I Just Went Too Far with a Girl Online – This Is Gonna Destroy Me. HELP ME!

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I usually go online just to message random girls—nothing serious, just a quick dopamine hit to distract myself from reality. But today, I screwed up, boyos. Bad.

I started talking to this girl, and everything felt too easy. She’s my age, not even that far away (just a couple of states over), and we clicked instantly. We were talking for hours—same interests, same sense of humor—it felt like I was talking to someone who actually gets me. And like an idiot, I let my guard down. I told her things I never tell anyone and would never tell anyone.

And here’s the kicker—she called me funny, said I’m easy to talk to, and even joked about how guys are usually boring, but I’m different. For a second, I let myself believe maybe, just maybe, things could be different.


Boyos please be serious and help me out of this. I've literally emotionally bonded to her which is brutal.

But I know how this story ends. The second she sees my face, it’s over. All the “you’re so funny” and “I love talking to you” will vanish the moment reality hits. I’ve done this to myself—set myself up for a new level of ropefuel.

I know I should’ve kept it surface-level, but I got caught up, and now I’m paying the price in advance. Anyone else ever do this? How do you stop yourself from getting attached when you know you’re just gonna get crushed?
 
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damn, this sounds absolutely brutal... what do you look like?
 
just block her better to hurt someone else before they hurt you
 
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stop interacting with foids, they will all just inevitably crush you. You need to detach yourself and block her trust me.
 
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I usually go online just to message random girls—nothing serious, just a quick dopamine hit to distract myself from reality. But today, I screwed up, boyos. Bad.

I started talking to this girl, and everything felt too easy. She’s my age, not even that far away (just a couple of states over), and we clicked instantly. We were talking for hours—same interests, same sense of humor—it felt like I was talking to someone who actually gets me. And like an idiot, I let my guard down. I told her things I never tell anyone and would never tell anyone.

And here’s the kicker—she called me funny, said I’m easy to talk to, and even joked about how guys are usually boring, but I’m different. For a second, I let myself believe maybe, just maybe, things could be different.


Boyos please be serious and help me out of this. I've literally emotionally bonded to her which is brutal.

But I know how this story ends. The second she sees my face, it’s over. All the “you’re so funny” and “I love talking to you” will vanish the moment reality hits. I’ve done this to myself—set myself up for a new level of ropefuel.

I know I should’ve kept it surface-level, but I got caught up, and now I’m paying the price in advance. Anyone else ever do this? How do you stop yourself from getting attached when you know you’re just gonna get crushed?
Jerk off, it will calm you down
 
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stop interacting with foids, they will all just inevitably crush you. You need to detach yourself and block her trust me.
My intention was just temporary dopamine for few minutes I messed up.
 
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Where do you go to talk to these foids and how do you know they're not 400 lbs or deformed looking?
 
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I usually go online just to message random girls—nothing serious, just a quick dopamine hit to distract myself from reality. But today, I screwed up, boyos. Bad.

I started talking to this girl, and everything felt too easy. She’s my age, not even that far away (just a couple of states over), and we clicked instantly. We were talking for hours—same interests, same sense of humor—it felt like I was talking to someone who actually gets me. And like an idiot, I let my guard down. I told her things I never tell anyone and would never tell anyone.

And here’s the kicker—she called me funny, said I’m easy to talk to, and even joked about how guys are usually boring, but I’m different. For a second, I let myself believe maybe, just maybe, things could be different.


Boyos please be serious and help me out of this. I've literally emotionally bonded to her which is brutal.

But I know how this story ends. The second she sees my face, it’s over. All the “you’re so funny” and “I love talking to you” will vanish the moment reality hits. I’ve done this to myself—set myself up for a new level of ropefuel.

I know I should’ve kept it surface-level, but I got caught up, and now I’m paying the price in advance. Anyone else ever do this? How do you stop yourself from getting attached when you know you’re just gonna get crushed?
Retard tbh I always show my face and tell them my height to stop shit like this from happening
 
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Where do you go to talk to thes foids and how do you know they're not 400 lbs or deformed looking?
Ur right but im too emotionally attached ngl.

I was coping fine in my room before this.
 
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Yes I know it's retarded but I didn't expect any serious conversations
It happens boyo just show face and if she doesn't like it cut your losses no use it dragging it out
 
Ur right but im too emotionally attached ngl.

I was coping fine in my room before this.
So you aren't doing any preselection and just going on random e dating discord servers? You're only going to find deranged or really ugly women there. If you want to stick to online why don't you try some niche community where there's a chance that she would look past your looks somewhat (assuming ur at least LTN).
 
So you aren't doing any preselection and just going on random e dating discord servers? You're only going to find deranged or really ugly women there. If you want to stick to online why don't you try some niche community where there's a chance that she would look past your looks somewhat (assuming ur at least LTN).
This is what happens when you let ur guard down 😔

How to reverse it.
 
This is what happens when you let ur guard down 😔

How to reverse it.
If you know that you will get blocked as soon as you show ur face, just start throwing hail marys nigga. Ask to meet in person constantly, send your dick, deny the holocaust, be insanely dark triad (jail tier). There's nothing to lose. She might actually be crazy and be into some of those things.
 

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