I made a "friend" but I already know how it will end

[wishIwasSalludon]

Im helping this dude out with a project not out of my own heart but because I could also make money from it

he tries to butter me up but not even once outside of anything pertaining to work does he contact me

He also looks down on me, I remember when I told him he had a girlfriend he was shocked that I got one but he has never had one as if hes better than me

this is my fate I've always been used for what others can gain from me, Im just happy that atleast this time im getting something back

@moredatesmorerapes @cromagnon @CopiumX

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

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[esoterik]

being used happens to nearly everyone, just pack it up dumbass, your the weakest link

 

[esoterik]

being used happens to nearly everyone, just pack it up dumbass, your the weakest link

sorry, my schizo writings came out, ya quite sad but you'll just have to look at it as a profit

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

being used happens to nearly everyone

more so for me than others

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

just pack it up dumbass

pack it up as in quit? is that what u mean?

I dont wanna because I could actual make some serious money

but Im not naive anymore like I know not to trust this guy n shit u feel me

 

[esoterik]

pack it up as in quit? is that what u mean?

I dont wanna because I could actual make some serious money

but Im not naive anymore like I know not to trust this guy n shit u feel me

nah dont quite, you have havent experienced a pure transaction based friendship, its quite common and later in life will be your main source of human interaction

instead of thinking this guy looks down just focus on how hes benefiting you

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

nah dont quite, you have havent experienced a pure transaction based friendship, its quite common and later in life will be your main source of human interaction

instead of thinking this guy looks down just focus on how hes benefiting you

thx man

 

[moredatesmorerapes]

Most relationships are just temporary tbh.
Reality is always changing, nothing is constant
You should just determine the variables you "can" control to reach happiness. I'd say it mostly revolves around freedom, but idk, it varies.

Just extract what value you can from it and move on
Even "genuine" friendships are transactional, the value is just this entertainment factor

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

Most relationships are just temporary tbh.
Reality is always changing, nothing is constant
You should just determine the variables you "can" control to reach happiness. I'd say it mostly revolves around freedom, but idk, it varies.

Just extract what value you can from it and move on
Even "genuine" friendships are transactional, the value is just this entertainment factor

this world feels like a joke at times

 

[raabla]

Why don’t you contact him first like one time then see if he starts doing it

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

Why don’t you contact him first like one time then see if he starts doing it

Ive tried such things many times, but its always the same result

Ill try again now and will tell you what happens

 

[raabla]

Ive tried such things many times, but its always the same result

Ill try again now and will tell you what happens

First what you gonna say

 

[moredatesmorerapes]

this world feels like a joke at times

The more you let go of your attachments to other people, the more free you are

Picture one extreme example, a depressed guy who wants to kill himself but won't because his parents would be sad

He isn't really living his own life and is forcing himself to go through things because of the desires of someone else

It's the same with many other things. Oh, I don't wanna be a bad person, my friends won't approve. Oh, I don't wanna do this, my girlfriend won't love me... etc

If you truly want to be free you just need to throw away that attachment

Forget about any notion of identity or attachment to anyone else. Whatever group you're a part of, whatever you consider yourself, forget that

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

First what you gonna say

idk Ill just text him something like yo or send a funny video or some shit

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

The more you let go of your attachments to other people, the more free you are

Buddhists got that right attachment is the root of suffering its true in particular for guys like me

 

[raabla]

idk Ill just text him something like yo or send a funny video or some shit

Nah just say what’s up then ask about his day or some

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

Picture one extreme example, a depressed guy who wants to kill himself but won't because his parents would be sad

He isn't really living his own life and is forcing himself to go through things because of the desires of someone else

It's the same with many other things. Oh, I don't wanna be a bad person, my friends won't approve. Oh, I don't wanna do this, my girlfriend won't love me... etc

If you truly want to be free you just need to throw away that attachment

Forget about any notion of identity or attachment to anyone else. Whatever group you're a part of, whatever you consider yourself, forget that

This is good advice thx man, I wish to be more like u in some regards

 

[moredatesmorerapes]

I wish to be more like u in some regards

Explain

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

Explain

You just seem like you dont give a fuck man, like you seem like you have shit together if that makes sense

not like me I live in a mental prison

 

[moredatesmorerapes]

You just seem like you dont give a fuck man, like you seem like you have shit together if that makes sense

not like me I live in a mental prison

I have my own issues it's not perfect but yeah I've evolved to be above a lot of things

It's come as a result of a lot, philosophical realizations (that I can elaborate on in DM), as well as life experiences and honestly maybe just genetics

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

philosophical realizations (that I can elaborate on in DM)

Please bro doesn’t have to be rn but I need to escape this mental prison

 

[noodlelover]

Don't expect any friend ship to be hanging out more than one or two times. Be comfortable in your own skin. Be comfortable being alone

But enjoy when you do get to hang out with others.