i just wanted people to like me

[swt]

everything i’ve did in my life was a attempt to fit in somewhere, i just wanted to be liked

i was super nice to everyone yet people wouldn’t spit on me if i was on fire, no one even likes me

the only times i was shown respect was the times i forced myself to be brutal towards people, they started approaching me more

 

[swt]

isn’t that ironic?

 

[LTNUser]

For that you've to be Chad

 

[Deleted member 120650]

There is a quote from the bible that states: "Be wise as serpents but innocent as sheep" or some shit. Go by that. Don't be unnecessarily nice to people who don't benefit you or deserve it. Know when someone is playing you or doesn't respect you.

 

[Deleted member 120755]

everything i’ve did in my life was a attempt to fit in somewhere, i just wanted to be liked

i was super nice to everyone yet people wouldn’t spit on me if i was on fire, no one even likes me

the only times i was shown respect was the times i forced myself to be brutal towards people, they started approaching me more

You speak like a woman. Why would anyone respect or even like you?

 

[swt]

You speak like a woman. Why would anyone respect or even like you?

the person i am on org is nothing more than a persona i made to make MYSELF laugh, i care about nothing but my own entertainment

i act like a foid online sometimes to turn myself on because i’m bored in life, that’s simply it

the person i am online has no connection to who i am in real life

 

[Deleted member 120755]

the person i am on org is nothing more than a persona i made to make MYSELF laugh, i care about nothing but my own entertainment

i act like a foid online sometimes to turn myself on because i’m bored in life, that’s simply it

the person i am online has no connection to who i am in real life

Who cares if people like you really, anyways?
People haven't liked me since I was a young boy

 

[Deleted member 120650]

the person i am online has no connection to who i am in real life

Like a split personality or group adaptation?

 

[swt]

Who cares if people like you really, anyways?
People haven't liked me since I was a young boy

yeah nobody liked me either, i remember as a kid i was constantly seeking to be accepted somewhere but just kept getting stepped on

people don’t deserve kindness

 

[swt]

Like a split personality or group adaptation?

i’d say split personality, i see myself as two different people

 

[jeremyy]

everything i’ve did in my life was a attempt to fit in somewhere, i just wanted to be liked

i was super nice to everyone yet people wouldn’t spit on me if i was on fire, no one even likes me

the only times i was shown respect was the times i forced myself to be brutal towards people, they started approaching me more

That's another one to my ignore list jfl

 

[Deleted member 120755]

yeah nobody liked me either, i remember as a kid i was constantly seeking to be accepted somewhere but just kept getting stepped on

people don’t deserve kindness

Vulnerable people will always be picked on.
I was picked on up until high school

 

[XiaoXiao]

It sounds like you've been through a lot trying to find where you fit in. If being kind hasn't brought the respect you deserve, maybe it’s time to focus on building self-respect first. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you truly are, and remember that setting boundaries and being assertive can help you gain the respect you're seeking without having to compromise your values.

 

[Deleted member 120650]

i’d say split personality, i see myself as two different people

If you can manage, try to be more "yourself" online because in the end who gives a shit how you are behind an online alias? It makes it all simpler. Most online reception from people hiding behind a screen shouldn't make much of a dent in your personal life. People hide behind a screen and say things that would otherwise warrant them being punched in the face irl.

Assuming this is something that bothers you or something you have control over.

 

[swt]

It sounds like you've been through a lot trying to find where you fit in. If being kind hasn't brought the respect you deserve, maybe it’s time to focus on building self-respect first. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you truly are, and remember that setting boundaries and being assertive can help you gain the respect you're seeking without having to compromise your values.

bro decided to make his first post to help me out

i’m honored brother

 

[Andremln]

You should be thankful that humans are the least superficial animal there is and intelligent people are able to feel empathy

most people here should be thankful about it tbh a couple of thousands of years ago some users would have been eaten by their parents at birth

 

[Andremln]

If you can manage, try to be more "yourself" online because in the end who gives a shit how you are behind an online alias? It makes it all simpler. Most online reception from people hiding behind a screen shouldn't make much of a dent in your personal life. People hide behind a screen and say things that would otherwise warrant them being punched in the face irl.

Assuming this is something that bothers you or something you have control over.

Based empathetic human being, if you ask me this type of people are just the best, being able to think in an abstract way, putting themselves on the shoes of others without actually feeling it in any physical way, that is what separates us from animals and we should aspire to be like them

 

[Andremln]

Based empathetic human being, if you ask me this type of people are just the best, being able to think in an abstract way, putting themselves on the shoes of others without actually feeling it in any physical way, that is what separates us from animals and we should aspire to be like them

Shit i wasn't replying to you i was replying to @XiaoXiao 's post

 

[XiaoXiao]

Based empathetic human being, if you ask me this type of people are just the best, being able to think in an abstract way, putting themselves on the shoes of others without actually feeling it in any physical way, that is what separates us from animals and we should aspire to be like them

I really appreciate that! It’s true, being able to empathize and think beyond ourselves is something we should all strive for. Thanks for the kind words

 

[Crusile]

Yes it's very difficult to like someone who doesn't show their anger. Why because the act of telling is what humans are best at and they can tell if you arent acting as you feel

There are people who feel extremely warm on the inside and can get away with being very friendly, but that's not you (such people consist of mostly sexy feminine females and old ladies)

 

[fuxkdakikez]

it’s human nature to want validation

 

[redgill928]

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everything i’ve did in my life was a attempt to fit in somewhere, i just wanted to be liked

i was super nice to everyone yet people wouldn’t spit on me if i was on fire, no one even likes me

the only times i was shown respect was the times i forced myself to be brutal towards people, they started approaching me more

dont worry bro i relate to this too

people treat me like shit cuz i dont fit in and always try to get me to fight back or show some anger whne i just dont give a shit

i miss my bestfriend from the 8th grade who i could be myself around & the funny thing is i wasnt some wierdo

i just didnt care about what everyone else did they just all seemed the same and boring too me

 

[NoHoesinOhio]

It sounds like you've been through a lot trying to find where you fit in. If being kind hasn't brought the respect you deserve, maybe it’s time to focus on building self-respect first. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you truly are, and remember that setting boundaries and being assertive can help you gain the respect you're seeking without having to compromise your values.

ok lone wolf

 

[whitebitchslayer]

Tried being nice to people for the first 12 years or so of my life before realizing they will never like me unless I’m attractive and since I wasn’t born that way I switched to just being a dick. They still hate me but I feel better if I can be mean to them