I need to start mass cold-approaching

[Deleted member 275]

Will help me become more social, higher self-esteem and low inhib tbh. Everytime I see a hot girl, no matter where, I need to approach and strike convo.

NOBODY does this even though one's mind and body tells you to do it. Shows everyone is a pussy nowadays. Redpill is right tbh. Looksmax is only part 1 of ascension.

Rage part is that the first 100 approaches are going to be completely autistic since I don't even talk with another human being IRL on an average day. Absolutely over for my social skills atm.

 

[Angel]

Will help me become more social, higher self-esteem and low inhib tbh. Everytime I see a hot girl, no matter where, I need to approach and strike convo.

NOBODY does this even though one's mind and body tells you to do it. Shows everyone is a pussy nowadays. Redpill is right tbh. Looksmax is only part 1 of ascension.

RIP self esteem

 

[Petsmart]

This guy is gonna have the same self esteem as the rats in a sewer after his “mass cold aproach”

 

[Deleted member 275]

RIP self esteem

It's already rock-bottom though. I hate myself lmao. I should cope by telling myself that getting rejected by a girl is better than not approaching at all.

I actually approached 3 groups of girls solo at a party last weekend. 1 time I got laughed at in my face and called an ugly pedo, 1 time I just got a weird stare to tell me to fuck off, 1 time the group of girls started laughing but in a friendly way. Danced with them a bit but didn't make a move.

Tbh it fucked up my mood when I got laughed at and rejected, but I guess it's part of mass-approach. If I didn't do shit it would've ended like a typical boring ass 'party' where nothing ever fucking happens. At least the one mate I was with thought it was low inhib of me to approach chicks like that, so was good shit.

 

[MiroslavBulldosex]

Cold approaching is probably the most autistic and the less successful thing you could do.
You need some context to approach, otherwise you'll just look like a hobo begging for money

 

[Deleted member 275]

Cold approaching is probably the most autistic and the less successful thing you could do.

My role-model is Dan Bilzerian.

he mass-approached in college, watch the first minute.

Idk what else to do man. It's a fucking numbers game. But Tinder isn't getting me anything and fucking shitton of escorts ain't gonna boost my self-esteem in the end I fear.

 

[MiroslavBulldosex]

My role-model is Dan Bilzerian.

he mass-approached in college, watch the first minute.

Idk what else to do man. It's a fucking numbers game. But Tinder isn't getting me anything and fucking shitton of escorts ain't gonna boost my self-esteem in the end I fear.

As long as you don't approach in an aspie PUA way you're good.
He's actually right in that vid, just strike a conversation but don't expect anything and see how it goes.

 

[Pendejo]

@Mr_Norwood

numbers game

@LondonVillie

 

[Deleted member 275]

As long as you don't approach in an aspie PUA way you're good.
He's actually right in that vid, just strike a conversation but don't expect anything and see how it goes.

Yes that's what I want to do. Sometimes I am in a positive/good mood and approaching a girl and striking a random convo goes intuitively with 0 anxiety. Had reasonable success with that actually, but usually I am in a down/depressed/lone-wolf mood so it happens very rarely.

So need to combine mood-maxing with forcing social interaction. Aspie PUA cold-approaching can still work with drunk girls in clubs tbh so you shouldn't underestimate it.

 

[MiroslavBulldosex]

It's just that when I think "cold approach" I imagine a weird-ass guy standing in a busy street just saying cheesy lines to random girls who are totally uninterested.

Yes that's what I want to do. Sometimes I am in a positive/good mood and approaching a girl and striking a random convo goes intuitively with 0 anxiety. Had reasonable success with that actually, but usually I am in a down/depressed/lone-wolf mood so it happens very rarely.

So need to combine mood-maxing with forcing social interaction. Aspie PUA cold-approaching can still work with drunk girls in clubs tbh so you shouldn't underestimate it.

I'm actually doing it more and more often.
Don't only do it with young women, just strike conversation with anyone really. Crack up some jokes, see how they react.

