I wanna be a better person, I just don’t know how

[copercel123]

I wanna be kind and helpful but I really can’t, I’m trying to help people here and in general but I just cant stand people disrespect IRL, I will confess and say: I’m NOT a good person as far as I know myself from a lot of different aspects, and I wanna be better, I really am, just don’t know how.

I wanna be someone who people IRL love and respect but I seem to not be one for whatever reason, maybe it’s because of my looks, personality, self esteem, the fact I hate myself, i really don’t know, but let’s leave all these things behind.

How do I genuinely become a person who think positive and he’s always empathic to other humans? It will help me a lot in life, and yeah this is might be the most bluepill shit ever said on this forum but I really think being kind help with girls and it can help you achieve you’re goals in general, now, there is a difference between being kind and being naive, and that’s something most people here and in the real world can’t comprehend for what ever reason, being kind DOES help in life and YES even if you’re subhuman, it doesn’t matter. Of course a mean chadlite will slay more Than a kind LTN, but slaying actually means nothing, it can even make you more doleful, while a kind LTN will probably be more liked (not idolized) by women than the CL one, being kind will open a lot of doors.

I try to be as kind as possible but that will be sound weird—I’m kind ONLY to people who seem high IQ. If that make sense I feel like they would appreciate me more and respect me more than the low IQ people and they actually do.
and im Not saying this beacuse I’m a bad person who want to help only a specific group of people, but beacuse I think there are specific people who you should not be nice to.

Being respectful and appreciative is a high IQ trait. Be nice, and help people as much as you can. being a bad person won’t make your life better in any way.

 

[j3nx]

 

[R@m@]

Being a bad person will only bring bad vibes

Unless you're souless

 

[PoopyFartGamer]

I wanna be kind and helpful but I really can’t, I’m trying to help people here and in general but I just cant stand people disrespect IRL, I will confess and say: I’m NOT a good person as far as I know myself from a lot of different aspects, and I wanna be better, I really am, just don’t know how.

I wanna be someone who people IRL love and respect but I seem to not be one for whatever reason, maybe it’s because of my looks, personality, self esteem, the fact I hate myself, i really don’t know, but let’s leave all these things behind.

How do I genuinely become a person who think positive and he’s always empathic to other humans? It will help me a lot in life, and yeah this is might be the most bluepill shit ever said on this forum but I really think being kind help with girls and it can help you achieve you’re goals in general, now, there is a difference between being kind and being naive, and that’s something most people here and in the real world can’t comprehend for what ever reason, being kind DOES help in life and YES even if you’re subhuman, it doesn’t matter. Of course a mean chadlite will slay more Than a kind LTN, but slaying actually means nothing, it can even make you more doleful, while a kind LTN will probably be more liked (not idolized) by women than the CL one, being kind will open a lot of doors.

I try to be as kind as possible but that will be sound weird—I’m kind ONLY to people who seem high IQ. If that make sense I feel like they would appreciate me more and respect me more than the low IQ people and they actually do.
and im Not saying this beacuse I’m a bad person who want to help only a specific group of people, but beacuse I think there are specific people who you should not be nice to.

Being respectful and appreciative is a high IQ trait. Be nice, and help people as much as you can. being a bad person won’t make your life better in any way.

Just be evil bro

 

[copercel123]

Just be evil bro

 

[got.daim]

I wanna be kind and helpful but I really can’t, I’m trying to help people here and in general but I just cant stand people disrespect IRL, I will confess and say: I’m NOT a good person as far as I know myself from a lot of different aspects, and I wanna be better, I really am, just don’t know how.

I wanna be someone who people IRL love and respect but I seem to not be one for whatever reason, maybe it’s because of my looks, personality, self esteem, the fact I hate myself, i really don’t know, but let’s leave all these things behind.

