I need you help, how do I fall in love

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Helvetier

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I did not fell in love for years, genuinely want to fall in love with a girl but it never happens.
Is it normal to just see a girl and fall in love, or do I have to talk to a girl that I find attractive so I fall in love, bcs normally it should be on first sight right?
 
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Just force urself to notice shit abt her idk
 
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Cool avi btw
 
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first off, get your testosterone checked
 
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love at first sight is real, it'll just happen on its own
 
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nigga why do you force yourself to falling in love
 
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nigga why do you force yourself to falling in love
Bcs I want a relationship but I can’t have one if I don’t love someone
 
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I know, I have fallen in love
I kinda had that feeling of love from a girl i saw at the gym she was very beautiful (she even stole my water bottle and drank from it) but I decided to do nothing and don’t write her or sum
 
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I kinda had that feeling of love from a girl i saw at the gym she was very beautiful (she even stole my water bottle and drank from it) but I decided to do nothing and don’t write her or sum
try talking to her the next time you see her
 
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I kinda had that feeling of love from a girl i saw at the gym she was very beautiful (she even stole my water bottle and drank from it) but I decided to do nothing and don’t write her or sum
It wasn’t a very strong feeling so I just ignored
 
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Yeah should do that ngl but I think she has something with someone already
well, she clearly liked you on some level or else she would've just ignored you.
 
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have to be attractive for that man
 
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ur right anyways im way too ugly rn to experience that
No bro ugly ppl find love too thats what the bp is wrong about (its just way harder)
 
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No bro ugly ppl find love too thats what the bp is wrong about (its just way harder)
i dont want a relationship. I’ll be treated like shit just bc of my looks
 
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Not if you settle with your looksmatch
even if you do tbh she’ll want someone better looking if your ugly. since the summer ive slowly accepted my fate
 
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even if you do tbh she’ll want someone better looking if your ugly. since the summer ive slowly accepted my fate
Thats sad that you think like this. Ofc its true that your live is WAYY easier if your gl but its only over for sub5s. I assume your ltn so if you find a ltb looksmatch you will both know that you don’t have the prettiest partner but in the end she will like you for who you are and you will like her for who she is (and you will also be physically attracted to her)
 
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Thats sad that you think like this. Ofc its true that your live is WAYY easier if your gl but its only over for sub5s. I assume your ltn so if you find a ltb looksmatch you will both know that you don’t have the prettiest partner but in the end she will like you for who you are and you will like her for who she is (and you will also be physically attracted to her)
i guess bro
 
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I did not fell in love for years, genuinely want to fall in love with a girl but it never happens.
Is it normal to just see a girl and fall in love, or do I have to talk to a girl that I find attractive so I fall in love, bcs normally it should be on first sight right?
just use common sense nigger it only happens after u get to know her and she shows u mutual affection. and u cant *make* yourself to fall in love. your body will do it involuntarily.
 
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just use common sense nigger it only happens after u get to know her and she shows u mutual affection. and u cant *make* yourself to fall in love. your body will do it involuntarily.
Shouldn’t I instantly know if i love her or not?
 
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Yes on first sight or after a few minutes of taking or sum
no there has to be a connection first. u cant love someone u just met 5 minutes ago. it takes at least a week for the feelings to form id say. where u getting this love at first sight bs from?
 
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no there has to be a connection first. u cant love someone u just met 5 minutes ago. it takes at least a week for the feelings to form id say. where u getting this love at first sight bs from?
From bp related stuff
 
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From bp related stuff
love at first sight is a myth. think about it all that means is u love their look. thats not a personal connection and thats what real love is love comes from a connection and the foid has to show u kindness and that she likes u back and she grows on u and u have many memories w her and boom ur in love and theres notjing u can do abt it now. otherwise its not love just lust and admiration. love at first sight isnt what u thought it meant (its a myth like i said). love at first sight is literally a line from movies not an irl thing.
 
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love at first sight is a myth. think about it all that means is u love their look. thats not a personal connection and thats what real love is love comes from a connection and the foid has to show u kindness and that she likes u back and she grows on u and u have many memories w her and boom ur in love and theres notjing u can do abt it now. otherwise its not love just lust and admiration. love at first sight isnt what u thought it meant (its a myth like i said). love at first sight is literally a line from movies not an irl thing.
yoo that makes sense
 
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once you start seeing women for what they are you can never come back to be honest
 
I mean, you know they're all whores right?

I only got in love once and yet I knew she was not for me, it was just a feeling but would get me screwed if I marry her
 
I mean, you know they're all whores right?

I only got in love once and yet I knew she was not for me, it was just a feeling but would get me screwed if I marry her
Looser mentality
 
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