Vermilioncore
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Last night my (22F) boyfriend (26M) and I tried anal. It was both our first time doing it and we both enjoyed it. Me especially. My boyfriend noticed this and afterwards asked why I hadn’t tried it with my ex to which I replied (without thinking) “Uhh, because I don’t have a death wish.” Confused, he asked me what I meant. Realizing I kinda trapped myself in a corner, I was just honest and said “His dick was too big.” My boyfriend froze and turned to me and asked how that’d be possible since I had told him (during sex) that he was the biggest I’d ever had. I kinda just shrugged and said that was just dirty talk that I thought he’d like to hear. He got really upset and said I was an asshole for saying something like that and not meaning it. I told him I was sorry and that I liked the size of his penis much more than my ex’s. That didn’t help. He left my apartment in a fit of rage and won’t return any of my calls or texts. I feel bad but I think he’s overreacting. I talked about it with a friend and she said she tells her boyfriend the exact same thing even though it’s not true. I'm not sure how to approach this going forward. I didn't mean to hurt his feelings.