i met a girl off .com today irl (REAL STORY, GTFIH)

[orz]

so basically it started with her spamming threads on com about wanting a bf so i messaged her because i was desperate and we started talking. turns out we live in the same area, not even 20 min from each other. so we've been texting for the past week and decided that we'd meet irl today at the mall. initially the plan was to hook up today cus we were supposed to be casual but honestly i didnt really feel into it and i thought she was more interesting to talk to as opposed to lusting after. ngl idk why i thought its easy to hook up with somebody within the first few hours of meeting them. also i should proabbly mention here that her rice purity is like a 78 so she hasnt really done anything and that definitely played a part in why i didnt initiate. anyway i was actually hella nervous and it was pretty awkward for the first like 30 min but after i built a conceptual understanding of who she was it got quite easy to talk to her. we basically walked around and talked and she needed to buy coffee so we did that. after that we went to her car and talked for like 1.5 hours jfl.

we've been discussing me taking her to her school prom and such but im not exactly sure where to go from here. were not really exclusive so obviously she will still want attention from other guys and whatnot and i dont want to feel cucked so...

she has already demonstrated she doesnt really care about loyalty unless its a relationship by talking about the other guys she finds handsome and etc, but she has aspergers so working out some things like this may be challenging (and i might just have to let stuff like this slide). i also dont wanna feel like im taking advantage of her, but shes not autistic in the sense that she cant make proper decisions.

im not sure how much of what im feeling is coming from desperation. idk if im really that attracted to her, and prior to meeting her i dont think she was that attracted to me either (im east asian, her type is MENA). usually i wouldnt go for someone like her due to feeling cucked and the other issues, but at the same time i enjoyed talking to her.

wtf do i do?

edit: i mention the not being that attracted to me PRIOR to us meeting specifically because i think i made a good impression and shes more interested now than she was before meeting me irl cus shes been showing IOIs like wanting to meet again/schedule a date and just more interest on text overall

 

[negativ_canthalshit]

so basically it started with her spamming threads on com about wanting a bf so i messaged her because i was desperate and we started talking. turns out we live in the same area, not even 20 min from each other. so we've been texting for the past week and decided that we'd meet irl today at the mall. initially the plan was to hook up today cus we were supposed to be casual but honestly i didnt really feel into it and i thought she was more interesting to talk to as opposed to lusting after. ngl idk why i thought its easy to hook up with somebody within the first few hours of meeting them. also i should proabbly mention here that her rice purity is like a 78 so she hasnt really done anything and that definitely played a part in why i didnt initiate. anyway i was actually hella nervous and it was pretty awkward for the first like 30 min but after i built a conceptual understanding of who she was it got quite easy to talk to her. we basically walked around and talked and she needed to buy coffee so we did that. after that we went to her car and talked for like 1.5 hours jfl.

we've been discussing me taking her to her school prom and such but im not exactly sure where to go from here. were not really exclusive so obviously she will still want attention from other guys and whatnot and i dont want to feel cucked so...

she has already demonstrated she doesnt really care about loyalty and whatnot unless its a relationship by talking about the other guys she finds handsome and etc, but she has aspergers so working out some things like this may be challenging (and i might just have to let stuff like this slide). i also dont wanna feel like im taking advantage of her, but shes not autistic in the sense that she cant make proper decisions.

im not sure how much of what im feeling is coming from desperation. idk if im really that attracted to her, and prior to meeting her i dont think she was that attracted to me either (im east asian, her type is MENA). usually i wouldnt go for someone like her due to feeling cucked and the other issues, but at the same time i enjoyed talking to her.

wtf do i do?

just date her, you got that bro

 

[Framemaxxx]

Give her @ on .com or i dont believe

 

[orz]

Give her @ on .com or i dont believe

u can easily find it, but i dont want her to see this thread

 

[FrancoAgain]

tldr

 

[orz]

just date her, you got that bro

idk man i feel like there are a lot of issues to unpack...

