I THINK…..I JUST HAD MY FIRST BREAK UP…and I don’t know how to deal with it exactly and might need help.

[Dr. Mog]

I don’t care if you don’t read. Im writing this here to my fellow bois who do. Just letting you know I am 100% serious here and this thread is not a joke. I type this in a depressed state.

Long story short, I got unfriended on Snapchat 34 business secs ago by the girl I was seeing for 3 Months (yes my HQNP girlfriend) and all my sleepiness just swooned away rn.

The reason I say this is cause this is my first time being in this situation. I had only blocked my previous ones myself before and now I am the one getting blocked here (karma true fr?) I think I now know how it feels like getting blocked by your girlfriend all of a sudden as a signal of break up.

Also I think I know why this has happened btw….

Things didn’t go well with us ever since I mentioned about a female friend of mine who fogged her. We talked about her just now and I got blocked for it.

She has some friends with her with whom she comes and goes to school with, classmates. And most of the group were all subhuman males which is something I was sure of and there was literally no attraction between them. But my ass gotta put a nose in everything and I was ok with it as long as I had female friends (back up) too. But she was against that. She always told me not to get into girls again or talk to them much and would be heavy insecure whenever I did. I wasn’t insecure about her cause I was sure I mogged the fellas nearby by a mile. But the fact that she told me not to have a female group and she still did have it with those male ones got me frustrated and made it unfair. It’s not my problem that you can’t fog my female group but I can mog your male friend group and you are just insecure about it baby girl. How is it my problem?

I talked about this saying it’s only fair if I had female friends too (once again, not my problem they fog you my girl) and our convos always end with her saying ‘it’s fine that you have female friends’ but if you really were ok with that, why’d you unfriend now without any prior notice ffs?

I literally rejected the proposal by a Thai HTB (whom I once liked) who fogged her ass to Manila to be with this current one and now I am the getting one blocked? Srsly, how insecure you gotta be for this? Huh? Oh god what a shit world.

Has anything like this happened to you before? How do you deal/cope with this and what do your suggest you would do if you were in my position? Now I can’t ask this on soydit and this the only place and you the only bois I got.

Thank you. Your answers (if valid) will be appreciated.

 

[Dr. Mog]

Spoiler: Tags of the ones who might care

@FailedNormieManlet @ReadBooksEveryday @LiteralCaucasian
@Niko @ICANNOTBECONTAINED
@.🇹🇩. @Chinacurry @StepbroMo @bonelessMan @Never Give Up! @Sarx
@justinzayn @Artemis @Dr. Bruh
@BrahminBoss @Cheesyrumble @luljankybo @Xangsane @vaninskybird
@Jamesothy

 

[Deleted member 15674]

I don’t care if you don’t read. Im writing this here to my fellow bois who do. Just letting you know I am 100% serious here and this thread is not a joke. I type this in a depressed state.

Long story short, I got unfriended on Snapchat 34 business secs ago by the girl I was seeing for 3 Months (yes my HQNP girlfriend) and all my sleepiness just swooned away rn.

The reason I say this is cause this is my first time being in this situation. I had only blocked my previous ones myself before and now I am the one getting blocked here (karma true fr?) I think I now know how it feels like getting blocked by your girlfriend all of a sudden as a signal of break up.

Also I think I know why this has happened btw….

Things didn’t go well with us ever since I mentioned about a female friend of mine who fogged her. We talked about her just now and I got blocked for it.

She has some friends with her with whom she comes and goes to school with, classmates. And most of the group were all subhuman males which is something I was sure of and there was literally no attraction between them. But my ass gotta put a nose in everything and I was ok with it as long as I had female friends (back up) too. But she was against that. She always told me not to get into girls again or talk to them much and would be heavy insecure whenever I did. I wasn’t insecure about her cause I was sure I mogged the fellas nearby by a mile. But the fact that she told me not to have a female group and she still did have it with those male ones got me frustrated and made it unfair. It’s not my problem that you can’t fog my female group but I can mog your male friend group and you are just insecure about it baby girl. How is it my problem?

I talked about this saying it’s only fair if I had female friends too (once again, not my problem they fog you my girl) and our convos always end with her saying ‘it’s fine that you have female friends’ but if you really were ok with that, why’d you unfriend now without any prior notice ffs?

