Vantablack
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Rawdogging a first date today
no alcohol until i get to the venue, no pregab, no benzos, not even any caffeine i got a shitty buzz cut a month ago and my hair still hasn’t grown back will report back with results
Matched with a girl on Hinge, I usually don't like talking to women off Hinge (women in general but esp from dating apps), the only reason I downloaded it was because I broke up with my crazy BPD ex recently. Anyways, I ended up ghosting her but she double texted me indicating high interest, so I thought it'd be an easy slay and organised a meetup anyway.
I realised too late however that the bar we were meeting at was way too far away and I had no time to pregame the date, plus I had no pregabs/benzos on hand like I usually do so I was going in completely sober, something I haven't done since grade school. I decided to go anyways because why tf not. I arrived like 20 minutes late and she was already waiting for me outside.
She was shorter than I had expected, about 5 feet without heels and had a cute petite body that is exactly my type. MTB facially but body halo + fakeup made me interested. As soon as I got out I lit up a cig (I don't even smoke like that, I just thought it looks cool) but that was retarded since we now had to wait for the cig to get over before entering. Anyways we entered and it was actually quite a nice place. I ordered a beer for the both of us and we began talking.
This is the part I was most scared about since without drinks I usually stay silent like an autist but in this case it worked out for me since she did most of the talking. I just asked her a question once in a while and she would yap about a story I had minimal interest in. We started by talking about work and school (she's still in uni) and I quickly sipped my beer to get as drunk as possible. I don't really remember what else we talked about since by now I wasn't really listening, and just focused on downing my drinks asap.
Once the drinks started hitting is when the fun began. I started opening up more and jestering, and she was laughing along at my jokes. She did a lot of the escalating too, reached her hand out to put on the table, I put my hand on top of hers. She pulled back at first but reached out again, and this time we were interlocking fingers. We were still talking though, so all the escalating happened in an NT way where the flow wasn't broken. Most NT i've felt in a while. Eventually she said smth like "ur sitting so far away" and I put my chair closer to hers (we were sitting across each other). She was still talking and I just looked at her and went in for the kiss right there in the bar mid sentence. We made out for a while, then paid the bill and got out of there.
She invited me to her place (i live with my parents) but also said she was on her period, and since she lived so far away and it was getting late I wasn't in the mood to travel so much. We walked around in random alleys making out but there were still a lot of people outside so we never really found anywhere private. After a while we reached a parking lot and she bent down to suck my dick. I was super blue balled from all the making out but we got interrupted since someone was getting in the car next to us. I gave up after this, and just told her I'll meet her next time once her period is over. She got super offended at this and said I just want to see her for sex, so I then spent the next 10 minutes convincing her that wasn't the case and I'd meet her regardless.
I think it worked, since these were the texts sent post the meetup
Anyways, I'm gonna meet her again soon and slay. Overall a success.
@ltn_looksminner
