I remember being super confident with my oneitis

[Deleted member 21735]

then she put me in my place. she probably thought "WHO does this subhuman think he is??? He doesnt know what he is in for. I will show him". Confidence is punished if she doesnt like your looks.

 

[Primalsplit]

You should have put her in her place instead.

 

[Deleted member 26642]

How many years ago was this

 

[Deleted member 21735]

You should have put her in her place instead.

how?

 

[Dr. Bludy]

Go er

 

[Primalsplit]

how?

Don't care much about her and her opinion of you. Then convey it. Make it obvious. The worst thing you can get is a draw instead of a loss.

At least maintain your dignity.

Girls, unlike male bullies can't physically escalate to punish your behaviour. The worst thing they can do is spread misinformation around your back. But unless she is completely vindictive/evil, she will gain respect for you and halt her misdemeanor.

 

[Deleted member 21735]

Don't care much about her and her opinion of you. Then convey it. Make it obvious. The worst thing you can get is a draw instead of a loss.

At least maintain your dignity.

Girls, unlike male bullies can't physically escalate to punish your behaviour. The worst thing they can do is spread misinformation around your back. But unless she is completely vindictive/evil, she will gain respect for you and halt her misdemeanor.

it was my fault because i asked her out

 

[Primalsplit]

it was my fault because i asked her out

It's not a "fault" to ask someone out.

 

[Deleted member 21735]

It's not a "fault" to ask someone out.

she never said she would be nice to me

 

[Primalsplit]

she never said she would be nice to me

Doesn't fucking matter. Be a man and be unapologetic. If she's nasty to you, you can be nasty to her.

 

[Deleted member 21735]

Doesn't fucking matter. Be a man and be unapologetic. If she's nasty to you, you can be nasty to her.

yes but its not like she wanted to see me or anything so she could be as nastyr as she wanted

 

[Primalsplit]

yes but its not like she wanted to see me or anything so she could be as nastyr as she wanted

You're a lost cause.

 

[Bojack]

Should’ve smashed on her and showed her what a real man could do !