I literally rejected the proposal by a Thai HTB (whom I once liked) who fogged her ass to Manila to be with this current one and now I am the getting one blocked? Srsly, how insecure you gotta be for this? Huh? Oh god what a shit world.

Has anything like this happened to you before? How do you deal/cope with this and what do your suggest you would do if you were in my position? Now I can’t ask this on soydit and this the only place and you the only bois I got.

Thank you. Your answers (if valid) will be appreciated.

Is this the girl I told you to dump earlier?

 

[Deleted member 15674]

My advice to dr mog

@Dr. Mog my advice to you regarding your dark triad situation. Listen, a lot of the guys on this site are still in HS, they still have bluepill goggles. It's funny a lot of guys will consider themselves blackpilled but will give the most pathetic of responses and bend over backwards for girls...

looksmax.org

 

[Dr. Mog]

Is this the girl I told you to dump earlier?

Only if I had listened to you brocel

But my short span light triad plan worked there a bit and it went well after. Yeah it’s her.

 

[Deleted member 22190]

I don’t care if you don’t read. Im writing this here to my fellow bois who do. Just letting you know I am 100% serious here and this thread is not a joke. I type this in a depressed state.

Long story short, I got unfriended on Snapchat 34 business secs ago by the girl I was seeing for 3 Months (yes my HQNP girlfriend) and all my sleepiness just swooned away rn.

The reason I say this is cause this is my first time being in this situation. I had only blocked my previous ones myself before and now I am the one getting blocked here (karma true fr?) I think I now know how it feels like getting blocked by your girlfriend all of a sudden as a signal of break up.

Also I think I know why this has happened btw….

Things didn’t go well with us ever since I mentioned about a female friend of mine who fogged her. We talked about her just now and I got blocked for it.

She has some friends with her with whom she comes and goes to school with, classmates. And most of the group were all subhuman males which is something I was sure of and there was literally no attraction between them. But my ass gotta put a nose in everything and I was ok with it as long as I had female friends (back up) too. But she was against that. She always told me not to get into girls again or talk to them much and would be heavy insecure whenever I did. I wasn’t insecure about her cause I was sure I mogged the fellas nearby by a mile. But the fact that she told me not to have a female group and she still did have it with those male ones got me frustrated and made it unfair. It’s not my problem that you can’t fog my female group but I can mog your male friend group and you are just insecure about it baby girl. How is it my problem?

I talked about this saying it’s only fair if I had female friends too (once again, not my problem they fog you my girl) and our convos always end with her saying ‘it’s fine that you have female friends’ but if you really were ok with that, why’d you unfriend now without any prior notice ffs?

I literally rejected the proposal by a Thai HTB (whom I once liked) who fogged her ass to Manila to be with this current one and now I am the getting one blocked? Srsly, how insecure you gotta be for this? Huh? Oh god what a shit world.

Has anything like this happened to you before? How do you deal/cope with this and what do your suggest you would do if you were in my position? Now I can’t ask this on soydit and this the only place and you the only bois I got.

Thank you. Your answers (if valid) will be appreciated.

Either tell her to grow the fuck up or you'll just fuck another bitch.

You don't have time for these games.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Only if I had listened to you brocel

But my short span light triad plan worked there a bit and it went well after. Yeah it’s her.

What did I tell you bro? A lot of the people on this site are in HS and know FUCK ALL on how to handle girls. I've been in the same situation as you, and I'm 99% sure I told you before too. Even if you apologise nothing will change, elephant in the room will be there, she knows you need her more. The message is in the medium my nigga. Also she's most likely found another guy, you got monkey branched my nigga.

Anyways cheer up, wipe the tears away. Learn to love yourself and be comfortable with yourself before you step into another relationship. And for the love of god don't listen to these highschool niggas

 

[Deleted member 22780]

I don’t know much about relationships but tbh it’s best u just move on. Ur good looking and can find someone else. Her loss jfl

 

[Deleted member 15674]

@luljankybo @Sarx @Artemis @Moneymaxerr

You niggas disagreed with me. Highschool niggas should NOT be giving dating advice!

 

[Dr. Mog]

Also she's most likely found another guy

That one subhuman classmate had a crush on here but things are awkward between.

The reason she left me now is thinking vice versa. She thinks I already found a bitch for myself who fogs her on an PSL scale and she is nothing.

But we loved each other and I kind of……want her more than others yk. But ig it’s over now.

