I never had a father figure in my life..

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Im 25 years old and never had a legit father figure in my life. I do have a dad but he isnt even supportive at all. He always yells at me and is always grumpy. Becuase of the lack of support for a father and their support, I'm never confident in anything I do. I dont have a dad I can talk to and just talk with about life and what problems I have. I hate my dad. Because of the way I grew up, I suffer from anxiety, addicted to alcohol, low confidence, and depression. How do I become a better man?
 
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You can’t become a better man. But you can always mog a better man and become a better man that way
 
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Well i think you know what you need to do. You can stop drinking, create routines, earn some money, try to create a vision what to do in your life
 
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Im 25 years old and never had a legit father figure in my life. I do have a dad but he isnt even supportive at all. He always yells at me and is always grumpy. Becuase of the lack of support for a father and their support, I'm never confident in anything I do. I dont have a dad I can talk to and just talk with. I hate my dad. Becuase of the way I grew up, I suffer from anxiety, addicted to alochol, low confidence, and depression. How do I become a better man?
You become a better man by taking control of your life. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself - you are 25 years old, aka a fully grown man. Sooner or later you're gonna have to start acting like it. Nobody is going to 'fix' you. You have to do this yourself. Plenty of men had shitty/absent fathers and overcame it. You are not special in that regard. Time to man up, basically.
 
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Im 25 years old and never had a legit father figure in my life. I do have a dad but he isnt even supportive at all. He always yells at me and is always grumpy. Becuase of the lack of support for a father and their support, I'm never confident in anything I do. I dont have a dad I can talk to and just talk with about life and what problems I have. I hate my dad. Because of the way I grew up, I suffer from anxiety, addicted to alcohol, low confidence, and depression. How do I become a better man?
Stop bitching. You sound like a woman now. You don't need a dad to be a man.
 
I was grown up by mother and grandmother. Grandad only bad mouthed me. Can relate, man.
 
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i'm sorry you deserve a good dad. everybody does. people don't make kids if you can't afford it.
 
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i'm sorry you deserve a good dad. everybody does. people don't make kids if you can't afford it.
And not only financially.

Op you can only accept it. It's just a part of us and it doesn't have to be totally bad.
 
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And not only financially.

Op you can only accept it. It's just a part of us and it doesn't have to be totally bad.
afford it i mean by it able to be good parents; my bad.
 
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stfu if u still have parents retard
 
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Im 25 years old and never had a legit father figure in my life. I do have a dad but he isnt even supportive at all. He always yells at me and is always grumpy. Becuase of the lack of support for a father and their support, I'm never confident in anything I do. I dont have a dad I can talk to and just talk with about life and what problems I have. I hate my dad. Because of the way I grew up, I suffer from anxiety, addicted to alcohol, low confidence, and depression. How do I become a better man?
You're not alone, become Muslim and one with us.
 
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You're just looking for excuses to be a wimp, plenty don't even have a dad
 
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No father figure is truly life crippling, especially when ur father is actually there but he doesn't teach you anything and doesn't talk to you. I had a father like that, young me wanted to be a surgeon, i was in love, i was athletic god. But my father never cared, and religious fuck didnt let me love.

everyday I imagine myself slitting his throat. I have no motivation since he denied me my passion. Slowly trying to build myself again but its fucking hard, prob gonba get some aderal prescription
 
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No father figure is truly life crippling, especially when ur father is actually there but he doesn't teach you anything and doesn't talk to you. I had a father like that, young me wanted to be a surgeon, i was in love, i was athletic god. But my father never cared, and religious fuck didnt let me love.

everyday I imagine myself slitting his throat. I have no motivation since he denied me my passion. Slowly trying to build myself again but its fucking hard, prob gonba get some aderal prescription
the origin of vitruvian
 
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Im 25 years old and never had a legit father figure in my life. I do have a dad but he isnt even supportive at all. He always yells at me and is always grumpy. Becuase of the lack of support for a father and their support, I'm never confident in anything I do. I dont have a dad I can talk to and just talk with about life and what problems I have. I hate my dad. Because of the way I grew up, I suffer from anxiety, addicted to alcohol, low confidence, and depression. How do I become a better man?


You didnt lose out in much tbqh
 
cope
coming from a single mother, crackhouse like upbringing
 

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