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dps2008
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I am a guy with an average height and face mtn, possibly htn with a decent physique. I don't wanna go for average girls, only for at least htb–stacylite. I currently wanna finish high school (I'm 3rd year) and save money for surgery. I have high inhibition so I can't even talk to the beautiful girls I want. There's one at my school but I'm scared I'll be humiliated, especially because she looks better than me. I like to think logically and not cope. I have managed to lower my inhibition to a normal level I would say. I can speak up in class now (I could barely do it before convincing myself for minutes prior). I stay almost fully relaxed around groups of people which is a bug improvement. I also went from going around school being intimidated by most guys to not being intimidated by most guys which is a big improvement too. I'm kinda stuck at this point now. How do I lower inhibition and become more confident. Would be nice if someone has some more advanced tips.
Also, I'm only 17 and wanna try out exposure therapy more before drugs since I think I may get addicted. Also, my social skills aren't bad but I don't know what I would say when approaching girls and that adds more inhibition. If you wanna know, the girl I wanna talk to goes with one friend or in a group 99% of the time and she's not the easiest girl to approach. I am possibly nervous because I believe there is some chance and I subconsciously don't wanna fuck something up. I posted the post hoping maybe there is some secret trick I don't know.