I wanna talk to someone

[Deleted member 17791]

I need help. Someone please help me

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

What's up mate?

 

[Deleted member 17791]

What's up mate?

I got drunk yesterday and vomited all over my bed. I feel like shit and wanna kill myself.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I need help. Someone please help me

Shoot me a DM if you need to talk or anything

 

[Deleted member 17791]

Shoot me a DM if you need to talk or anything

Why not here?

 

[Deleted member 17531]

whats up doggy

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Why not here?

Sure thing, thought it would be too personal or something. Can I get a further explanation on the what's up? Why did you get drunk or why do you feel so shit that you want to rope?

 

[Deleted member 17791]

whats up doggy

Dont feel well, I've been unhappy constantly for a while now.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Dont feel well, I've been unhappy constantly for a while now.

I don't know much about you, but do you have a personal goal in mind that brings you value? Something you feel is giving you a purpose? Often when people don't have that they end up in a depressed cycle

 

[Deleted member 17531]

Dont feel well, I've been unhappy constantly for a while now.

why whats wrong

 

[Deleted member 19157]

Dont feel well, I've been unhappy constantly for a while now.

get out of ur head get into ur body

lift eat healthy eat plenty stop toruting yourself get a job

 

[Deleted member 17791]

Sure thing, thought it would be too personal or something. Can I get a further explanation on the what's up? Why did you get drunk or why do you feel so shit that you want to rope?

I wanted to numb my head for a little bit but I just made everything so much worse.

I feel lonely, I hardly ever talk to other people in real life. I'll never get to see my best friend again.

I also hate my body, it's disgusting.

 

[Deleted member 17791]

why whats wrong

I feel lonely.

 

[Deleted member 17531]

I feel lonely.

you're chadlite, go talk to women

 

[Deleted member 17791]

get out of ur head get into ur body

lift eat healthy eat plenty stop toruting yourself get a job

I eat a normal amount, I've calculated it.

 

[Deleted member 17791]

you're chadlite, go talk to women

I dont want sex.

 

[bogii]

I wanted to numb my head for a little bit but I just made everything so much worse.

I feel lonely, I hardly ever talk to other people in real life. I'll never get to see my best friend again.

I also hate my body, it's disgusting.

bro it is normal, it's a phase you'll have to pass

 

[Deleted member 17531]

I dont want sex.

do you not have friends then? are you non nt?

 

[Deleted member 17791]

bro it is normal, it's a phase you'll have to pass

I wanna be a kid again, I never felt so shit back then.

 

[Deleted member 17791]

do you not have friends then? are you non nt?

I'm autistic.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I dont want sex.

Sex isn't the only reason to approaching women you can still talk with then. still going out, like the gym you can meet a lot of good guys that are in need of gym buddies, they will most often also gladly talk with you and get a new friend

 

[Deleted member 17531]

I'm autistic.

ahh rough man, i dont know what to tell you

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I'm autistic.

Idk how non nt people deal with eachother, but isn't it possible that there's another non nt person feeling the exact way you do? Also in need of a real life friend to talk to and do stuff with?

 

[Deleted member 17791]

Sex isn't the only reason to approaching women you can still talk with then. still going out, like the gym you can meet a lot of good guys that are in need of gym buddies, they will most often also gladly talk with you and get a new friend

I don't know how to talk to people, I'm always act weird.

 

[Deleted member 17791]

Idk how non nt people deal with eachother, but isn't it possible that there's another non nt person feeling the exact way you do? Also in need of a real life friend to talk to and do stuff with?

I guess there is. I'd love to befriend someone I can relate to.

 

[Deleted member 17531]

I guess there is. I'd love to befriend someone I can relate to.

where do you live

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I don't know how to talk to people, I'm always act weird.

I saw a good YT video on how to ignore feeling weird and embrace embarrassment. If you deliberately go out to embarrass yourself with time you will no longer have a care of how people perceive you and you can live without the worries. I can look for it if you want?

 

[Deleted member 17791]

where do you live

I'm australian.

 

[Deleted member 17791]

I saw a good YT video on how to ignore feeling weird and embrace embarrassment. If you deliberately go out to embarrass yourself with time you will no longer have a care of how people perceive you and you can live without the worries. I can look for it if you want?

Just become a clown theory.