How do I genuinely become a person who think positive and he’s always empathic to other humans? It will help me a lot in life, and yeah this is might be the most bluepill shit ever said on this forum but I really think being kind help with girls and it can help you achieve you’re goals in general, now, there is a difference between being kind and being naive, and that’s something most people here and in the real world can’t comprehend for what ever reason, being kind DOES help in life and YES even if you’re subhuman, it doesn’t matter. Of course a mean chadlite will slay more Than a kind LTN, but slaying actually means nothing, it can even make you more doleful, while a kind LTN will probably be more liked (not idolized) by women than the CL one, being kind will open a lot of doors.

I try to be as kind as possible but that will be sound weird—I’m kind ONLY to people who seem high IQ. If that make sense I feel like they would appreciate me more and respect me more than the low IQ people and they actually do.
and im Not saying this beacuse I’m a bad person who want to help only a specific group of people, but beacuse I think there are specific people who you should not be nice to.

Being respectful and appreciative is a high IQ trait. Be nice, and help people as much as you can. being a bad person won’t make your life better in any way.

dude, just do whatever you fucking want, a made man is still a man made man, if you create yourself you wont be fucking happy, I've been through it all

 

[copercel123]

dude, just do whatever you fucking want, a made man is still a man made man, if you create yourself you wont be fucking happy, I've been through it all

So you’re saying being yourself is the best? Beacuse if you do it’s so hard, especially when your high inhib and low confidence

 

[Zeekie]

I really empathize with the way you feel. A huge mindset shift for me was, not trying to be a "good person", but just acting like I am, that doesn't sound too helpful in the surface, but it's much easier to cognitively "fake it" than trying to actually become something you feel you're not.

Also, you not be fully wrong with the IQ thing. It feels deeply egotistical to think that way, or say it out loud, but truly, most people are a few steps away from being brain dead. The average person is not as intelligent as you may think, and if you feel that way, you likely are above average.

Nothing wrong with feeling or thinking this way, it's only a true issue when you express that to others or your mindset shows in your actions, that to most people are problematic ideas, and it's better to keep it hidden. Instead of trying to "become" something you really are not, just fake it, as I said, it's way easier and functionally gives the same results.

 

[ajshabs]

dnr but maybe start microdosing lsd

 

[Abdullahm06]

I wanna be kind and helpful but I really can’t, I’m trying to help people here and in general but I just cant stand people disrespect IRL, I will confess and say: I’m NOT a good person as far as I know myself from a lot of different aspects, and I wanna be better, I really am, just don’t know how.

I wanna be someone who people IRL love and respect but I seem to not be one for whatever reason, maybe it’s because of my looks, personality, self esteem, the fact I hate myself, i really don’t know, but let’s leave all these things behind.

How do I genuinely become a person who think positive and he’s always empathic to other humans? It will help me a lot in life, and yeah this is might be the most bluepill shit ever said on this forum but I really think being kind help with girls and it can help you achieve you’re goals in general, now, there is a difference between being kind and being naive, and that’s something most people here and in the real world can’t comprehend for what ever reason, being kind DOES help in life and YES even if you’re subhuman, it doesn’t matter. Of course a mean chadlite will slay more Than a kind LTN, but slaying actually means nothing, it can even make you more doleful, while a kind LTN will probably be more liked (not idolized) by women than the CL one, being kind will open a lot of doors.

I try to be as kind as possible but that will be sound weird—I’m kind ONLY to people who seem high IQ. If that make sense I feel like they would appreciate me more and respect me more than the low IQ people and they actually do.
and im Not saying this beacuse I’m a bad person who want to help only a specific group of people, but beacuse I think there are specific people who you should not be nice to.

Being respectful and appreciative is a high IQ trait. Be nice, and help people as much as you can. being a bad person won’t make your life better in any way.

get a girlfriend whos a nice person. trust me it really helps you to be more positive

 

[got.daim]

So you’re saying being yourself is the best? Beacuse if you do it’s so hard, especially when your high inhib and low confidence

doesn't fucking matter, just live life dude, its short, do whatever the fuck you want

 

[batman1997]

You can't be a "good person" when the world around you always tries to drag you down and make fun of you its literally impossible..

