I (still) hate being trans

[Deleted member 21766]

The world just seems to be becoming less and less friendly to trans people constantly. You've got anti-trans legislation being pushed, constant asinine narratives being pushed, and people refusing to try to understand what it means to be trans and how gender dysphoria is something you're born with. I've been really down the past couple of days for reasons any trans person or UK citizen would probably know.

Another day, another hate crime. Seeing the way people will talk about a 16-year-old girl who was murdered only days ago is proof that trans people not only aren't allowed peace in life, but we're also not allowed respect in death. All of the hate towards people just trying to exist and live our lives makes me hate the world.

As for the non-societal issue, which is the one that people seem to ignore the most often, my dysphoria has been up lately. Sure, I got breast implants, and that made me extremely happy. My chest dysphoria has plummeted, but the dysphoria over all of the other male aspects of my body remains unaffected.

I actually came out to a coworker last week, saying "Would you believe me if I told you that I was born a boy?" Well, she believed me. She told me that she already knew. Sure, she mentioned that she put two and two together because I said that I can't get pregnant and because I got breast implants, but that still shouldn't be the first thought that you have. She's not transphobic, but it feels so fucking invalidating to be told something like that. It comes across as if those were confirming factors after me not passing well.

I'm always gonna be extremely jealous of the girls who are able to cut ties with people from their past and live their entire lives stealth. I want to erase any record of me ever being a boy. I want to just be a normal girl. Is that so much to ask? I want to feel comfortable in my own skin and not feel a self-loathing pang of "ywnbarw" when I hear other women talk about things like sex, periods, and pregnancy. I hate having conscious reminders that I'm always gonna be biologically male.

I'll never be able to be the woman I want to be, so why do I even bother staying alive?

 

[Dr. Bludy]

Geeza expects me to read all those words

 

[Deleted member 30325]

Didn't read but I just want to ask did you chop your balls off and replace them with a pussy?
If yes then does jerking off makes you straight man or a lesbian woman?

 

[Deleted member 21766]

Didn't read but I just want to ask did you chop your balls off and replace them with a pussy?
If yes then does jerking off makes you straight man or a lesbian woman?

I was able to masturbate to an orgasm 16 weeks after my vaginoplasty and after that is became a little harder but I could. All of a sudden about 13 months after surgery, it just clicked and I can orgasm pretty quickly and easily with a vibrator. It just takes time and practice and it also takes a little more than a year for most of the nerves to settle with sensation.

 

[alien]

I have a trans FWB (pre-OP). I deepthroated her small Asian cock and licked her balls last Saturday. Personally I don't believe in gender roles. So I don't see the point in identifying as another gender. Just express yourself in the way that you want. If you want to wear a dress, makeup, go on hormones to appear more feminine, then do it.

 

[Deleted member 30325]

I was able to masturbate to an orgasm 16 weeks after my vaginoplasty and after that is became a little harder but I could. All of a sudden about 13 months after surgery, it just clicked and I can orgasm pretty quickly and easily with a vibrator. It just takes time and practice and it also takes a little more than a year for most of the nerves to settle with sensation.

Don't you miss your dick?

 

[Deleted member 29167]

weirdo

 

[Deleted member 21766]

Don't you miss your dick?

I’m not actually trans jfl
I just copy and paste this shit

 

[The Grinch]

You go girl

 

[HumidVent]

Gender and sex are not the same thing. Breast implants, hormones, genitals have nothing to do with gender. The fact that trans people change their hormones, genitals, and get facial masculine or feminine surgery just proves that they are mentally ill.

 

[LowTrust]

cope I remember 2010 the idea of someone being trans was alien now pretty much everyone knows what it is and more accepting, we need more black trans to offset other races looking like soyboy trans cucks though

 

[alien]

Gender and sex are not the same thing. Breast implants, hormones, genitals have nothing to do with gender. The fact that trans people change their hormones, genitals, and get facial masculine or feminine surgery just proves that they are mentally ill.

How is it mentally ill? My trans FWB ascended hard after transitioning. She would be a ricecel or just another gay Asian male bottom if she presented as a man. But now she gets her small Asian dick sucked and her balls licked by a straight Chad like me. She looks pretty af.

 

[HumidVent]

How is it mentally ill? My trans FWB ascended hard after transitioning. She would be a ricecel or just another gay Asian male bottom if she presented as a man. But now she gets her small Asian dick sucked and her balls licked by a straight Chad like me. She looks pretty af.

Because you can't change your sex, only your gender. You can only try to hide it by making yourself more or less dimorphic throught manipulation of hormones and surgery.
The only way they can claim to not be mentally ill is if they only change their gender and don't do anything about dimorphism/sex. So for example a guy who wants to transition to a girl would have to do things like wear makeup, grow their hair long, paint their nails, wear pink clothing, etc.

This is also problematic because then it just reinforces binary cultural gender roles. Why can't a man wear pink clothes and grow his hair long and paint his nails?

 

[alien]

Because you can't change your sex, only your gender. You can only try to hide it by making yourself more or less dimorphic throught manipulation of hormones and surgery.
The only way they can claim to not be mentally ill is if they only change their gender and don't do anything about dimorphism/sex. So for example a guy who wants to transition to a girl would have to do things like wear makeup, grow their hair long, paint their nails, wear pink clothing, etc.

This is also problematic because then it just reinforces binary cultural gender roles. Why can't a man wear pink clothes and grow his hair long and paint his nails?

I don't believe in binary cultural gender roles myself. Men should be able to wear pink clothes, grow his hair long and paint his nails. I don't think it's mentally ill to want to express yourself however you want. In this case she went on hormones so that she would have more feminine physical attributes. And she was able to attract straight guys like me this way. There's nothing wrong with that. She personally identifies as a woman and uses she/her pronouns. Though personally I don't think gender identity really matters at all. She is free to express herself however she wants. She doesn't have to be a stereotypically masculine man. I myself don't consider myself a stereotypically masculine man. But I am masculine presenting enough to the point where no one would mistake me for a woman.

 

[Deleted member 23391]

straight Chad

let's not get carried away, now

 

[Deleted member 23314]

I find it funny how incels/isolated men are usually considered to be autistic while the real autists (faggots) are holding signs promoting LGBTQ and other disgusting pedophilic shit because they have no connection to their bodies/others. You are a disgusting groomer idk how anyone can look at you irl and think you have any semblance of sanity.

 

[thecel]

relatable post but link the original don’t just copypaste with no credit u asshol

 

[Justin Trudeau]

Transphobia is still a huge problem in our society which is fucking disgusting!