Vermilioncore
to bemoan what I could not bemoan upon your breast
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We've had our ups and downs, but our marriage has been fantastic as of late. In the bedroom too! My sex drive is pretty high, probably a bit higher than his. We are in our 30s.
That said... I downright enjoy fantasizing about other men too. Friends or famous, it doesn't matter as long as I find them attractive (which for me is a combo between physical and personality). I used to feel guilty and not indulge in these thoughts, but stopped because, well, I don't see the use in fighting my imagination.
I wish I could ask if we could get into swinging, but everytime I mention it in passing or make a comment about the subject (always unrelated to our relationship!) he doesn't seem to have a positive opinion.
And I don't want to lose or hurt my husband. So he will never know and I stick with my imagination I guess.
Just needed a vent.
That said... I downright enjoy fantasizing about other men too. Friends or famous, it doesn't matter as long as I find them attractive (which for me is a combo between physical and personality). I used to feel guilty and not indulge in these thoughts, but stopped because, well, I don't see the use in fighting my imagination.
I wish I could ask if we could get into swinging, but everytime I mention it in passing or make a comment about the subject (always unrelated to our relationship!) he doesn't seem to have a positive opinion.
And I don't want to lose or hurt my husband. So he will never know and I stick with my imagination I guess.
Just needed a vent.