 

[copercel123]

I really empathize with the way you feel. A huge mindset shift for me was, not trying to be a "good person", but just acting like I am, that doesn't sound too helpful in the surface, but it's much easier to cognitively "fake it" than trying to actually become something you feel you're not.

Ok, that sounds good in the surface but i already fake being nice 24/7, and that’s the problem, im not myself, and when Iam myself I act like a dickhead.

Also, you not be fully wrong with the IQ thing. It feels deeply egotistical to think that way, or say it out loud, but truly, most people are a few steps away from being brain dead. The average person is not as intelligent as you may think, and if you feel that way, you likely are above average.

yes, people who can’t even comprehend how you treated them when you are in their surrounding are very low IQ and I really hate them, it piss me off a bit how people can be this stupid. And what’s funny is that people make ME feel dumb and low IQ while THEY are the ones that are actually low IQ, they are so stupid that even interacting with them make you feel stupid yourself , and I learn that very good when I started working in a place where you have to talk with a lot of people.

 

[copercel123]

get a girlfriend whos a nice person. trust me it really helps you to be more positive

Yeah… just get a girlfriend. I don’t think you still understood how ND people here are, including me.

 

[Abdullahm06]

Yeah… just get a girlfriend. I don’t think you still understood how ND people here are, including me.

im extremely nd and i managed to do it off fucking roblox

 

[CorinthianLOX]

No being a better person for your face

 

[batman1997]

I wanna be kind and helpful but I really can’t, I’m trying to help people here and in general but I just cant stand people disrespect IRL, I will confess and say: I’m NOT a good person as far as I know myself from a lot of different aspects, and I wanna be better, I really am, just don’t know how.

I wanna be someone who people IRL love and respect but I seem to not be one for whatever reason, maybe it’s because of my looks, personality, self esteem, the fact I hate myself, i really don’t know, but let’s leave all these things behind.

How do I genuinely become a person who think positive and he’s always empathic to other humans? It will help me a lot in life, and yeah this is might be the most bluepill shit ever said on this forum but I really think being kind help with girls and it can help you achieve you’re goals in general, now, there is a difference between being kind and being naive, and that’s something most people here and in the real world can’t comprehend for what ever reason, being kind DOES help in life and YES even if you’re subhuman, it doesn’t matter. Of course a mean chadlite will slay more Than a kind LTN, but slaying actually means nothing, it can even make you more doleful, while a kind LTN will probably be more liked (not idolized) by women than the CL one, being kind will open a lot of doors.

I try to be as kind as possible but that will be sound weird—I’m kind ONLY to people who seem high IQ. If that make sense I feel like they would appreciate me more and respect me more than the low IQ people and they actually do.
and im Not saying this beacuse I’m a bad person who want to help only a specific group of people, but beacuse I think there are specific people who you should not be nice to.

Being respectful and appreciative is a high IQ trait. Be nice, and help people as much as you can. being a bad person won’t make your life better in any way.

You can't be a good person if the world around you keeps dragging you down and making fun of you..

 

[copercel123]

dnr but maybe start microdosing lsd

If you meant neuromodulatory compounds then I can see you dnr’d the thread.

 

[King_Schnitzel]

get a girlfriend whos a nice person. trust me it really helps you to be more positive

Uh, how exactly does an incel do that?

 

[Abdullahm06]

Uh, how exactly does an incel do that?

literally just found her in mic up and talked to her and then we became friends and would play and talk together then her cousin put her ig in the chat so i added it but then we stopped playing together and i think i had her unadded then a month later she randomly adds me on ig and she wants to see what i look like so i say ill show you on snap then i get her snap and send her the pic but she thinks its fake because im so sexy so i verify that its really me (sent a pic of my eye while i was on the toilet) and thats pretty much it. then afterwards she told me that she would tell her cousin that i have a nice voice when we would play mic up together so i think she was attracted to me from the start like she would follow me around and shit

 

[Zeekie]

Ok, that sounds good in the surface but i already fake being nice 24/7, and that’s the problem, im not myself, and when Iam myself I act like a dickhead.

yes, people who can’t even comprehend how you treated them when you are in their surrounding are very low IQ and I really hate them, it piss me off a bit how people can be this stupid. And what’s funny is that people make ME feel dumb and low IQ while THEY are the ones that are actually low IQ, they are so stupid that even interacting with them make you feel stupid yourself , and I learn that very good when I started working in a place where you have to talk with a lot of people.

