I honestly wish I did a gap year before going to university

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I'm in my second year now and I can barely cope with this shit anymore. I feel like if I had done a gap year to improooove I would be doing way better both academically and socially. My mental state is the worst it's ever been and I'm on the borderline of dropping out.

I genuinely kind of want to drop and go back next year maybe on a different course even but I don't know if it's worth it.
 
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Same I'm in my 2nd year and i wish I took a year off to at the very least get my looks right before coming here ngl
 
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Same I'm in my 2nd year and i wish I took a year off to at the very least get my looks right before coming here ngl
Yeah it would be nice to start university over again if I could go back fully leanmaxxed and after genio
 
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Beyond over for study-slaves.
 
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only half a year left for me to go to uni

fuck i need to ascend asap
 
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I did a gap year and didn’t get a job xD
 
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It’s only going to get worse tbh. If I was in this situation I’d drop out and go back at a later time.

You only get one shot at university, it’s why I’ve delayed going for like a year. It genuinely must be suifuel for an ugly guy at university, especially if you aren’t NT either.
 
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The state I entered university in at 17yo was abysmal. My parents forced me, pushed me to go to university as quickly as possible.

But I wasn't ready whatsoever and it ended up as a complete waste. JFL at society+family pushing you to do shit that fucks up your life.
 
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It’s only going to get worse tbh. If I was in this situation I’d drop out and go back at a later time.

You only get one shot at university, it’s why I’ve delayed going for like a year. It genuinely must be suifuel for an ugly guy at university, especially if you aren’t NT either.
What age are you going to be starting university at? One of the things I'm worried about if I drop out and go back is my age. I'll be just turned 20 if I go back next year and I don't want to feel like an oldcel among all the freshmen if I'm trying to socialise.

My looks are averageish but I'm a manlet and I'm diagnosed autistic and those are the main things holding me back. I feel like if I could max out my looks and get into a better mental state I could actually live a good uni life.
 
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The state I entered university in at 17yo was abysmal. My parents forced me, pushed me to go to university as quickly as possible.

But I wasn't ready whatsoever and it ended up as a complete waste. JFL at society+family pushing you to do shit that fucks up your life.
I went right when I turned 18. I wasn't even made to go by my family but I felt that I had to go.
 
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I doubt that was because you did a gap year though
true. If you do work you can fund a lot of important shit, will help with life experience maxxing and improving ur looks
 
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true. If you do work you can fund a lot of important shit, will help with life experience maxxing and improving ur looks
If I drop out I'll get some factory job and moneymax probably
 
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I went right when I turned 18. I wasn't even made to go by my family but I felt that I had to go.
my parents told me that I would be kicked out of the house if I didn't go, at 17yo. They are disgusting human beings.
i hate my parents, they destroyed my life. I have cut them out of my life entirely now, I am now an orphan.:ogre:

I went to an university about ~2hours of public-transit travel away, while staying at home.(my parents really didn't want me to move out, staying in house was crucial to them) So I had to travel 4 hours in total every day just to attend.
I was waking up at 6AM and coming home at 9PM. 0 social-life. Just purely a slave for some study I wasn't even super passionate about.

it destroyed me.
 
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Me too bro
I thought you didn't want to do university altogether? I mean at least if you drop out now you haven't wasted a whole year like I have since I'm already done my first year
 
What age are you going to be starting university at? One of the things I'm worried about if I drop out and go back is my age. I'll be just turned 20 if I go back next year and I don't want to feel like an oldcel among all the freshmen if I'm trying to socialise.
I’ll be 20 too, but I’ll just larp as 18. Realistically no one is gonna know, even then 20 isn’t old at all. If they see me as a first year then they’ll just assume I’m young.

My looks are averageish but I'm a manlet and I'm diagnosed autistic and those are the main things holding me back. I feel like if I could max out my looks and get into a better mental state I could actually live a good uni life.
You can do it if you know exactly what to do and if you have the money. Being a manlet means lifts are mandatory and the autism I have no idea what to recommend. How do you react to alcohol? Does it still make you a sperg or are you somewhat more NT?
 
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a gap year won't make you more ready. if you were 1 year older you would be feeling the same. it's a matter of gaining experience and you don't get experience by sitting at home and working in mcdonalds. 25 year olds are better at socializing because they've gained experience in uni, not because they've dropped out. it's the drop-outs that still act like teens and don't know how to socialize and have shitty jobs.
 
It’s only going to get worse tbh. If I was in this situation I’d drop out and go back at a later time.

You only get one shot at university, it’s why I’ve delayed going for like a year. It genuinely must be suifuel for an ugly guy at university, especially if you aren’t NT either.
Yea I'm in second year university and I regret not looksmaxxing more before I started. I did all the classic softmaxxes from here and was somewhat gymcelled + did a little of what many might call "hardmaxxing". But it wasn't enough to compensate for my non-NT personality.

If you plan on doing surgeries or any kind of invasive procedure looksmaxxes in your life ever, get them done before uni. Doesn't matter if you have to go into debt. You want to look the best you can possibly look before going there if you're not NT.

First day of freshers week you want to be fashionmaxxed, surgery maxxed, roided and drugged out on pregabalin. I wasn't and from then on my experience has just gone downhill. Now I'm just as much as a friendless no-name here I was back in high school, and I was sure I was fully prepared and blackpilled enough before starting :feelswhy:
 
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