I like a foid until she likes me, then im disgusted

[Deleted member 143287]

When it comes to dating, i have a foid brain. The same way they randomly switch is the same way i switch on foids. One second im wondering if she likes me, i keep checking to see if she does. She does. I feel uncomfortable now. I start seeing all her flaws on her face. Then i think, "i can do better im pretty sure" even tho before i knew she liked i thought she was a fogger.

Brutal.

 

[Surfsup]

Foid trait

 

[Deleted member 143287]

Foid trait

Facts, but it gives me insight to their minds. The more i understand myself, the more i understand foids

 

[Deleted member 143287]

Bump

 

[whotthehell]

I’m fine when girl likes me it’s good but it’s bad if I start liking her too much

 

[Narroworbits]

Damn I feel the same way, brutal

I can still recognize the fact that the girl looks good but the fact she likes me back disgusts me

 

[Deleted member 143287]

Damn I feel the same way, brutal

I can still recognize the fact that the girl looks good but the fact she likes me back disgusts me

I think its cuz while a lot of girls are hot, theyre not the stacies that i want. Even if she is stacy, i like a particular type of stacy, and when a girl likes me, it really hits me that this is real life and if i actually move things foward with her, this shit might get serious and i dont want anything serious with a girl who doesnt have exactly what im looking for, so then it starts hitting me that shes not what i really want even if shes hot and i try to leave the situation asap

 

[White_Bwoi]

I think its cuz while a lot of girls are hot, theyre not the stacies that i want. Even if she is stacy, i like a particular type of stacy, and when a girl likes me, it really hits me that this is real life and if i actually move things foward with her, this shit might get serious and i dont want anything serious with a girl who doesnt have exactly what im looking for, so then it starts hitting me that shes not what i really want even if shes hot and i try to leave the situation asap

Same.. I abruptly ended last 2 potential strs (very different cases: shy MTB 165cm and promiscuous nt HTB+ 184cm fogger) both after a month od dating, because I realized there is only 'decent' connection..
When I see a true MATCH it's literally 'over' for other girls (cases above were kinda 'forced' not true), but it happens like once in a year LOL, and she's usually into me but have a boyfriend, for the last 3 years I legit only developed sudden oneitis for 'taken' girls, and they are with fucking normies ofcourse.

I can't even comprehend guys that goes for a random MTB and call it a day I know a guy who is in LTR for a year now because he helped some random woman that lived upstairs repairing sink or some shit, dude rarely goes out so they talked and by proximity he became 'passable' for her, and he didn't have anything better to do he didn't even tried like 'dating' for years, so most people are indeed PASSIVE...

 

[Deleted member 143287]

but it happens like once in a year LOL, and she's usually into me but have a boyfriend

bro fucking same here! This is literally half the reason i dont fuck as much as i could.

I try to be a good guy too and not even flirt with these taken women, but ive slipper and cucked 2 guys. I didnt even fuck the foid tho, because id start to feel guilty and would lose respect for the cheating whore and so the farthest id get is kissing and touching her body and shit like that. Then i feel like shit.

Also agree with ppl passively dating. I habe a cousin whos dating a low mtb, and k his taste very well as we've always talked about which foids we wanna fuck. Theres no way he actually finds her hot when i compare her to every foid hes ever said hes attracted to, but i guess he just settled since she gives him sex every few months.

 

[White_Bwoi]

bro fucking same here! This is literally half the reason i dont fuck as much as i could.

I try to be a good guy too and not even flirt with these taken women, but ive slipper and cucked 2 guys. I didnt even fuck the foid tho, because id start to feel guilty and would lose respect for the cheating whore and so the farthest id get is kissing and touching her body and shit like that. Then i feel like shit.

Also agree with ppl passively dating. I habe a cousin whos dating a low mtb, and k his taste very well as we've always talked about which foids we wanna fuck. Theres no way he actually finds her hot when i compare her to every foid hes ever said hes attracted to, but i guess he just settled since she gives him sex every few months.

God damn, no joke - same (!).
I could literally just go on tinder and no-problem be with /fuck even ok mtb"s, convince myself "ok I can try with her" by sheer desperation - these cases I wrote about happened because I literally went insane, didn't meet a girl that I REALLY like for the longest time and decided - maybe I can't feel that anymore... Sooo I 'tryied' with less desirable chick... It's not worth it...

2 weeks after the last one I have met (random encounter in the bar) the most insane 'my type' girl I have ever seen, and she stared at me like a stalker, deep into my soul uncanny way, - that forced me to talk to her, guess what, she already have a boyfriend, but she acted 100% into me, and embarrassingly told me about BF, I even seen this baldcel on insta recently...

If I met her again by any chance (I don't want to message her when she stated that) I'm sure I would CUCK this guy to the core, I would not feel even particularly guilty since he 100% just lucked out, meet her at the right time via group of friends or some unreal luck..

I think it's a common occurrence when they're settling for some idiot and truly want something else especially... They're timid / want some connection and it's not like the truCELS claim here that they just fuck different chad everyday lol, long story... take care buddy

 

[Clown Show]

Yup, that's a foid trait.

Don't be like that bro...

 

[Deleted member 143287]

- these cases I wrote about happened because I literally went insane, didn't meet a girl that I REALLY like for the longest time and decided - maybe I can't feel that anymore... Sooo I 'tryied' with less desirable chick... It's not worth it...

I feel like im talking to myself in another body.

Everytime i got with a foid and we had a shitty connection it was with some htb that i didnt really like but i was extremely bored and it was convenient for me cuz id see her passively at school, work or the gym and it happened with low effort.

And how the foid that you really liked seemed to also like u back too. Thats how it is for me also. I feel like most ppl say that the person they want the most doesnt usually want them back, but for me, the hotter i think the foid is the more she likes me back. Sounds like its the same for u.

Its good to see another guy out there with a mogger mindset and a high standard for himself and doesnt settle. Cheers

 

[Lefty Rankin]

When it comes to dating, i have a foid brain. The same way they randomly switch is the same way i switch on foids. One second im wondering if she likes me, i keep checking to see if she does. She does. I feel uncomfortable now. I start seeing all her flaws on her face. Then i think, "i can do better im pretty sure" even tho before i knew she liked i thought she was a fogger.

Brutal.

Somebody's a big old liar on this forum! You ain't never dated anybody.

 

[Deleted member 143287]

Yup, that's a foid trait.

Don't be like that bro...

Yup, that's a foid trait.

Don't be like that bro...

What exactly is so bad about it? I know its not ideal. But it doesnt seem like a big deal to me.

The reason it happens is because i dont like the girl as much as she likes me and it makes it uncomfortable for me. Feels like its moving too fast emotionally, while i just wanna fuck her casually, and i dont wanna hurt anybody.