i lose interest after a girl is interested in me

[Deleted member 7192]

what the fuck is wrong w me

it'd be alright but it affects how much I want to be with a girl. I start blowing them off and shit

am i low t or some shit

 

[Deleted member 7192]

after the first day I don't get that anxious feeling anymore

can someone explain and how can I fix this?

 

[Jagged0]

what the fuck is wrong w me

it'd be alright but it affects how much I want to be with a girl. I start blowing them off and shit

am i low t or some shit

Same tbh it’s more special when you’re chasing her

 

[Deleted member 2100]

Happens to me too ngl. I had a crush on a girl for a while and when she started sending signals I immediately lost interest in her.

 

[Deleted member 7192]

Same tbh it’s more special when you’re chasing her

ong its over for me
why am i like this god

 

[Deleted member 7192]

Happens to me too ngl. I had a crush on a girl for a while and when she started sending signals I immediately lost interest in her.

bro it's not even cute or quirky. I genuinely wish i wasnt like this

maybe its from dopamine and shit like tik tok frying our attention spans?

 

[Deleted member 2100]

bro it's not even cute or quirky. I genuinely wish i wasnt like this

maybe its from dopamine and shit like tik tok frying our attention spans?

Same, its weird cuz we're chasing after female validation but when we get it we dont want it.

I think it might be from our mother-son relationships. I dont interact with my mom much so I dont recieve much validation from her and that carries onto love life. Ive read your relationship with your parents is what determines your future relationships.

 

[Vitruvian]

U dont feel good enough, just like ur father or mother make u feel. U should force urself to overcome this psychological trap

 

[Deleted member 7192]

U dont feel good enough, just like ur father or mother make u feel

interesting

 

[john2]

I can relate. The fact that a girl chased for my attention/validation is already enough satisfying for me... till the point I don't wish to seek or demand any further pleasure and immediately lose interest in her. It's weird as to why it happens. I definitely think this isn't good.