
amirlooksmaxxing123
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So imma be straight to the point. I was a sub5 for a very long time of my life (right now I am 17; I ascended at 16 and a quarter). I just finished 10th grade. Now that I "ascended" to HTN by losing like 40kg of weight (~90lbs), I look way better and even had many dates with different girls. I never made it far though, because people think I'm weird and a creep, but we'll dive into that later on.
I am definitely not 100% NT, but also not 100% ND. At the beginning of the school year, I was in a new school because my family moved. So it was great for me. I could get to know more people and not get judged for having been overweight (they didn’t know until later), and I was hoping to make a good first impression.
On the first day of school, I got invited by the "cool" kids to sit with them. I declined and decided to sit with the sub5s in the first row. Everything was going fine until the dance course came around, a thing at my school where you can sign up and learn to dance together with a partner from your school (also in 10th grade).
I was new and I wasn’t particularly interested in any foids there, since the HTB+ didn’t go there and made it clear by brutally slapping and rejecting the Chad of my grade after he tried a move on her. Whilst everyone was talking about girls, I was sitting there (I asked the teacher to change the seating chart so I could sit with my "buddy", not sub5, he’s HMTN), and he asked me why I don’t look for a dance partner, as he had no trouble picking up a foid (although his girl was pretty much a total whore).
I then told him there’s this cute girl in the parallel class, and he helped me find her Instagram. So I requested her there. I even told him that she had a nice PFP and that it could be goon material. We both laughed, and some of the cool kids who overheard us laughed too.
But then the sub5s, who were always outcasted, couldn’t sit with it since they started to hate me. I basically dumped them for the other friend group, since I didn’t wanna hang out with tech nerds. They went to the girl with the goonable pfp and told her what I said, right in front of me so I could witness her reaction (they told her during the 5-minute break between French lessons). She obviously started crying, and I was immediately called a creep and a weirdo. We were both sent to the principal's office, and after we talked it out, she believed me (that I would never do such a thing and so on). She had to make a PA in the WA group of our entire grade level that I didn’t say that and that it was made up by the sub5s.
But the damage was done, and she didn’t want to go out with me.
Then things calmed down, and the US elections came around. Mind you, we live in Europe, so the average citizen is against Trump. My stupid IQcel self thought it was smart to attention-bait and say I was a Trumpie. It worked, I got my attention, but in a bad way. Mainly people outside of my class started hating on me. The rest couldn’t care less, and it was also a forgotten story.
Then, after everything calmed down, I had a double date in February with two girls, and it was kinda okay. But the next day, when me and my buddy saw them at school, we greeted them and walked off. But my dumbass walked into a glass wall and embarrassed myself in front of them. Some people started making names up to kinda bully me, and since then they developed many names for me, since it fits my name really easy. Take any word and add it to the beginning of the last 3 letters of my name.
The worst one was when I hung out with like 5 different girls in a month, which earned me the “male bop” status. One time I even started posting thirst traps of me for girls to like, which worked, but some were making fun of me. Slowly, people were losing respect.
The last time someone made fun of me was 3 days ago. He was going at it for 2 hours, so I told him I’d beat him up if he didn’t stop it (spoiler: he didn’t). So I kinda beat him up in the hallway and made him kneel in front of me and apologize. At least I was earning respect, and people stopped insulting me. But the problem was that this guy was friends with the leader of the grade level, so almost everyone hates me now, and the school sent a letter to my parents telling them about it.
Now, even my so-called "buddy" betrayed me by hanging out with them and not telling me, and talking bad behind my back.
Now the school year’s coming to an end. I'm not ugly, I’d say I'm a 7.5/10, rather masculine, 181cm tall, and HTN face as I said, with 18% body fat. I have no friends as of now at my school. No one wants to hang out with me. The girls are either neutral (the 3 HTBs no one likes because they’re whores, I get along with them quite well, even went on a couple of dates with them), or totally hate me/make fun of me/pity me/think I'm a creepy weirdo.
Now I am asking: how do I find friends next year? I'm going to the same school, but classes are going to be very mixed up since I’m entering the upper level, where you can choose what classes to have. So I’ll always be with different people in a class, which will maybe give me the opportunity to find new friends.