 

[negativ_canthalshit]

like what tho

 

[VHD]

Just do fwb, seems like what she'd like too based on how you describe it

 

[afroheadluke]

you know better than this and you know how this will end up for you
just think this through for your own sake man

 

[orz]

tldr

met girl with aspergers off com

kinda getting cucked but i still enjoy talking to her

not sure what the end goal is because i dont rly find her attractive (i also dont feel lustful attraction toward her) and idk if she finds me that attractive either

like what tho

having aspergers naturally comes with a plethora of mental health issues and in the past i havent enjoyed dating girls with issues its kinda exhausting iykwim

Just do fwb, seems like what she'd like too based on how you describe it

yeah thats what i thought too intially but shes really never done stuff like that and id feel kinda guilty like im using her or something

 

[negativ_canthalshit]

met girl with aspergers off com

kinda getting cucked but i still enjoy talking to her

not sure what the end goal is because i dont rly find her attractive (i also dont feel lustful attraction toward her) and idk if she finds me that attractive either

having aspergers naturally comes with a plethora of mental health issues and in the past i havent enjoyed dating girls with issues its kinda exhausting iykwim

yeah thats what i thought too intially but shes really never done stuff like that and id feel kinda guilty like im using her or something

dont feel guilty, theres no need to feel guilty

 

[VHD]

yeah thats what i thought too intially but shes really never done stuff like that and id feel kinda guilty like im using her or something

Feel guilty for what? You aren't "using" her as long as you have a mutual understanding.

 

[orz]

dont feel guilty, theres no need to feel guilty

yeah ideally but when ur really in that situation irl its kinda different...

Feel guilty for what? You aren't "using" her as long as you have a mutual understanding.

true its just kinda weird knowing im the first one shes gonna be doing most of those things with... if u were a girl wouldnt u wanna lose that to someone ur acutally in a serious relationship with

 

[negativ_canthalshit]

yeah ideally but when ur really in that situation irl its kinda different...

true its just kinda weird knowing im the first one shes gonna be doing most of those things with... if u were a girl wouldnt u wanna lose that to someone ur acutally in a serious relationship with

ok like ik it sounds fucked but, its not like you would be using her for sex, its better thta yall lose it to eacher other then someone worse if that like makes sense sorry my iq

 

[ltnbrownacnecel]

Try to pump and dump chang.

 

[VHD]

if u were a girl wouldnt u wanna lose that to someone ur acutally in a serious relationship with

I think the only relevant question is if SHE would. But if she's willing to be fwb with you, I'd assume she wouldn't.

 

[Maxillular]

Try to pump and dump chang.

He unironically mogs me for talking to women

 

[Outlander]

dnr

 

[ltnbrownacnecel]

He unironically mogs me for talking to women

Same I don't even try. I saw a 6,3 MTN blonde guy at my school holding hands with a LTB chink caked up in makeup yesterday. Like nigga .

 

[Maxillular]

Same I don't even try. I saw a 6,3 MTN blonde guy at my school holding hands with a LTB chink caked up in makeup yesterday. Like nigga .

That just pisses me off bc you already know how much its gonna inflate her ego

 

[orz]

ok like ik it sounds fucked but, its not like you would be using her for sex, its better thta yall lose it to eacher other then someone worse if that like makes sense sorry my iq

I think the only relevant question is if SHE would. But if she's willing to be fwb with you, I'd assume she wouldn't.

Both of u guys make sense, it’s just probably my internal perpetual guilt that stems from a similar situation that happened last year. I also don’t rly enjoy sexual things with girls I’m not that into (u can check my other thread where I go into that), and I’m not entirely sure I’m into her like that ykwim. If I take her v card or do any sexual things but I’m not even into her I’d feel extremely guilty. That being said, I think u guys are right in the sense that regardless of how I feel, it is ultimately her decision so I’m not objectively at fault. It’s just hard for me personally to cope with this psychologically

Try to pump and dump chang.

