I have never been to a party

[Deleted member 6577]

Is it weird? Am I missing out on life?

 

[Deleted member 11053]

No

 

[Deleted member 4430]

yeah, you missing a lot

 

[Gonthar]

It depends, what kind of party are we talking about, there are all sorts of events when people gather that can be classified as "parties".

 

[Deleted member 6577]

It depends, what kind of party are we talking about, there are all sorts of events when people gather that can be classified as "parties".

the type of parties that people throw after graduating and on college. They are so popular, but I really don’t get the hype.

 

[sorrowfulsad]

It depends, what kind of party are we talking about, there are all sorts of events when people gather that can be classified as "parties".

I bet all of these stock images chads and stacies fucked after

 

[Gonthar]

the type of parties that people throw after graduating and on college. They are so popular, but I really don’t get the hype.

The graduation parties seem kinda stiff, everyone is dressed in suits and fancy dresses, the teachers are also there, I really don't see their appeal, not to mention you probably won't see many of the people from there and you'll all go on your separate ways...
House, dorm, college parties seem more fun.

 

[Deleted member 6577]

The graduation parties seem kinda stiff, everyone is dressed in suits and fancy dresses, the teachers are also there, I really don't see their appeal, not to mention you probably won't see many of the people from there and you'll all go on your separate ways...
House, dorm, college parties seem more fun.

Well, not for me. I am the reclusive type, prefer spending time alone. Severely autistic most likely.

 

[ThatDjangoWalk]

Well, not for me. I am the reclusive type, prefer spending time alone. Severely autistic most likely.

Don't worry bro, there is no problem with you, quite the contrary really, you like more productive conversations and interactions which is the best and most intelligent thing to do

Nowadays is better to stay away from those kind of parties and gatherings to be honest, they usually just bring unecessary problems

 

[Deleted member 9217]

Yeah its pretty fun getting drunk with a lot of people at someones house. Everyone is usually more chill when drunk. Depends on who ur with tho. If everyone at the party is an asshole it won't be fun. Def something you should experience at least once if you have the opportunity.

 

[justadude]

yes you are

 

[Lux]

same & yeah it's a loss

 

[Blue]

Don't worry bro, there is no problem with you, quite the contrary really, you like more productive conversations and interactions which is the best and most intelligent thing to do

Nowadays is better to stay away from those kind of parties and gatherings to be honest, they usually just bring unecessary problems

I definitely agree, but the thing is, by having a solitary lifestyle it's much harder to meet people - especially girls - since those stupid parties are the place to be for most young people...

 

[Gonthar]

Well, not for me. I am the reclusive type, prefer spending time alone. Severely autistic most likely.

OMG, you need to go to parties, don't waste your best years alone!

 

[ThatDjangoWalk]

I definitely agree, but the thing is, by having a solitary lifestyle it's much harder to meet people - especially girls - since those stupid parties are the place to be for most young people...

Well i'm a muslim and we have other means and methods for getting married, we are too in Islam encouraged to marry at a young age if we have the means for it and we can provide for our wife, and we are not allowed to such mixings between man and woman

But definetly i understand what you are saying Blue since i am on Europe and you may be right, i guess too that by being a solitary person one has more difficulties to get a wife, the only advice that crosses through my head right now is that is has benefits too, your (not you personally but in general) relationship may not be caused or obligatory upon you because in one night you made a girl pregnant or other type of factors especially nowadays when the law in almost every country is changing constantly and this happens to a lot of people believe it or not

I know an old man who had a similar experience and he had to take care of the kids of course, so he basically spended like 40 years of his life because of that unexpected event working as a nurse and he could not leave it, it was almost like prison because he has to provide for the family

One person who avoids those things and searches for a woman when he is in his best financial and social moment has pretty much a big advantage over the other type of person, and his marriage is probably more prone to succeed which makes it easier to grow better prepared offspring

 

[Blue]

Well i'm a muslim and we have other means and methods for getting married, we are too in Islam encouraged to marry at a young age if we have the means for it and we can provide for our wife, and we are not allowed to such mixings between man and woman

But definetly i understand what you are saying Blue since i am on Europe and you may be right, i guess too that by being a solitary person one has more difficulties to get a wife, the only advice that crosses through my head right now is that is has benefits too, your (not you personally but in general) relationship may not be caused or obligatory upon you because in one night you made a girl pregnant or other type of factors especially nowadays when the law in almost every country is changing constantly and this happens to a lot of people believe it or not

I know an old man who had a similar experience and he had to take care of the kids of course, so he basically spended like 40 years of his life because of that unexpected event working as a nurse and he could not leave it, it was almost like prison because he has to provide for the family

One person who avoids those things and searches for a woman when he is in his best financial and social moment has pretty much a big advantage over the other type of person, and his marriage is probably more prone to succeed which makes it easier to grow better prepared offspring

Yes, as far as I know you're supposed to marry early and many marriages are still arranged in Islamic cultures. I honestly think you can consider yourself blessed, because that's a nice tradition that ensures you passing down your family's bloodline and (hopefully) getting a good mate for life too!

While the laws in the west are pretty bad and not on the side of men at all, I'm not really interested in hooking up with as many females as possible, so I shouldn't run into problems like that.

As for finding a mate, recently I found my way back to God so I will go to church (once lockdown ends) and try my best there, since I have definitely neglected this aspect of life the last few years. While most people my age aren't really practicing their religion, there still is a decent amount of those who do, which gives me hope.

 

[ThatDjangoWalk]

Yes, as far as I know you're supposed to marry early and many marriages are still arranged in Islamic cultures. I honestly think you can consider yourself blessed, because that's a nice tradition that ensures you passing down your family's bloodline and (hopefully) getting a good mate for life too!

Thank you very much

While the laws in the west are pretty bad and not on the side of men at all, I'm not really interested in hooking up with as many females as possible, so I shouldn't run into problems like that.

As for finding a mate, recently I found my way back to God so I will go to church (once lockdown ends) and try my best there, since I have definitely neglected this aspect of life the last few years. While most people my age aren't really practicing their religion, there still is a decent amount of those who do, which gives me hope.

I love the fact that you are rejecting that we are as human beings a randomness and a coincidence which makes no sense, and accepting that we have a purpose for life, and that you feel close to God Insha Allah (Insha Allah means Allah Willing)

Anyway, i always recommend Islam as the true path and i will make Dua'a to Allah (ask to Allah) for you

It's always good to talk with respectful people like you