I have completely lost interest in trying to date women

[STAMPEDE]

Anyone else like me? Im almost 21 now but i have completely given up on trying to date women at like 17. In fact I never tried but I never ever tried in my life with any woman. It’s impressive tbh.


I don’t even shave or shower that much, I don’t take care of myself and I dress like shit despite having good clothes. I think it’s better to not try at all than trying and having no results anyway.

 

[noodlelover]

Anyone else like me? Im almost 21 now but i have completely given up on trying to date women at like 17. In fact I never tried but I never ever tried in my life with any woman. It’s impressive tbh.


I don’t even shave or shower that much, I don’t take care of myself and I dress like shit despite having good clothes. I think it’s better to not try at all than trying and having no results anyway.

It took me many many more decades until I gave up. As soon as I gave up, my life because million times better. I enjoy every little thing I do now.

No more suffering, rejection after rejection, trying strategy after strategy hoping this next looksmax, smvmax, locationmax, gamemax, stylemax, will finally be the thing that grants me a non-feminist, non-bitchy, moderately attractive girl, only to be again disappointed.

I still go to the gym, eat healthy, and work on improving my life, but that's for me and my health.

 

[thereallegend]

You should still looksmaxx, healthmaxx, moneymaxx, surgerymaxx, geomaxx. Your life gets so much better when you do these things.

 

[truthhurts]

It took me many many more decades until I gave up. As soon as I gave up, my life because million times better. I enjoy every little thing I do now.

No more suffering, rejection after rejection, trying strategy after strategy hoping this next looksmax, smvmax, locationmax, gamemax, stylemax, will finally be the thing that grants me a non-feminist, non-bitchy, moderately attractive girl, only to be again disappointed.

I still go to the gym, eat healthy, and work on improving my life, but that's for me and my health.

How old is you unc?

 

[noodlelover]

How old is you unc?

my uncle?

 

[Julian23]

Low T

 

[truthhurts]

my uncle?

No you

 

[noodlelover]

No you

Every time I post my age it's a lie. But the fact is, I am older than most users here.

 

[WeiWei]

Same. I'm also broke so literally pre-occupied with tryna survive

 

[truthhurts]

Every time I post my age it's a lie. But the fact is, I am older than most users here.

That’s an answer I didn’t want to hear

 

[noodlelover]

That’s an answer I didn’t want to hear

Naaa it's fine. I still mog plenty of twenty year olds.

 

[The Grinch]

Every time I post my age it's a lie. But the fact is, I am older than most users here.

"Noodle-lover“

 

[noodlelover]

"Noodle-lover“

It means I love noodles. Noodles is a word for asian women because they look like noodles.

 

[truthhurts]

Naaa it's fine. I still mog plenty of twenty year olds.

What’s ur age then?

 

[valentine]

i just dont give a fuck i was talking to this one girl whos rly good looking but i was ignoring her bc i was on fortnite with friends. i will never understand mfs who try hard to be in a relationship, theres no benefits to it

 

[noodlelover]

What’s ur age then?

about 25

 

[Krisis]

Anyone else like me? Im almost 21 now but i have completely given up on trying to date women at like 17. In fact I never tried but I never ever tried in my life with any woman. It’s impressive tbh.


I don’t even shave or shower that much, I don’t take care of myself and I dress like shit despite having good clothes. I think it’s better to not try at all than trying and having no results anyway.

If hygiene isn't a concern, that sounds like textbook depression. Even if you've given up on love, rejecting the bare minimum of taking care of yourself is a form of self-rejection.

You shouldn't give up. You can heal. I hope things work out for you.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

i just dont give a fuck i was talking to this one girl whos rly good looking but i was ignoring her bc i was on fortnite with friends. i will never understand mfs who try hard to be in a relationship, theres no benefits to it

@Amnesia made a good post they all turn out to be the same way naggy and ungrateful in the end

 

[valentine]

@Amnesia made a good post they all turn out to be the same way naggy and ungrateful in the end

can u tag me? either way i dont care about dating or losing my virginity i just want to look good to make ppl feel like shit lmao

 

[moreplatesmoreweigh]

Date men then

 

[STAMPEDE]

i just dont give a fuck i was talking to this one girl whos rly good looking but i was ignoring her bc i was on fortnite with friends. i will never understand mfs who try hard to be in a relationship, theres no benefits to it

After a certain age mfs think they’re missing out that’s why they begin to try, But I think some people just aren’t fit for relationships.

 

[valentine]

After a certain age mfs think they’re missing out that’s why they begin to try, But I think some people just aren’t fit for relationships.

i dont even try and never have. i cant imagine asking a girl out and then she rejects you. im not willing to take no disrespect like that from some stupid bitch. they gotta ask me out first

 

[STAMPEDE]

If hygiene isn't a concern, that sounds like textbook depression. Even if you've given up on love, rejecting the bare minimum of taking care of yourself is a form of self-rejection.

You shouldn't give up. You can heal. I hope things work out for you.

I don’t really see a point in “taking care of myself” because it’s not like I am seeing anyone or going anywhere.

 

[STAMPEDE]

i dont even try and never have. i cant imagine asking a girl out and then she rejects you. im not willing to take no disrespect like that from some stupid bitch. they gotta ask me out first

Same, modern women just aren’t worth trying for.

