I have zero dating experience

[Deleted member 6577]

I'm 27 and I have never been kissed. I have zero romantic experience with anyone. What's the best way for someone like me to actually find someone to get to know and date?

 

[Julian]

I'm 27 and I have never been kissed. I have zero romantic experience with anyone. What's the best way for someone like me to actually find someone to get to know and date?

Pay a hooker

 

[Deleted member 8576]

i think if u just be confident and take a shower and hold frame you are good to go, just talk to her

 

[Deleted member 6577]

Pay a hooker

no money :/

 

[Deleted member 616]

21 or 27?

Either way you belong to the very bottom :

 

[Deleted member 2854]

27? Fuck

 

[Deleted member 6577]

21 or 27?

Either way you belong to the very bottom :
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27

 

[Deleted member 6577]

27? Fuck

yep

 

[Deleted member 2854]

yep

What do you look like? What circumstances got you to this point?

 

[Cares]

right, you basically have had zero physical contact with the opposite sex and are 27. You have to at least give us something to work with here or we will not really be able to help in where you are going wrong

 

[Germania]

no money :/

50$€ come on, i'll sponsor you if necessary

 

[sprize]

selfpost bro so we can judge

 

[Deleted member 6867]

Can you summarize your life and where your from from age 18 - 27 so we can get an idea of how you ended up here

 

[Short Ugly and Brown]

I'm 27 and I have never been kissed. I have zero romantic experience with anyone. What's the best way for someone like me to actually find someone to get to know and date?

what your race?

 

[Bewusst]

1. Ask highly competent and experienced members on looksmax.me
2. Apply their valuable advice
3. At least in jail the rent and intercourse is free

 

[Pillarman]

did you go outside during those years? do you have social media and do people know you ?

 

[aphoria]

Aspie? Love-shy? Ugly? Micropenis? Midget?

How many of these?

 

[poloralf]

Excellent , you're a pure unsullied incel protect your virginity like your life depends on it, train mma so you can beat up girls that want to take your virginity.

 

[Deusmaximus]

You are already to old for young unexperienced girls, and older girls at your age will laugh at your loser virgin ass.
Dark times are waiting for you my friend.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I'm 27 and I have never been kissed. I have zero romantic experience with anyone. What's the best way for someone like me to actually find someone to get to know and date?

How many women, have you talked with in a way that you asked them out for a date type of secenario?? Aka, who many women do you meet, AND how many did you ask out (for a date)??

How much online dating have you triied/wipe success rate, etc??

What your looks level??

The answer to above stuff. Gives us a guideline on what to do.!

 

[CursedOne]

50$€ come on, i'll sponsor you if necessary

how much does bj cost?

 

[eduardkoopman]

You are already to old for young unexperienced girls, and older girls at your age will laugh at your loser virgin ass.
Dark times are waiting for you my friend.

Truth-ish.

I lost mine at mid 20's, 26. Which was also shitton late (because normie looks + introverted + shy/high inhib) . But I managed to lose it to a 20 year old woman. That said, I looked atthat time also younger then 26 (more like 22).

OBVIOULSY, I lied about being a virgin to foids. I just avoided the subject matter. OR, if it came up I would say I had some experience.
The 1st woman I had sex with, must have known afterwrads, so bad it/I was, that I was virgin. But I didn't care, I was over the moon to have finally lost my V-card. Luckily after that followed quickly-ish girl number 2 where I had a flings with of a couple of months, and I learned to have and experience good/better sex.

 

[Deleted member 1862]

fuckin rip bitch

 

[Deleted member 7076]

damn brutal
what circumstances lead to this

 

[Germania]

how much does bj cost?

Never paid a hooker But i heared it's not very expensive

 

[Deleted member 6577]

did you go outside during those years? do you have social media and do people know you ?

I have facebook

 

[Deleted member 6577]

What do you look like? What circumstances got you to this point?

I think i look good

 

[Deleted member 6577]

damn brutal
what circumstances lead to this

Idk i just didnt pay a lot of attention on getting girls and now i started to worry about it a bit

 

[Deleted member 5683]

I'm 27

Join the 27 club

 

[Deleted member 6577]

Join the 27 club

what is it

 

[Deleted member 2854]

I think i look good

Doesn’t matter what you think. It matters what girls think. Anyway you need to provide way more info than this if you want help:
- pics of you
- height
- build
- race
- location
- what you tried to do to meet them so far
- list any mental issues you have
Etc

 

[eduardkoopman]

Idk i just didnt pay a lot of attention on getting girls and now i started to worry about it a bit

How many women, have you talked with in a way that you asked them out for a date type of secenario?? Aka, who many women do you meet, AND how many did you ask out (for a date)??

How much online dating have you triied/wipe success rate, etc??

 

[Deleted member 6577]

How many women, have you talked with in a way that you asked them out for a date type of secenario?? Aka, who many women do you meet, AND how many did you ask out (for a date)??

How much online dating have you triied/wipe success rate, etc??

I was on some partys and some dates but i kinda didn’t get the vibe of it and didn’t like it. I just never had an intimate relation with somebody except my family and it worries me a bit because im getting old

 

[eduardkoopman]

I was on some partys and some dates

passive cel???

My normie ass. Took like 250 chatups, and bothering womens, before first lay.
Could had happened sooner a bit in those 250, but I was good at fucking it up.

