way to be happy is to look good.. :blackpill: sadly bp is right
many depressed chads bhai. if i am boring and attractive i could attract but not keep girls
 
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i was asking if there are any guys like me, also here is some context. idk if that are the reasons maybe i am just a pussy low t, but during covid i got addicted to anime then hentai and then porn. that combined with social isolation started worsening my social skills. 1 year later i found friends and a girl but she left me and started making fun of me because i was as tall as her shoulders or boobs( i kinda deserved it because i made fun of people behind their back) and for some period she started teasing me with some posts she send only to me to make me jealous and yeah. 1 year after she left me 99% of my friends ghosted me and started making fun of me. that period of time i was almost completely alone( i still had 1 friend tho). 1 year later(now) we grew apart with that friend but this year i started going out with some school friends more commonly and i met new people.
I am still addicted to porn, tik tok, phone, and newly black pill to this day. i sometimes zone out and look sad unknowingly and people point that a lot(it gets annoying). that is pretty much all. the lack of confidence is obvious
i feel you
its because your dopamine receptors are fucked, youre depressed because of your addiction to porn and social media.
you should start reducing your screen time and porn consumption.
youre fortunately meeting new people and thats a good start
 
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i feel you
its because your dopamine receptors are fucked, youre depressed because of your addiction to porn and social media.
you should start reducing your screen time and porn consumption.
youre fortunately meeting new people and thats a good start
thanks sir, any tips. i think filling my time productively is the key?
 
thanks sir, any tips. i think filling my time productively is the key?
that wont work if youre truly addicted, you'll start making time and excuses to scroll on social media and watch porn

What you should do:

Porn addiction: if you jerk off 5 times a day for example, reduce the amount by 1 every 3 days.
So if you jerked off 5 times a day on monday, you'll jerk off 4 times on wednesday and so on.

Social media addiction: you know those apps that limit your social media screen time right? use those until youre able to watch tiktok for 1 hour max a day

However, your porn addiction means that you'll get horny easily, so try to find a girlfriend (while youre doing the stuff i listed above) where you could convert all that lust into love
 
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i think that is only temporary happiness. i think maybe happiness should come from within but idk how to do that
Happiness comes from what you do you gotta find peace to find happiness
 

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