It's honestly a struggle, but being 100% real with you, once these ideas have truly cemented in your head, through constant reinforcement, breaking them becomes pretty much impossible. We have to keep faking it, even if it's disingenuous, because obviously, being ourselves is a social hindrance.

I'm very aware where my "elitist" views on IQ game from, I'm more than likely relatively high IQ, though I haven't ever had a formal test, it was a commonly recognized thing about me in school, everybody praised me for my problem-solving abilities and just not being a dumbass. That was also reinforced by my father, since he was an immigrant in my country, he drilled into my head from an early age that people in his country were smarter and that people in my little Caribbean island were "stupid apes", which is kinda true, given that we have one of the worst education systems and lowest IQ scores, I hate my people and my culture because it isn't intellectual enough.

And honestly, being "smart" in a country (or maybe just place or town for you) full of "stupid" people can be horrible, you quickly become isolated because you're probably more into socially stimulating stuff rather than the average bullshit dumb people your age are up to. As we become older, slightly more isolated and other people really grow into their stupid beliefs, ideas and intellectual poverty, so at some point we start becoming the odd ones with "low IQ" and everybody else is right.

I actually proved this once I moved to Europe, people ARE much smarter here than they are in my country, and I was actually able to make good connections here.

 

[Zeekie]

Ok, that sounds good in the surface but i already fake being nice 24/7, and that’s the problem, im not myself, and when Iam myself I act like a dickhead.

yes, people who can’t even comprehend how you treated them when you are in their surrounding are very low IQ and I really hate them, it piss me off a bit how people can be this stupid. And what’s funny is that people make ME feel dumb and low IQ while THEY are the ones that are actually low IQ, they are so stupid that even interacting with them make you feel stupid yourself , and I learn that very good when I started working in a place where you have to talk with a lot of people.

It both saddens me and pisses me off, that people so stupid can actually believe themselves to be smart. Honestly, this is kinda how the world works, we sadly need to adapt to it, and hope that via scaling in social class, salary, and moving to different places we can be with more intellectually rich people. I discovered by leaving my country and through my family that I truly DESPISE stupid people. But then again, we have to keep faking it.

Maybe it's the isolation or negative reinforcement that makes you feel like you're the odd one (actually you are), or the one who needs change, but that's not the case. Just act like the little retard they want you to be, and hope things get better. That's how I see it at least.

 

[Restitutor Orbis]

I wanna be kind and helpful but I really can’t, I’m trying to help people here and in general but I just cant stand people disrespect IRL, I will confess and say: I’m NOT a good person as far as I know myself from a lot of different aspects, and I wanna be better, I really am, just don’t know how.

I wanna be someone who people IRL love and respect but I seem to not be one for whatever reason, maybe it’s because of my looks, personality, self esteem, the fact I hate myself, i really don’t know, but let’s leave all these things behind.

How do I genuinely become a person who think positive and he’s always empathic to other humans? It will help me a lot in life, and yeah this is might be the most bluepill shit ever said on this forum but I really think being kind help with girls and it can help you achieve you’re goals in general, now, there is a difference between being kind and being naive, and that’s something most people here and in the real world can’t comprehend for what ever reason, being kind DOES help in life and YES even if you’re subhuman, it doesn’t matter. Of course a mean chadlite will slay more Than a kind LTN, but slaying actually means nothing, it can even make you more doleful, while a kind LTN will probably be more liked (not idolized) by women than the CL one, being kind will open a lot of doors.