Ur evil

He unironically mogs me for talking to women

Nah bru ur hapa u def mog me to death

I’m a chang in the slums of Jakarta maybe

 

[ltnbrownacnecel]

Both of u guys make sense, it’s just probably my internal perpetual guilt that stems from a similar situation that happened last year. I also don’t rly enjoy sexual things with girls I’m not that into (u can check my other thread where I go into that), and I’m not entirely sure I’m into her like that ykwim. If I take her v card or do any sexual things but I’m not even into her I’d feel extremely guilty. That being said, I think u guys are right in the sense that regardless of how I feel, it is her ultimately decision so I’m not objectively at fault. It’s just hard for me personally to cope with this psychologically

Ur evil

Nah bru ur hapa u def mog me to death

I’m a chang in the slums of Jakarta maybe

Mogs me I don't talk to girls I don't even have snap or anything.

 

[Banana.]

true its just kinda weird knowing im the first one shes gonna be doing most of those things with... if u were a girl wouldnt u wanna lose that to someone ur acutally in a serious relationship with

Oh so your a cuck send me her address and I’ll do all the work for you then

+ “just be first theory” +your larping +avrage .cuck user

 

[orz]

Mogs me I don't talk to girls I don't even have snap or anything.

just gotta try bro I’m sure u could slay I don’t have snap either haha

Oh so your a cuck send me her address and I’ll do all the work for you then

+ “just be first theory” +your larping +avrage .cuck user

I know u from com lol

I would be the first but I don’t wanna have the guilt on my conscience

I’m not larping tho

 

[Banana.]

just gotta try bro I’m sure u could slay I don’t have snap either haha

I know u from com lol

I would be the first but I don’t wanna have the guilt on my conscience

I’m not larping tho

I got banned on there for no reason lol but that’s so retarded the first one is the same as the last one + fucking a Virgin would be hot + why dose it matter maybe you aren’t ready for sex if you can’t handle that shit jfl

 

[orz]

I got banned on there for no reason lol but that’s so retarded the first one is the same as the last one + fucking a Virgin would be hot + why dose it matter maybe you aren’t ready for sex if you can’t handle that shit jfl

I’ve had sex with 1 virgin and head from another and I didn’t find either of the experiences pleasuring cus I wasn’t into them lmao

I just don’t want a repeat of that

 

[Banana.]

I’ve had sex with 1 virgin and head from another and I didn’t find either of the experiences pleasuring cus I wasn’t into them lmao

I just don’t want a repeat of that

Okay your gay bro fuck me

 

[orz]

Okay your gay bro fuck me

Over

 

[Banana.]

Over

Use my slim lil twink bodey as your toy and fill every hole inside me

 

[orz]

Use my slim lil twink bodey as your toy and fill every hole inside me

Wtf.

 

[Banana.]

Wtf.

Says the one who is pretty much allergic to pussy

 

[orz]

Says the one who is pretty much allergic to pussy

U try doing stuff with a complete virgin

The repercussions from classmates are quite life changing

I wasn’t like harassed or anything (just making this clear) I just got made fun of hella jokingly

 

[Banana.]

U try doing stuff with a complete virgin

The repercussions from classmates are quite life changing

I wasn’t like harassed or anything (just making this clear) I just got made fun of hella jokingly

What repercussions? Are you a lesbian it’s only praise my guy

 

[Banana.]