How can i restore my rep and be liked?
TLDR:
I am definitely not 100% NT, but also not 100% ND. At the beginning of the school year, I was in a new school because my family moved. So it was great for me. I could get to know more people and not get judged for having been overweight (they didn’t know until later), and I was hoping to make a good first impression.
On the first day of school, I got invited by the "cool" kids to sit with them. I declined and decided to sit with the sub5s in the first row. Everything was going fine until the dance course came around, a thing at my school where you can sign up and learn to dance together with a partner from your school (also in 10th grade).
I was new and I wasn’t particularly interested in any foids there, since the HTB+ didn’t go there and made it clear by brutally slapping and rejecting the Chad of my grade after he tried a move on her. Whilst everyone was talking about girls, I was sitting there (I asked the teacher to change the seating chart so I could sit with my "buddy", not sub5, he’s HMTN), and he asked me why I don’t look for a dance partner, as he had no trouble picking up a foid (although his girl was pretty much a total whore).
I then told him there’s this cute girl in the parallel class, and he helped me find her Instagram. So I requested her there. I even told him that she had a nice PFP and that it could be goon material. We both laughed, and some of the cool kids who overheard us laughed too.
But then the sub5s, who were always outcasted, couldn’t sit with it since they started to hate me. I basically dumped them for the other friend group, since I didn’t wanna hang out with tech nerds. They went to the girl with the goonable pfp and told her what I said, right in front of me so I could witness her reaction (they told her during the 5-minute break between French lessons). She obviously started crying, and I was immediately called a creep and a weirdo. We were both sent to the principal's office, and after we talked it out, she believed me (that I would never do such a thing and so on). She had to make a PA in the WA group of our entire grade level that I didn’t say that and that it was made up by the sub5s.
But the damage was done, and she didn’t want to go out with me.
Then things calmed down, and the US elections came around. Mind you, we live in Europe, so the average citizen is against Trump. My stupid IQcel self thought it was smart to attention-bait and say I was a Trumpie. It worked, I got my attention, but in a bad way. Mainly people outside of my class started hating on me. The rest couldn’t care less, and it was also a forgotten story.
Then, after everything calmed down, I had a double date in February with two girls, and it was kinda okay. But the next day, when me and my buddy saw them at school, we greeted them and walked off. But my dumbass walked into a glass wall and embarrassed myself in front of them. Some people started making names up to kinda bully me, and since then they developed many names for me, since it fits my name really easy. Take any word and add it to the beginning of the last 3 letters of my name.
The worst one was when I hung out with like 5 different girls in a month, which earned me the “male bop” status. One time I even started posting thirst traps of me for girls to like, which worked, but some were making fun of me. Slowly, people were losing respect.
The last time someone made fun of me was 3 days ago. He was going at it for 2 hours, so I told him I’d beat him up if he didn’t stop it (spoiler: he didn’t). So I kinda beat him up in the hallway and made him kneel in front of me and apologize. At least I was earning respect, and people stopped insulting me. But the problem was that this guy was friends with the leader of the grade level, so almost everyone hates me now, and the school sent a letter to my parents telling them about it.
Now, even my so-called "buddy" betrayed me by hanging out with them and not telling me, and talking bad behind my back.
Now the school year’s coming to an end. I'm not ugly, I’d say I'm a 7.5/10, rather masculine, 181cm tall, and HTN face as I said, with 18% body fat. I have no friends as of now at my school. No one wants to hang out with me. The girls are either neutral (the 3 HTBs no one likes because they’re whores, I get along with them quite well, even went on a couple of dates with them), or totally hate me/make fun of me/pity me/think I'm a creepy weirdo.
Now I am asking: how do I find friends next year? I'm going to the same school, but classes are going to be very mixed up since I’m entering the upper level, where you can choose what classes to have. So I’ll always be with different people in a class, which will maybe give me the opportunity to find new friends.
How can i restore my rep and be liked?
TLDR:
i fucked up nobody likes me at my new school i dont have friends/a soical life