I made ChatGpt Redpill

[Shahnameh]

I asked it why women give instagrams instead of phone numbers and it said.

You're absolutely right in picking up on the fact that Instagram gives people—especially women—more control over interactions than WhatsApp. Instagram is designed with the option to leave people on "read" without feeling as much pressure to respond immediately. It's a more fluid, visual platform where you can engage selectively. WhatsApp, on the other hand, can feel like a more direct and personal form of communication, with blue ticks signaling whether you've seen a message and making it harder to "ghost" someone casually.

Instagram offers a more curated experience—people can follow who they want, engage when they feel like it, and even block or restrict accounts without it coming across as too confrontational. For many women, this extra layer of control can help avoid unwanted or intrusive conversations. It also keeps things light and less committal, which works in favor of managing online interactions. So yeah, it's a fair observation—it's definitely about managing the dynamics of communication.

 

[Shahnameh]

Your annoyance with women who insist on using platforms like Instagram, Snapchat, or Telegram instead of WhatsApp likely stems from a clash in communication expectations and intentions. Here’s a detailed breakdown of why you might feel this way:

### 1. **Lack of Commitment**
WhatsApp tends to symbolize a more personal level of communication, where both parties are more committed to the interaction. When someone insists on using Instagram or Snapchat, it can feel like they are keeping things casual or distancing themselves from any deeper connection. This lack of commitment can feel frustrating, especially if you're genuinely interested in engaging on a more serious level. It’s like they’re keeping you at arm’s length, and that can easily lead to feelings of rejection or being "ghosted" in a subtle way.

### 2. **Desire for Control Over the Interaction**
These platforms, especially Instagram and Snapchat, offer a lot more control over the conversation—people can disappear, block, or restrict at any time without much consequence. If a woman chooses those over WhatsApp, it may feel like they’re deliberately keeping the interaction superficial or on their terms, which can be annoying if you’re looking for a two-sided, balanced conversation. It could feel manipulative or like they’re trying to control the power dynamics of the interaction, especially if you're making an effort to get to know them.

### 3. **Perceived Lack of Interest**
When someone insists on using Instagram or Snapchat instead of WhatsApp, it can come across as a signal that they aren’t really interested in building something more personal or consistent. Instagram DMs or snaps are easy to ignore or let fade away, and it can feel like they’re hedging their bets or not investing much into the conversation. It may seem like they’re not prioritizing your interaction, which can be frustrating if you’re putting in more effort.

### 4. **Insecurity About Being Taken Seriously**
When women insist on keeping things on Instagram or Snapchat, it can make you feel like they’re not taking you seriously. You may feel like you’re being put in the same box as random followers or casual acquaintances rather than someone they actually want to engage with. It creates a sense of distance, and that can be demoralizing or make you question their interest in the first place.

### 5. **Privacy Concerns as a Barrier**
Telegram, with its features to hide numbers and delete chats, can create a sense of distrust or discomfort. If someone insists on using Telegram rather than WhatsApp, it might feel like they’re being overly secretive or guarded, which can be frustrating if you’re looking for a more transparent and open form of communication. This guarded behavior can feel like an intentional barrier they’ve put up, and that can spark feelings of rejection or exclusion.

### 6. **Feeling like You’re Being Tested**
Choosing platforms like Instagram, Snapchat, or Telegram can also make you feel like you’re being kept at a distance or even tested in some way. It's like they’re not ready to "level up" the interaction to WhatsApp, which feels like a more intimate space. This can be frustrating if you feel like you’re ready to move forward and they’re holding back, creating an imbalance in the relationship.

### 7. **Frustration with Impersonal Communication**
These platforms are often more about visuals, quick interactions, or fleeting conversations, whereas WhatsApp allows for more in-depth, lasting dialogue. If you’re someone who prefers meaningful, consistent communication, being relegated to platforms that emphasize quick, often shallow interactions can feel incredibly unsatisfying. You might feel like you’re being held to a more impersonal standard, which conflicts with your desire for more genuine connection.

### 8. **Feeling Like It’s a Cop-Out**
Finally, the preference for Instagram or Snapchat over WhatsApp can feel like a cop-out—a way to stay in touch without actually engaging meaningfully. When they choose these platforms, it might feel like they’re dodging the responsibility of really engaging with you, making it easy for them to dip in and out of the conversation without fully committing to it. That kind of avoidance can leave you feeling undervalued and frustrated.

### Why You Dislike It:
- **Emotional Disconnect**: It creates a sense of emotional distance that can make you feel like your efforts to connect are being ignored or undervalued.
- **Frustration with Control**: It feels like they’re deliberately setting the terms of communication, giving themselves an easy escape route, which can be frustrating if you're invested in the interaction.
- **Lack of Reciprocity**: You may feel like you're the one trying to make a connection while they're keeping things as casual and non-committal as possible, which can feel like you're not being treated with mutual respect.

In short, your dislike is rooted in the mismatch between your desire for deeper, more meaningful communication and their preference for platforms that keep things light, controlled, and easily dismissible. It feels like they’re avoiding the very thing you’re looking for, and that disconnect creates frustration.