 

[Deleted member 17531]

I'm australian.

damn, if you lived closer to me we coulda been friends

 

[Deleted member 17791]

damn, if you lived closer to me we coulda been friends

it's over

 

[Deleted member 17531]

I saw a good YT video on how to ignore feeling weird and embrace embarrassment. If you deliberately go out to embarrass yourself with time you will no longer have a care of how people perceive you and you can live without the worries. I can look for it if you want?

hell nah, its better to be gigaautist than do this

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

hell nah, its better to be gigaautist than do this

Idk man, depends on the person, works for some doesn't work for others. Feeling shit isn't usually my goal

 

[Zylk]

I also feel that way sometimes, I had a best friend but he moved to Europe two years ago. I feel more alone than ever but I suppress it enough not to feel worse

I hope you can find friends in Australia

 

[Zylk]

I saw a good YT video on how to ignore feeling weird and embrace embarrassment. If you deliberately go out to embarrass yourself with time you will no longer have a care of how people perceive you and you can live without the worries. I can look for it if you want?

Never jestermaxxing unless you are HTN, Chad-lite or Chad


You should only embrace shame when you're with trusted friends and you know you can make fun of them and they can make fun of you with no problem.

 

[Deleted member 17791]

I also feel that way sometimes, I had a best friend but he moved to Europe two years ago. I feel more alone than ever but I suppress it enough not to feel worse

I hope you can find friends in Australia

It's hard to replace old friends tbh.

 

[Zylk]

It's hard to replace old friends tbh.

Yeah that's why I don't have any new friends since he was the only one I had

 

[Zylk]

shit i got sad I'm going to masturbate

 

[Deleted member 17791]

shit i got sad I'm going to masturbate

You do that stuff when feeling down?

 

[Zylk]

You do that stuff when feeling down?

sometimes

masturbating releases endorphins that make you feel better momentarily, just to forget for a while that you feel bad

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

You don't have any interest or hobbies other than sitting on a negative forum that you can focus on? anything you deep down want to do?
I've been lonely although by choice duo focusing on my work barely going out the last 5 ISH years if not more, but seeing that small progress towards my goal gives me more energy and happiness than anything else, finding a purpose is truly something, you're most likely always capable of achieving much more than your own allows it to think.

If you don't, do you think finding someone to facetime/discord/internet friend would be a decent option? You can create quite strong bonds even through the internet that has positive effect on both individuals sometimes, had that when I was a gamer in my early days

 

[rand anon]

I don't know much about you, but do you have a personal goal in mind that brings you value?

I have one Niko bhai, 20k tinder matches
Think it’s possible as a 5’3 Dravidian
How bout if I NTmaxx??

 

[Deleted member 17791]

You don't have any interest or hobbies other than sitting on a negative forum that you can focus on? anything you deep down want to do?
I've been lonely although by choice duo focusing on my work barely going out the last 5 ISH years if not more, but seeing that small progress towards my goal gives me more energy and happiness than anything else, finding a purpose is truly something, you're most likely always capable of achieving much more than your own allows it to think.

If you don't, do you think finding someone to facetime/discord/internet friend would be a decent option? You can create quite strong bonds even through the internet that has positive effect on both individuals sometimes, had that when I was a gamer in my early days

I enjoy talking to people online.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I enjoy talking to people online.

Have you considered a forum that is less negative? Or where you have a closer relation to one person instead of hundreds?

 

[Deleted member 17791]

Have you considered a forum that is less negative? Or where you have a closer relation to one person instead of hundreds?

I like this forum, I don't like trying to cope. I could try join some other forums.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I like this forum, I don't like trying to cope. I could try join some other forums.

I do get that, sadly I'm no professional so I'm not entirely sure how I would help on how you feel. have you considered seeing an actual professional about all this? I've been a couple of times and honestly helped me tons when a had a bad period. Although I know the thought of that seems quite scary/odd or has a stigma about it, but being able to vent to someone knowing they aren't allow to tell others, and then giving good advice is truly something everyone should try, everyone deals with shitty moments in their life even though it might seem perfect on the outside

 

[Deleted member 17791]

I do get that, sadly I'm no professional so I'm not entirely sure how I would help on how you feel. have you considered seeing an actual professional about all this? I've been a couple of times and honestly helped me tons when a had a bad period. Although I know the thought of that seems quite scary/odd or has a stigma about it, but being able to vent to someone knowing they aren't allow to tell others, and then giving good advice is truly something everyone should try, everyone deals with shitty moments in their life even though it might seem perfect on the outside

Yeah, I have thought about going to a professional before. I am pretty uneasy about going though.

 

[Erik-Jón]

I need help. Someone please help me

Talk to me

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

Yeah, I have thought about going to a professional before. I am pretty uneasy about going though.

I had been delaying it for like 4 months before I decided to go haha, so I totally get that

 

[Deleted member 17791]

Talk to me

what do you think is wrong with me?