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

It's very late here, but I will try to give a comprehensive answer:
Do not expect fair judgment from foids (foids are lower than women). They will impose a lot of rather unfair bullshit upon you in that regard. Instead of calling out this behavior, you have to continue being pragmatic in the face of the mountains of bollocks that you'll have to endure. You have to play in their game to win.
That is the most important thing I learned here.

 

[Deleted member 17531]

@luljankybo @Sarx @Artemis @Moneymaxerr

You niggas disagreed with me. Highschool niggas should NOT be giving dating advice!

I said if she's actually HQNP and a good girl he should try to mend the situation, that's not bad advice
It just didn't work out

 

[Deleted member 15674]

That one subhuman classmate had a crush on here but things are awkward between.

The reason she left me now is thinking vice versa. She thinks I already found a bitch for myself who fogs her on an PSL scale and she is nothing.

But we loved each other and I kind of……want her more than others yk. But ig it’s over now.

No dude, I'm not going to rub your belly and baby you. I will tell you the truth.

That bitch broke up with you a long time ago. She didn't breakup with you today, she already checked out of the relationship a while ago. Girls don't just breakup and be single, they breakup because they already have a backup option. MOST WOMEN HAVE BACKUP BOYFRIENDS. Your time was up, she didn't leave you cuz you mog her to hell and back. She left because she was bored and you apologised. You lost frame there my nigga

 

[Deleted member 15674]

I said if she's actually HQNP and a good girl he should try to mend the situation, that's not bad advice
It just didn't work out

Yeah but OP is going to be an unreliable narrator of events, he is going to be VERY biased towards her and say a lot of shit about her becaues he likes her. Shit like "she's a good girl" isn't a valid excuse. He should have held his frame, not apologised and waited for her to come back. And if she never came back, then OP would've known that the relationship was dead anyways

 

[Dr. Mog]

@luljankybo @Sarx @Artemis @Moneymaxerr

You niggas disagreed with me. Highschool niggas should NOT be giving dating advice!

Nah they actually did give the right advice and it worked atm pretty well as she was HQNP.

She got insecure about my female friend (while she already has all the male friends around) and now I am getting dumped ffs

I said if she's actually HQNP and a good girl he should try to mend the situation, that's not bad advice
It just didn't work out

It actually did work bro. For that time it did.

You have to play in their game to win

“Their game” wdym?

He should have held his frame, not apologised and waited for her to come back. And if she never came back, then OP would've known that the relationship was dead anyways

I followed this game already did it multiple times before. She knew her worth and all but still came back.

But at that 3rd time it was really my fault fr and I just played the light triad game for a min to get her back and it did. Or else this might have ended earlier.

I repeat if you are mistaken, she is HQNP

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Nah they actually did give the right advice and it worked atm pretty well as she was HQNP.

She got insecure about my female friend (while she already has all the male friends around) and now I am getting dumped ffs


It actually did work bro. For that time it did.


“Their game” wdym?


I followed this game already did it multiple times before. She knew her worth and all but still came back.

But at that 3rd time it was really my fault fr and I just played the light triad game for a min to get her back and it did. Or else this might have ended earlier.

I repeat if you are mistaken, she is HQNP

bhai if she's listening to he friends and not you, that speaks volumes about the state of your relationship and how exactly HQNP she is. Are her friends whores?

 

[Dr. Mog]

I get your point @FailedNormieManlet
I really do. I did play the dark triad game quite hard that it hurt her trust me. But nah she just had to quit this here like this just out of her insecurity.

bhai if she's listening to he friends and not you, that speaks volumes about the state of your relationship and how exactly HQNP she is. Are her friends whores?

She isn’t listening to her friends lol. She doesn’t talk the relationship aspects to them (maybe with those two LTBs not sure, but def not the male ones) They aren’t primitive whore type ones either.

She has a picture of us together in all her pfps on social media and trust me I didn’t even post her once.

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

“Their game” wdym?

The term "their game" presupposes the knowledge of the female mind by the writer.
To understand and know of women and their desires is paramount to getting one for yourself. The BlackPill is their game.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

I get your point @FailedNormieManlet
I really do. I did play the dark triad game quite hard that it hurt her trust me. But nah she just had to quit this here like this just out of her insecurity.