U try doing stuff with a complete virgin

The repercussions from classmates are quite life changing

I wasn’t like harassed or anything (just making this clear) I just got made fun of hella jokingly

Oh no they made fun of me for fucking a hot virgin if I make fun of your for being straight are you turning gay? So retarded bro don’t let those jelouse none sex havers hold you back fuck them fucking a girl with 0 bodey is way better than being a cuck doing it with a slut yk + they all fucking lie about being virgins

 

[orz]

What repercussions? Are you a lesbian it’s only praise my guy

Well she was a year younger (16-15) so ppl just joked ab me being a pedo or me taking advantage of her

Didn’t feel great man

Nobody praised me for that shit

 

[orz]

Oh no they made fun of me for fucking a hot virgin if I make fun of your for being straight are you turning gay? So retarded bro don’t let those jelouse none sex havers hold you back fuck them fucking a girl with 0 bodey is way better than being a cuck doing it with a slut yk + they all fucking lie about being virgins

Ok wait u can lowkey call me a cuck for wanting this but I kinda want an experienced girl…it’d probably be more enjoysble

most virgins my age are virgins for a reason…

 

[Banana.]

Well she was a year younger (16-15) so ppl just joked ab me being a pedo or me taking advantage of her

Didn’t feel great man

Nobody praised me for that shit

Fucking age cucks over a 1 year difference those pepole who made fun of you are prob closeted rapeist or smth

Boo fucking hoo cuck I don’t care have sex who cares what they said bro it’s was obi a joke how the fuck are you a pedo over a 1 year age difference so retarded man autistic ass can’t tell when pepole are jokeing bro

 

[Banana.]

Ok wait u can lowkey call me a cuck for wanting this but I kinda want an experienced girl…it’d probably be more enjoysble

most virgins my age are virgins for a reason…

Pussy is pussy bro who cares you ungrateful sex haver fuck a twink or smth

 

[orz]

Fucking age cucks over a 1 year difference those pepole who made fun of you are prob closeted rapeist or smth

Boo fucking hoo cuck I don’t care have sex who cares what they said bro it’s was obi a joke how the fuck are you a pedo over a 1 year age difference so retarded man autistic ass can’t tell when pepole are jokeing bro

There was a 2 yr grade difference and my EQ isn’t that low so I could tell some of them genuinely thought I was weird for it

Reflecting on it I do feel guilty

 

[orz]

Pussy is pussy bro who cares you ungrateful sex haver fuck a twink or smth

Bro trust me pussy from a girl ur not into is not good at all bro the post nut is diabolical

 

[Banana.]

There was a 2 yr grade difference and my EQ isn’t that low so I could tell some of them genuinely thought I was weird for it

Reflecting on it I do feel guilty

okay so the golden rule is anything past 3 years is sus who cares you have w sex bro with a girl

 

[Banana.]

Bro trust me pussy from a girl ur not into is not good at all bro the post nut is diabolical

Wait tell me how you have so much sex like how’d do you get girls to do it with what type of girls are these I need to know your method

 

[orz]

Wait tell me how you have so much sex like how’d do you get girls to do it with what type of girls are these I need to know your method

Well I’m ngl idt I’m best source for this but essentially have like a base of HLTN+appeal or something equivalent to that (that’s probably where I am cus I’m East Asian so I have shit bones)

After that u really just need to Jestermaxx and larp as someone u know the girl will like (u need to figure out what she’s into first)

As for how to get virgins, im sure u can tell which girls are more likely to be virgins but if u cant it’s usually the quiet ones who have small social circles or just no friends

If u want to eventually crack i suggest u find one u think is genuinely interesting cus you’ll probably have to play a slightly longer game. they dont rly give it up that quickly unless they’re hella into u

 

[orz]

Well I’m ngl idt I’m best source for this but essentially have like a base of HLTN+appeal or something equivalent to that (that’s probably where I am cus I’m East Asian so I have shit bones)

After that u really just need to Jestermaxx and larp as someone u know the girl will like (u need to figure out what she’s into first)

As for how to get virgins, im sure u can tell which girls are more likely to be virgins but if u cant it’s usually the quiet ones who have small social circles or just no friends

If u want to eventually crack i suggest u find one u think is genuinely interesting cus you’ll probably have to play a slightly longer game. they dont rly give it up that quickly unless they’re hella into u

TLDR

don’t be yourself, be who she wants (requires baseline IQ)

 

[orthotropic1]

Tales from the slums of org