 

[xit]

As long as you don't approach in an aspie PUA way you're good.
He's actually right in that vid, just strike a conversation but don't expect anything and see how it goes.

but that requires talking about boring female shit most of the time

pretending youre interested is torture

 

[MiroslavBulldosex]

but that requires talking about boring female shit most of the time

pretending youre interested is torture

Then just talk about shocking things to make things funny.
Like if she's saying random ass bullshit just say something like "Well after all the jews kinda deserved what Hitler did to them, although the holocaust didn't technically happen, what's your take on it ?"

 

[Deleted member 275]

It's just that when I think "cold approach" I imagine a weird-ass guy standing in a busy street just saying cheesy lines to random girls who are totally uninterested.

Yeah that's weird. I think the best way is to be as loud and obnoxious as possible about anything natural you feel or think about in the moment.

Instead of googling random questions that pop up in your head you just ask them to random people around you. ' Oh wow you see that, why would that be, don't you think its weird that ….?'

You feel cold? Complain about it to random people around you and ask them what they think. 'Damn it's so cold here, holy shit haha someone fucked with the AC or what?'

'Oh damn, they started renovation-work on this building finally? Hope it won't cause too much of a hassle for us here'

'You noticed they painted that building next to us bright-blue haha? I think it looks stupid asf, what do you think?'

I think that's a basis to start off. Then once the convo is started you can see if you can make it slightly more personal, etc. Just start talking about whatever you are about to do. ' I am heading out over here, I am visiting this place, I am doing …. ever been there, done that, know anything about that?' etc

It helps if you have shit going on in your life and have a connection with your city/environment aswell cuz it makes it easier to strike convo. Know about the daily news that people talk about in their life, be involved in local communities, etc.

Hope you find some sort of similarity/similar interest, etc. in 10% of the cases else just cut off the convo and dont waste time if the convo remains dry. Looksmaxing helps ofcourse since girls react more warm the better you look.

 

[xit]

Then just talk about shocking things to make things funny.
Like if she's saying random ass bullshit just say something like "Well after all the jews kinda deserved what Hitler did to them, although the holocaust didn't technically happen, what's your take on it ?"

that is the most autistic thing ive ever read and you will get rejected every time saying that and probably reported to the police

 

[MiroslavBulldosex]

Yeah that's weird. I think the best way is to be as loud and obnoxious as possible about anything natural you feel or think about in the moment.

Instead of googling random questions that pop up in your head you just ask them to random people around you. ' Oh wow you see that, why would that be, don't you think its weird that ….?'

You feel cold? Complain about it to random people around you and ask them what they think. 'Damn it's so cold here, holy shit haha someone fucked with the AC or what?'

'Oh damn, they started renovation-work on this building finally? Hope it won't cause too much of a hassle for us here'

'You noticed they painted that building next to us bright-blue haha? I think it looks stupid asf, what do you think?'

I think that's a basis to start off. Then once the convo is started you can see if you can make it slightly more personal, etc. Just start talking about whatever you are about to do. ' I am heading out over here, I am visiting this place, I am doing …. ever been there, done that, know anything about that?' etc

It helps if you have shit going on in your life and have a connection with your city/environment aswell cuz it makes it easier to strike convo. Know about the daily news that people talk about in their life, be involved in local communities, etc.

Exactly.
That wasn't a natural thing for me at first but you get used to it and actually start to enjoy it.

that is the most autistic thing ive ever read and you will get rejected saying that and probably reported to the police

Bro that was a joke

 

[Deleted member 275]

that is the most autistic thing ive ever read and you will get rejected every time saying that and probably reported to the police

That particular case yeah, but I think the theory of 'talk about random/weird bullshit that shocks people' is very legit.