 

[ProAcktiv]

What do you look like? What circumstances got you to this point?

right, you basically have had zero physical contact with the opposite sex and are 27. You have to at least give us something to work with here or we will not really be able to help in where you are going wrong

selfpost bro so we can judge

How many women, have you talked with in a way that you asked them out for a date type of secenario?? Aka, who many women do you meet, AND how many did you ask out (for a date)??

How much online dating have you triied/wipe success rate, etc??

What your looks level??

The answer to above stuff. Gives us a guideline on what to do.!

He already did a rate me - https://looksmax.org/threads/can-u-rate-me.183675/#post-3144828. needs to lose some bloat but should be able to lose v card

 

[Cares]

He already did a rate me - https://looksmax.org/threads/can-u-rate-me.183675/#post-3144828. needs to lose some bloat but should be able to lose v card

He should start a skin routine and get in shape especially given his age. I do agree that he could lose his v card, though. I guess, he must just be autistic and not know how to talk to chicks

 

[Deleted member 2854]

He doesn’t look bad at all 5/10 could get laid with a bit of effort

 

[eduardkoopman]

He already did a rate me - https://looksmax.org/threads/can-u-rate-me.183675/#post-3144828. needs to lose some bloat but should be able to lose v card

I see.
Yeah he looked imo normie range. Mogged me at 26 though, I looked 0.5 PSL less for sure.

If I could lose my v card, so can he.
But, normies need to put in alot of efforts to get laid usually.
So OP, has to effort max. Aka meet alot of women and try to get some with them. To get laid.

 

[eduardkoopman]

He doesn’t look bad at all 5/10 could get laid with a bit of effort

Alot of effort.

I guestimate. But the average dude has to put in alot of effort to get laid. In most locations in the world.

 

[ezio6]

Pay a hooker

this

 

[CommanderCope]

Pay a hooker

Only good for virgins who are more worried about the sex part than the relationship part. OP can pay a hooker for sex but it won't fix his need for an intimate relationship.

Escorting is probably my solution if I can't lose it normally before my 20th. People can huff and puff all day about how it 'doesn't count' but it's better than being a completely inexperienced permavirgin.

Unfortunately OP you're past the age of college and it's probably harder now to find girls. I'm also gonna assume that you've tried online dating and it didn't work. Your best bet really is careermaxxing and gaining status and money. After all you only need 2 of LMS to find success in life (because 2 of them usually give the third). The reality is that you'll probably be betabuxxing.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Only good for virgins who are more worried about the sex part than the relationship part. OP can pay a hooker for sex but it won't fix his need for an intimate relationship.
Escorting

Escort/hooker LACKS the female Validation aspect.

When losing V-card. To a NOT hooker

1. It's partly a relieve: That you experienced the feeling ofreal life sex.
2. It's partly a relieve: That youa woman wants to fuck you, validates that you are attractive enough, to fuck without her having/needing to do it or having to bribe her with direct money transfer.

When doing hooker to lose v-card:
Still Validation virgin

 

[CommanderCope]

Escort/hooker LACKS the female Validation aspect.

When losing V-card. To a NOT hooker

1. It's partly a relieve: That you experienced the feeling ofreal life sex.
2. It's partly a relieve: That youa woman wants to fuck you, validates that you are attractive enough, to fuck without her having/needing to do it or having to bribe her with direct money transfer.

When doing hooker to lose v-card:
Still Validation virgin

Is see the 'validation' part as being part of the relationship intimacy. Some people don't give a shit about relationships but would rather just know what sex feels like. Sex between a real person and an escort is no different, the physical process is the same. Plenty of people lose their virginity while drunk as fuck or to just do for the sake of doing it, sex is just sex. Sure it's better to do it with someone you know and love but the base process is the same.

So my point still stands. Escorts are great for the sex, useless to solve the issue of being genuinely wanted. Which is why I'm NOT recommending it since it doesn't solve OPs problem which is a lack of relationship.

 

[Lev Peshkov]

welcome to club

 

[Deleted member 7901]

I have seen your pics and you don't look incel at all, you don't really need any plastic surgery to ascend tbh, I think that rhinoplasty will benefit you greatly but it really isn't necessary for you, seems like the only reason you didn't get laid is because you didn't really care about it

 

[eduardkoopman]

Is see the 'validation' part as being part of the relationship intimacy.
Escorts are great for the sex, useless to solve the issue of being genuinely wanted. Which is why I'm NOT recommending it since it doesn't solve OPs problem which is a lack of relationship.

Imo.
When not doing a hooker.

There are 2 possible validation options, you get on top of it.
1. validation (this one for sure) that a woman finds you hot enough to bang. Validation of your sexual attractiveness.
2. If she wants you to stick around thereafter, and wants an LTR. Validation of your Long Term relationship attractiveness.

 

[Deleted member 6573]

Your skin is completely shit tier and sun damaged as fuck. Get on tret and sunscreen asap and you will ascend. Everything else is good.

 

[CommanderCope]

Imo.
When not doing a hooker.

There are 2 possible validation options, you get on top of it.
1. validation (this one for sure) that a woman finds you hot enough to bang. Validation of your sexual attractiveness.
2. If she wants you to stick around thereafter, and wants an LTR. Validation of your Long Term relationship attractiveness.

Yeah. i'm agreeing with you jfl. Escorts are good for people who care about the sex only.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Yeah. i'm agreeing with you jfl. Escorts are good for people who care about the sex only.

Truth.
I would say in general.
People that care about sex only. Often have had their sahre of validation already, so that's less of an thing for them to care about.