I have no social life and its killing me

[MasterEscapist]

I feel like the loneliest dude ever, I simply can’t cultivate friendships worth a damn.

I’m ASD and that makes this whole conundrum far much of a pain in the ass to deal with. I don’t get along with normies and I don’t get along with autistics. It’s the same bullshit over and over again. Getting left on read, removed, or ghosted. It’s the most frustrating shit ever.

I’m 23 now and I need to find a way to behave as NT as possible. Without any cohesive social circle it’s even more difficult to meet women if all you have to rely on is dating apps as a loner. So how do I act more NT?

 

[BloodClot]

Idk but goodluck

 

[MasterEscapist]

Idk but goodluck

Thanks I guess

 

[comingtothisJFL]

I don’t get along with normies and I don’t get along with autistics

wtf more can i say? ever heard of pretending?? i hate every mfer that crosses my path but guess what?? i pretend to be a normal human

 

[Sprinkles]

.org is your social life nigga

 

[Tabula Rasa]

looksmax

 

[StuntmanMike]

Yeah you need looksmaxxx.Forget about socializing with others.If you can manage to look good then you can get average tier girls by using dating apps

 

[Nick.Harte]

Yeah you need looksmaxxx.Forget about socializing with others.If you can manage to look good then you can get average tier girls by using dating apps

I agree with you because it’s useless to try to socialise if he is not ready yet and people will still avoid him anyway. If he was good enough he would not be in this position. Looksmaxxing and then try again is a better idea.

 

[Nick.Harte]

I can relate bro. I’m in the same position like you and there’s no point forcing through things. How would you rate yourself ? LTN ?

 

[TUSSELEIF]

That’s the fate of us ASD niggas. We are not the same species as NTs, it’s just impossible for us to be

 

[Deleted member 25059]

.org is your social life nigga

Thats sad

 

[Nick.Harte]

Thats sad

Yeah, but and i can't imagine how lonely he would have felt if .org didn't exist

 

[WeiWei]

You aren't a foid, you don't need one

 

[MasterEscapist]

I can relate bro. I’m in the same position like you and there’s no point forcing through things. How would you rate yourself ? LTN ?

I don’t think much of myself but if this says anything, the most matches i’ve had on tinder/fb dating were 45 and 70, respectively. But of course none of these really count as they never became meetups.

 

[Nick.Harte]

I don’t think much of myself but if this says anything, the most matches i’ve had on tinder/fb dating were 45 and 70, respectively. But of course none of these really count as they never became meetups.

its bad if they didnt became meetups. means you arent that good looking. idk what to say, keep looksmaxxing and hope that you can get out of this rut. Good luck

 

[MasterEscapist]

its bad if they didnt became meetups. means you arent that good looking. idk what to say, keep looksmaxxing and hope that you can get out of this rut. Good luck

Vast majority of them didn’t, no. However I was invited to this college girl’s dorm within a day of matching. She was easily a htb and was very affectionate, but didn’t smash that night. Low and behold, she ghosted me after a week of talking.