 

[axttt_]

my smv is too low to even have had a chance tbh

 

[Krisis]

I don’t really see a point in “taking care of myself” because it’s not like I am seeing anyone or going anywhere.

I felt similarly some time ago. This stems from a negative view of yourself. Taking care of yourself requires you to believe that you're worth taking care of. Going out into the world, talking to people, and especially trying to form relationships all require you to believe that you have value. And you do have value. I hope you learn to see it in yourself.

 

[bloomercel]

I felt similarly some time ago. This stems from a negative view of yourself. Taking care of yourself requires you to believe that you're worth taking care of. Going out into the world, talking to people, and especially trying to form relationships all require you to believe that you have value. And you do have value. I hope you learn to see it in yourself.

Not to women, we don't. Still, there are plenty of copes out there. Plenty of good video games despite what people say.

 

[romanstock]

about 25

OP is 21. You said: "It took me many many more decades until I gave up."

That implies you're above 40 minimum.

 

[shewantsme]

Me too. I try to talk to women around me but they have such bland and boring personalities that I lose interest halfway through, like there's no spark in their eyes and they have no energy. Just hanging around for attention

 

[Whatever]

I can never try. I can't do it without proximity, I need life to be putting girls in front of me in an organic and convenient way. On my own I will get nothing, even when girls approach me I'm too awkward for it. The only thing I even try is swiping on Hinge (I haven't even tried Tinder in many years) and not even messaging most of my matches or answering girls who message me, I don't cold approach or go out on my own. I desperately need either a social circle or a job in nightlife, but neither of those things is an option right now, so I don't know what the fuck to do.

 

[Krisis]

Not to women, we don't. Still, there are plenty of copes out there. Plenty of good video games despite what people say.

Not with that attitude.

I recognize self-esteem is a rarity on a forum like this, but I don't feel the least bit ridiculous in trying to oppose it. If you want something bad enough, you need to work on suppressing whatever it is within you that is leading you to believe it's out of your reach.

Obviously, I'm not advocating that you be unrealistic about your future, but your life experiences have burdened you with a monumental level of self-doubt, which is holding you back. I can't speak on what you've been through, the pain you've experienced, but you should never capitulate to it--no matter how easy it is to do so. You're worth the effort.

 

[bloomercel]

Not with that attitude.

I recognize self-esteem is a rarity on a forum like this, but I don't feel the least bit ridiculous in trying to oppose it. If you want something bad enough, you need to work on suppressing whatever it is within you that is leading you to believe it's out of your reach.

Obviously, I'm not advocating that you be unrealistic about your future, but your life experiences have burdened you with a monumental level of self-doubt, which is holding you back. I can't speak on what you've been through, the pain you've experienced, but you should never capitulate to it--no matter how easy it is to do so. You're worth the effort.

How tall are you?

 

[Krisis]

How tall are you?

6'0, but there's no point in hyperfixating on height. It only matters as much as you think it matters.

 

[negativetiltedheart]

looking attractive is fucking easy if u are not recessed. Just get fucking lean as fuck. Grow fucking pretty boy hair and stubble. Start wearing nice aff outfit and height fraud and put effort in skin.. They will fucking like u. Im big nosed skinny manlet ethnic but because I care about my look .. I get so much attention. Dont be autistic Psl perfectionist. Nobody give shit about Small failos.. Also u need have some social skill.

 

[noodlelover]

OP is 21. You said: "It took me many many more decades until I gave up."

That implies you're above 40 minimum.

Yes but at least 50% of the things I say about myself are exaggerations or outright lies.

 

[Ruthless]

Whitepill

 

[STAMPEDE]

6'0, but there's no point in hyperfixating on height. It only matters as much as you think it matters.

6’0 isn’t even a tall height where i live so being 6’1 doesn’t help me

 

[STAMPEDE]

looking attractive is fucking easy if u are not recessed. Just get fucking lean as fuck. Grow fucking pretty boy hair and stubble. Start wearing nice aff outfit and height fraud and put effort in skin.. They will fucking like u. Im big nosed skinny manlet ethnic but because I care about my look .. I get so much attention. Dont be autistic Psl perfectionist. Nobody give shit about Small failos.. Also u need have some social skill.

nah bro bones matter, hair quality matters, height matters, face matters. no matter how much you take care of yourself you can’t change that

 

[STAMPEDE]

I can never try. I can't do it without proximity, I need life to be putting girls in front of me in an organic and convenient way. On my own I will get nothing, even when girls approach me I'm too awkward for it. The only thing I even try is swiping on Hinge (I haven't even tried Tinder in many years) and not even messaging most of my matches or answering girls who message me, I don't cold approach or go out on my own. I desperately need either a social circle or a job in nightlife, but neither of those things is an option right now, so I don't know what the fuck to do.

Exactly the same as me, I have literally 0 options to even try. I don’t see a chance to even start trying because of 0 options that I have

 

[STAMPEDE]

Me too. I try to talk to women around me but they have such bland and boring personalities that I lose interest halfway through, like there's no spark in their eyes and they have no energy. Just hanging around for attention

it’s true that women today are mostly boring and bland and have no personalities at all, and most are whores already by 15 years of age.

 

[negativetiltedheart]

nah bro bones matter, hair quality matters, height matters, face matters. no matter how much you take care of yourself you can’t change that

Only think I have is big chin, good eyebrows, good forehead and hair... Im doing good. Maybe u standard are too high.