
KingCell
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I usually go online just to message random girls—nothing serious, just a quick dopamine hit to distract myself from reality. But today, I screwed up, boyos. Bad.
I started talking to this girl, and everything felt too easy. She’s my age, not even that far away (just a couple of states over), and we clicked instantly. We were talking for hours—same interests, same sense of humor—it felt like I was talking to someone who actually gets me. And like an idiot, I let my guard down. I told her things I never tell anyone and would never tell anyone.
And here’s the kicker—she called me funny, said I’m easy to talk to, and even joked about how guys are usually boring, but I’m different. For a second, I let myself believe maybe, just maybe, things could be different.
Boyos please be serious and help me out of this. I've literally emotionally bonded to her which is brutal.
But I know how this story ends. The second she sees my face, it’s over. All the “you’re so funny” and “I love talking to you” will vanish the moment reality hits. I’ve done this to myself—set myself up for a new level of ropefuel.
I know I should’ve kept it surface-level, but I got caught up, and now I’m paying the price in advance. Anyone else ever do this? How do you stop yourself from getting attached when you know you’re just gonna get crushed?
I started talking to this girl, and everything felt too easy. She’s my age, not even that far away (just a couple of states over), and we clicked instantly. We were talking for hours—same interests, same sense of humor—it felt like I was talking to someone who actually gets me. And like an idiot, I let my guard down. I told her things I never tell anyone and would never tell anyone.
And here’s the kicker—she called me funny, said I’m easy to talk to, and even joked about how guys are usually boring, but I’m different. For a second, I let myself believe maybe, just maybe, things could be different.
Boyos please be serious and help me out of this. I've literally emotionally bonded to her which is brutal.
But I know how this story ends. The second she sees my face, it’s over. All the “you’re so funny” and “I love talking to you” will vanish the moment reality hits. I’ve done this to myself—set myself up for a new level of ropefuel.
I know I should’ve kept it surface-level, but I got caught up, and now I’m paying the price in advance. Anyone else ever do this? How do you stop yourself from getting attached when you know you’re just gonna get crushed?
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