I try to be as kind as possible but that will be sound weird—I’m kind ONLY to people who seem high IQ. If that make sense I feel like they would appreciate me more and respect me more than the low IQ people and they actually do.
and im Not saying this beacuse I’m a bad person who want to help only a specific group of people, but beacuse I think there are specific people who you should not be nice to.

Being respectful and appreciative is a high IQ trait. Be nice, and help people as much as you can. being a bad person won’t make your life better in any way.

You might just be stressed or in a bad place. Even hormones can make you outwardly carry your disgust. Thing is, and the blackpill literally teaches that, is that humans are disgusted by ugly things and exalt beauty. That means EVERYONE hates sub5s and low IQ people. If you're in a place of abundance, you won't feel the need to outwardly carry that disgust, and you'll treat people with dignity. If your hormones are fucked and you're in a bad place, the disgust will slip out.
TL : DR Sort out your life, and you'll treat everyone better for it. Happened to me when I quit smoking weed everyday

 

[King_Schnitzel]

literally just found her in mic up and talked to her and then we became friends and would play and talk together then her cousin put her ig in the chat so i added it but then we stopped playing together and i think i had her unadded then a month later she randomly adds me on ig and she wants to see what i look like so i say ill show you on snap then i get her snap and send her the pic but she thinks its fake because im so sexy so i verify that its really me (sent a pic of my eye while i was on the toilet) and thats pretty much it. then afterwards she told me that she would tell her cousin that i have a nice voice when we would play mic up together so i think she was attracted to me from the start like she would follow me around and shit

Well "my roblox girl" didn't talk to me since I confessed. Wrote her a TikTok dm. She lives like 30 minutes from me, I've known her for nearly half a year.

I still am not over her. It's been two months.

I'm not as good looking as you, don't have a nice voice like you and I don't attract girls.

I will die as a virgin.

 

[copercel123]

It's honestly a struggle, but being 100% real with you, once these ideas have truly cemented in your head, through constant reinforcement, breaking them becomes pretty much impossible. We have to keep faking it, even if it's disingenuous, because obviously, being ourselves is a social hindrance.

I'm very aware where my "elitist" views on IQ game from, I'm more than likely relatively high IQ, though I haven't ever had a formal test, it was a commonly recognized thing about me in school, everybody praised me for my problem-solving abilities and just not being a dumbass. That was also reinforced by my father, since he was an immigrant in my country, he drilled into my head from an early age that people in his country were smarter and that people in my little Caribbean island were "stupid apes", which is kinda true, given that we have one of the worst education systems and lowest IQ scores, I hate my people and my culture because it isn't intellectual enough.

And honestly, being "smart" in a country (or maybe just place or town for you) full of "stupid" people can be horrible, you quickly become isolated because you're probably more into socially stimulating stuff rather than the average bullshit dumb people your age are up to. As we become older, slightly more isolated and other people really grow into their stupid beliefs, ideas and intellectual poverty, so at some point we start becoming the odd ones with "low IQ" and everybody else is right.

I actually proved this once I moved to Europe, people ARE much smarter here than they are in my country, and I was actually able to make good connections here.

Right. I live in a place where the average IQ is 120 and the education here is great. My friends have an average of 140 IQ each and me too,the most underrated thing to do to actually be in a better surrounding for you Is hanging out with people that are smarter than you.

I also always liked reading and doing stuff kids my age were never doing, thanks to my dad high IQ.

 

[copercel123]

You might just be stressed or in a bad place. Even hormones can make you outwardly carry your disgust. Thing is, and the blackpill literally teaches that, is that humans are disgusted by ugly things and exalt beauty. That means EVERYONE hates sub5s and low IQ people. If you're in a place of abundance, you won't feel the need to outwardly carry that disgust, and you'll treat people with dignity. If your hormones are fucked and you're in a bad place, the disgust will slip out.
TL : DR Sort out your life, and you'll treat everyone better for it. Happened to me when I quit smoking weed everyday

I’m living in the best place possible, it’s surely not the problem.

 

[fff8e7]

DNR, spit on babies and take their candy