I have had success talking with girls about silicone testicle enlargement. I read about it on lookism somewhere the day before. Me and some mates were already in a conversation with some random chicks at a sports event. The convo was just super dry and fucking boring. So I started talking about silicone testicles in a half-serious/half-funny way. They laughed and found it interesting so I told them about the procedure and why one would do it and that girls think big testicles are attractive, etc. Everyone started discussing it and laughing about it and whether they would do it and shit and how retarded it is.

I met one of those random girls we were talking with at a later date and she approached me and asked me 'how it was going with my testicles and whether I enlarged them already'. It didn't turn into anything but it just shows that talking about the most random bullshit crap is very legit.

 

[Mr_Norwood]

Will help me become more social, higher self-esteem and low inhib tbh. Everytime I see a hot girl, no matter where, I need to approach and strike convo.

NOBODY does this even though one's mind and body tells you to do it. Shows everyone is a pussy nowadays. Redpill is right tbh. Looksmax is only part 1 of ascension.

Rage part is that the first 100 approaches are going to be completely autistic since I don't even talk with another human being IRL on an average day. Absolutely over for my social skills atm.

Congratulations.. you're on the right track.

Approaching is the only way in 2019.

Online dating / Tinder is over of you're not a 9/10

 

[turkproducer]

Cold approaching is probably the most autistic and the less successful thing you could do.
You need some context to approach, otherwise you'll just look like a hobo begging for money

I see where you got that from, Darius?

 

[MiroslavBulldosex]

I see where you got that from, Darius?

Are you referring to Roosh ?
Because it's actually the guy on my avi who said the same thing about cold approach.

 

[Mr_Norwood]

Approaching is legit and you have nothing to lose.

Pua / Game is bullshit thought..
Say hi, be polite and flatter the girl

I've done it a few times and never had a negative experience.. even the "gotta bf" ones were sweet about it... Still got a few of them on my Facebook still

 

[Pendejo]

Approaching is legit and you have nothing to lose.

Pua / Game is bullshit thought..
Say hi, be polite and flatter the girl

I've done it a few times and never had a negative experience.. even the "gotta bf" ones were sweet about it... Still got a few of them on my Facebook still

Too high inhibit for that

 

[Deleted member 2745]

Then you gonna get mass rejected

 

[Deleted member 2854]

OP is actually pretty GL so he should do fine overall.

I got a lay and a date from cold approaching but it was hard going. had to do about 15-20 approaches for that. And a lot of them looked at me like: 'Wtf are you doing? This is weird and awkward' (without verbalising it of course).

It takes low levels of inhib to do it.

 

[Pendejo]

OP is actually pretty GL so he should do fine overall.

Pics?

 

[autistic_tendencies]

No one fucking does this in 2019

 

[Deleted member 275]

Pics?

from my weightloss journey (20kg)

OP is actually pretty GL so he should do fine overall.

I got a lay and a date from cold approaching but it was hard going. had to do about 15-20 approaches for that. And a lot of them looked at me like: 'Wtf are you doing? This is weird and awkward' (without verbalising it of course).

It takes low levels of inhib to do it.

Yeah, it's a number's game tbh. I have also gotten reactions from 'get away from me ugly creep' to 'finally a guy talking to me'. And that was often independent of how hot the girl was that I was approaching. Big factor of luck : therefore numbers game.

Safest way is to not make it too flirty and keep it funny/casual. I have had women reject me even though I was just having a random funny/casual conversation with them. As a response I can put the blame on them for being anti-social. Friends will agree that I wasn't even hitting on them and the woman acted in a retarded/overly sensitive way.

Just mass-approach tbh.

 

[Deleted member 756]

@Mr_Norwood


@LondonVillie

Just message every girl and pray tbh

 

[Subhuman trash]

Dude you might get the cops called on you TBH. It’s happened before foids don’t want non chads talking to them.

 

[Pendejo]

Dude you might get the cops called on you TBH. It’s happened before foids don’t want non chads talking to them.

He looks good

from my weightloss journey (20kg)

 

[Deleted member 245]

Only retards mass cold approach in 2019.

 

[Subhuman trash]

He looks good

Nvm then he’s good maybe even have success.