She isn’t listening to her friends lol. She doesn’t talk the relationship aspects to them (maybe with those two LTBs not sure, but def not the male ones) They aren’t primitive whore type ones either.

She has a picture of us together in all her pfps on social media and trust me I didn’t even post her once.

That's not even dark triad game I'm advocating tbh, that is basic redpill game jfl. And dude how do you know it is out of insecurity? Did she give you comfort tests? You know shit like "you can't have female friends" isn't a comfort test? That's just her testing your frame jfl.

My nigga look at the facts here.

1. She broke up with you
2. She didn't even send you a msg, she fucking ghosted you
3. With 1 & 2 being true it follows through that this breakup was something she planned for a while
4. If 3 follows, she's most likely had a backup option to begin with
5. As you said she has male friends, but you cannot? Was it out of insecurity or was it her just projecting?

Can you see how this is playing out? You need to understand that there are somethings in life you cannot prevent. You can't control her, be it dark triad or light triad, you could've played all your cards right and things still might have went to shit. I'm only telling you this cuz a VERY similar thing happened to me when I was 18 and I got VERY upset about it. If things between her and her rebound go to shit, she will most likely reach out to you again apologising and shit.

If I was right about last time, why do you think I am going to be wrong about this shit again? You still think that because you apologised that solved everything - it didn't. Not even 2 weeks later she breaks up with you, you didn't solve anything. Like I said previously, this was the start of your breakup.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

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[Allandro]

this is my first time

It hurts bhai, 1 year is passed and it still hurts.

The pain is just less now, you just have to wait

 

[Jase]

RULE #38:

IF SHE BLOCKS YOU SHE CARES.

IF SHE UNFOLLOWS / UNADDS YOU, SHE DOESN'T ACTUALLY LIKE YOU.

YOU ARE GOOD.

 

[Gus17]

I don’t care if you don’t read. Im writing this here to my fellow bois who do. Just letting you know I am 100% serious here and this thread is not a joke. I type this in a depressed state.

Long story short, I got unfriended on Snapchat 34 business secs ago by the girl I was seeing for 3 Months (yes my HQNP girlfriend) and all my sleepiness just swooned away rn.

The reason I say this is cause this is my first time being in this situation. I had only blocked my previous ones myself before and now I am the one getting blocked here (karma true fr?) I think I now know how it feels like getting blocked by your girlfriend all of a sudden as a signal of break up.

Also I think I know why this has happened btw….

Things didn’t go well with us ever since I mentioned about a female friend of mine who fogged her. We talked about her just now and I got blocked for it.

She has some friends with her with whom she comes and goes to school with, classmates. And most of the group were all subhuman males which is something I was sure of and there was literally no attraction between them. But my ass gotta put a nose in everything and I was ok with it as long as I had female friends (back up) too. But she was against that. She always told me not to get into girls again or talk to them much and would be heavy insecure whenever I did. I wasn’t insecure about her cause I was sure I mogged the fellas nearby by a mile. But the fact that she told me not to have a female group and she still did have it with those male ones got me frustrated and made it unfair. It’s not my problem that you can’t fog my female group but I can mog your male friend group and you are just insecure about it baby girl. How is it my problem?

I talked about this saying it’s only fair if I had female friends too (once again, not my problem they fog you my girl) and our convos always end with her saying ‘it’s fine that you have female friends’ but if you really were ok with that, why’d you unfriend now without any prior notice ffs?

I literally rejected the proposal by a Thai HTB (whom I once liked) who fogged her ass to Manila to be with this current one and now I am the getting one blocked? Srsly, how insecure you gotta be for this? Huh? Oh god what a shit world.

Has anything like this happened to you before? How do you deal/cope with this and what do your suggest you would do if you were in my position? Now I can’t ask this on soydit and this the only place and you the only bois I got.

Thank you. Your answers (if valid) will be appreciated.

Dnr

 

[Dr. Mog]

things between her and her rebound go to shit, she will most likely reach out to you again apologising and shit.

This. The only option left is save the relationship and the ball is in her court. But I won’t wait for weeks tho. In fact, I’ll move on to the next one rn.

And tbf, I did actually cheat her with the Thai girl (through texts only) and that dumb fuck doesn’t know

Im running the ‘IDC’ game now and ik her instargam alts watching my moves, let her watch me with the girl I told her not to worry about

say what, imma toxic boy 4 lyf

anyways thanks for your thoughts and comments. Appreciate it brother

bump

 

[Chinacurry]

Sorry to hear man, I have a LOT of experience in this and will give it the thought it deserves today.

