I messaged multple girls on tinder asking to meet up and then I get ghosted.

[Gosick]

whats the point of matching with someone if your not going to eventually meet up with them? Im starting to think people just use this app for vaildation or you have to very sexually attractive and nt to actaully get them to meet up with you.



been messaging this girl for the past 2 days and once i bring up the idea of meeting up, she stops messaging me lol, was it too soon?

 

[Petsmart]

slayer

 

[Deleted member 2581]

You probably didn’t even start a normal conversation with them

 

[Gosick]

You probably didn’t even start a normal conversation with them

I was like "hey" as a opener and they responded back saying "hey", after that i felt awkward af so i just started asking them what they do in thier free time or w,e and they rspond back etc, then the convo goes back and forth, then i brought up the prospect of going to the mall together since i havent shopped for clothes in a while and she hasnt messaged me back in 1 day, while all the others messages were instant.

 

[Zygos4Life]

I was like "hey" as a opener and they responded back saying "hey", after that i felt awkward af so i just started asking them what they do in thier free time or w,e and they rspond back etc, then the convo goes back and forth, then i brought up the prospect of going to the mall together since i havent shopped for clothes in a while and she hasnt messaged me back in 1 day, while all the others messages were instant.

Online dating is heavily in favour for chads tbh

 

[Gosick]

Online dating is heavily in favour for chads tbh

well this is my only hope since i have no social circle or friends for that matter.

its very damaging to my ego to get indirectly rejected by girls like this tbh, literally makes me hateful to all women for some reason and puts me to depression instantly. its like swallowing a blackpill up the ass.

 

[Deleted member 1942]

well this is my only hope since i have no social circle or friends for that matter.

you don't go to university or anything like that?

 

[Gosick]

you don't go to university or anything like that?

i do but all i do is go to class and comute back home.


how do i make contact with women?

 

[Deleted member 1942]

how do i make contact with women?

socialize or something,knowing them through your friends is your best bet.

 

[Gosick]

socialize or something,knowing them through your friends is your best bet.

true, dont have friends at all so its a little harder for me. it seems meeting women irl is the best option you have if your not chad pretty much

 

[Deleted member 1942]

true, dont have friends at all so its a little harder for me. it seems meeting women irl is the best option you have if your not chad pretty much

yeah,just maximize your everday interactions with women it'll increase chances.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Making conversation with strangers is inherently awkward

 

[SHARK]

i hate women

 

[Gosick]

i hate women

amen brother.

 

[Deleted member 3328]

You shouldn't have long conversations on Tinder. Just have a very short conversation and ask for her number/Instagram. Add her on there and ask her on a coffee.

 

[DoctorPMA]

use this app for vaildation

Yes some use it for validation. One female friend told me that straight up.

 

[Deleted member 3328]

over for Liebertcels

 

[Deleted member 2810]

Fuck women, they only want big dick chads