Before that

View attachment blackpill_durden_20221221_p_2997765689342759556_1_2997765689342759556.webp

 

[Chinacurry]

I don’t care if you don’t read. Im writing this here to my fellow bois who do. Just letting you know I am 100% serious here and this thread is not a joke. I type this in a depressed state.

Long story short, I got unfriended on Snapchat 34 business secs ago by the girl I was seeing for 3 Months (yes my HQNP girlfriend) and all my sleepiness just swooned away rn.

The reason I say this is cause this is my first time being in this situation. I had only blocked my previous ones myself before and now I am the one getting blocked here (karma true fr?) I think I now know how it feels like getting blocked by your girlfriend all of a sudden as a signal of break up.

Also I think I know why this has happened btw….

Things didn’t go well with us ever since I mentioned about a female friend of mine who fogged her. We talked about her just now and I got blocked for it.

She has some friends with her with whom she comes and goes to school with, classmates. And most of the group were all subhuman males which is something I was sure of and there was literally no attraction between them. But my ass gotta put a nose in everything and I was ok with it as long as I had female friends (back up) too. But she was against that. She always told me not to get into girls again or talk to them much and would be heavy insecure whenever I did. I wasn’t insecure about her cause I was sure I mogged the fellas nearby by a mile. But the fact that she told me not to have a female group and she still did have it with those male ones got me frustrated and made it unfair. It’s not my problem that you can’t fog my female group but I can mog your male friend group and you are just insecure about it baby girl. How is it my problem?

I talked about this saying it’s only fair if I had female friends too (once again, not my problem they fog you my girl) and our convos always end with her saying ‘it’s fine that you have female friends’ but if you really were ok with that, why’d you unfriend now without any prior notice ffs?

I literally rejected the proposal by a Thai HTB (whom I once liked) who fogged her ass to Manila to be with this current one and now I am the getting one blocked? Srsly, how insecure you gotta be for this? Huh? Oh god what a shit world.

Has anything like this happened to you before? How do you deal/cope with this and what do your suggest you would do if you were in my position? Now I can’t ask this on soydit and this the only place and you the only bois I got.

Thank you. Your answers (if valid) will be appreciated.

This is brutal bhai.

My HQP gf of 3 years just blocked me on IG, so I am going to my family's ranch now, because they have shit wifi there and the local JBs are gonna come hang out at our pool.

 

[Dr. Mog]

RULE #38:

IF SHE BLOCKS YOU SHE CARES.

IF SHE UNFOLLOWS / UNADDS YOU, SHE DOESN'T ACTUALLY LIKE YOU.

YOU ARE GOOD.

this actually makes sense tbh

I got blocked on Snapchat, you can know it by searching the user name and it doesn’t appear. I got blocked on WhatsApp and Instagram too and her alt is spying for all I know.

If she really wanted to cut this off permanently, she should have unfriended or unfollowed which is basically anyone would do to remove someone.

gf of 3 years just blocked me on IG

Fucking brutal. Hope you are over it now

Bump

 

[JBcollector]

So what a bitch left u

 

[Chinacurry]

this actually makes sense tbh

I got blocked on Snapchat, you can know it by searching the user name and it doesn’t appear. I got blocked on WhatsApp and Instagram too and her alt is spying for all I know.

If she really wanted to cut this off permanently, she should have unfriended or unfollowed which is basically anyone would do to remove someone.

Fucking brutal. Hope you are over it now

Bump

How u know if u got blocked or unfollowed?

I click the profile and it's blank now

 

[vaninskybird]

Sorry, i don't have any words of wisdom on this one

But this is infuriating

But the fact that she told me not to have a female group and she still did have it with those male ones got me frustrated and made it unfair.

I hope everything works out for you

 

[Dr. Mog]

Sorry, i don't have any words of wisdom on this one

But this is infuriating


I hope everything works out for you

Thanks mate but here take the update-pill

Thread 'Which of these is the best reply when your ex says she misses you? (Poll)'
https://looksmax.org/threads/which-...when-your-ex-says-she-misses-you-poll.626894/

Bump

 

[ascension]

Damn that's crazy man. Here's my reaction, I had to spoiler it because it's quite long and thoughtful:

Spoiler