I want lifelong loyalty in 2026 but everyone else is a whore. How do I survive?

[itssoover0457]

I’ve always had this autistic obsession with loyalty and purity. Never hooked up, never even kissed a girl properly. Not because I’m ugly or scared (even though I am), I just physically can’t bring myself to fuck some random bimbo at a party or pay a prostitute. The thought makes me feel empty and disgusting.

Every single guy I know (and every girl too) is out there racking up bodies like it’s a video game. Parties, hookups, dating apps, rotations. Even the “nice” ones are lowkey sluts when nobody’s watching.

The blackpill says everyone is selfish and wants the best genes/status/pleasure possible. If there were no rules, society would collapse into everyone being sluts 24/7. I get that. But I still want a loyal wife who only wants me, who doesn’t look at other guys, who doesn’t have a past. I want to be the same for her.

The problem is I feel like I’m the only one on earth who actually means it. Everyone else is playing the game. Men want to fuck as many 10s as possible, women want Chad’s validation + beta buxx. Loyalty is just a cope or a lie to keep the other person from leaving.

So how do I survive this? How do I get rich, ascend looks/status/money without constantly being surrounded by the hookup culture that makes me want to kms?How do I meet a girl who’s actually loyal and not just waiting for a better option?Or am I just coping and true love doesn’t exist and I should accept being alone or become a whore myself?

I understand that true loyalty died with religion and shame. Women are only loyal when they have no better option. Once she gets a chance at Chad, she’s gone. I have no idea how to make it out in this world. I can't be a player, that's not who I am. What do I do?

Be brutally honest. Roast me if I’m delusional. I need to hear it.

@Htncel1 @ragingmanlet @ltnbrownacnecel @HundredManSlayer

 

[itssoover0457]

@lyre

 

[spongebobsex]

I’ve always had this autistic obsession with loyalty and purity. Never hooked up, never even kissed a girl properly. Not because I’m ugly or scared (even though I am), I just physically can’t bring myself to fuck some random bimbo at a party or pay a prostitute. The thought makes me feel empty and disgusting.

Every single guy I know (and every girl too) is out there racking up bodies like it’s a video game. Parties, hookups, dating apps, rotations. Even the “nice” ones are lowkey sluts when nobody’s watching.

The blackpill says everyone is selfish and wants the best genes/status/pleasure possible. If there were no rules, society would collapse into everyone being sluts 24/7. I get that. But I still want a loyal wife who only wants me, who doesn’t look at other guys, who doesn’t have a past. I want to be the same for her.

The problem is I feel like I’m the only one on earth who actually means it. Everyone else is playing the game. Men want to fuck as many 10s as possible, women want Chad’s validation + beta buxx. Loyalty is just a cope or a lie to keep the other person from leaving.

So how do I survive this? How do I get rich, ascend looks/status/money without constantly being surrounded by the hookup culture that makes me want to kms?How do I meet a girl who’s actually loyal and not just waiting for a better option?Or am I just coping and true love doesn’t exist and I should accept being alone or become a whore myself?

I understand that true loyalty died with religion and shame. Women are only loyal when they have no better option. Once she gets a chance at Chad, she’s gone. I have no idea how to make it out in this world. I can't be a player, that's not who I am. What do I do?

Be brutally honest. Roast me if I’m delusional. I need to hear it.

@Htncel1 @ragingmanlet @ltnbrownacnecel @HundredManSlayer

Move to a more hard set religious country. Even for me I feel the need to cope with getting at least 500 slays before I consider an actual ltr and not fwbs. I’m not even at 5% yet

 

[itssoover0457]

Move to a more hard set religious country. Even for me I feel the need to cope with getting at least 500 slays before I consider an actual ltr and not fwbs. I’m not even at 5% yet

Appreciate the advice, moving to a religious country makes sense on paper. Stricter norms, less social media brainrot, girls raised with actual shame and consequences. Places like rural Poland, certain parts of the Middle East, or even parts of Latin America could theoretically have higher odds of finding a low body count loyal girl. But realistically, how many of us are actually relocating our whole life just to maybe find one unicorn? Logistics, language, money, family, career. It’s a massive cope for most.

The 500 slays goal before LTR thing. I get why you feel that way. Redpill says stack bodies while you’re young and high-value so you don’t get oneitis later or regret missing out. But for me that number feels like a cope too. I already know it won’t fill the void. I’ve seen enough post nut clarity stories on here from guys who hit 50–100+ and still feel empty as fuck.

Like, even if I ascended to 8 PSL + 7-figure net worth + roids, and started running through bimbos/escorts/models every day, I know deep down I’d wake up one morning hating myself more than I do now. I’d just be another rich degenerate collecting bodies instead of building something real.

I’m not saying I’m above it or morally superior. I’m just saying that path makes me feel physically sick when I think about it. I’d rather LDAR or stay virgin forever than become that guy.

So yeah i'm stuck between “everyone’s a whore so give up” and “maybe there’s still a 1% loyal unicorn out there.”

 

[HtnceI]

Not possible

 

[tansel]

you need plastic surgery to have a girl be loyal to you

 

[lyre]

@lyre

loyalty is only possible with a virgin

and even then not guaranteed in our world

all this tech and development can seem pointless

when most people cannot have the simple things

i understand how you feel because i was once there

but we don’t live forever and cannot waste time lamenting

 

[itssoover0457]

Not possible

then what do i do? i can't force myself to be a player. goatis said forcing yourself to do soething you dont want to do is called slavery. i would be living in slavery. i know i want real love but knowing that i cant have it and go for something that goes against my values feels like im being a slave

 

[Apchun144]

I’ve always had this autistic obsession with loyalty and purity. Never hooked up, never even kissed a girl properly. Not because I’m ugly or scared (even though I am), I just physically can’t bring myself to fuck some random bimbo at a party or pay a prostitute. The thought makes me feel empty and disgusting.

Every single guy I know (and every girl too) is out there racking up bodies like it’s a video game. Parties, hookups, dating apps, rotations. Even the “nice” ones are lowkey sluts when nobody’s watching.

The blackpill says everyone is selfish and wants the best genes/status/pleasure possible. If there were no rules, society would collapse into everyone being sluts 24/7. I get that. But I still want a loyal wife who only wants me, who doesn’t look at other guys, who doesn’t have a past. I want to be the same for her.

The problem is I feel like I’m the only one on earth who actually means it. Everyone else is playing the game. Men want to fuck as many 10s as possible, women want Chad’s validation + beta buxx. Loyalty is just a cope or a lie to keep the other person from leaving.

So how do I survive this? How do I get rich, ascend looks/status/money without constantly being surrounded by the hookup culture that makes me want to kms?How do I meet a girl who’s actually loyal and not just waiting for a better option?Or am I just coping and true love doesn’t exist and I should accept being alone or become a whore myself?

I understand that true loyalty died with religion and shame. Women are only loyal when they have no better option. Once she gets a chance at Chad, she’s gone. I have no idea how to make it out in this world. I can't be a player, that's not who I am. What do I do?

Be brutally honest. Roast me if I’m delusional. I need to hear it.

@Htncel1 @ragingmanlet @ltnbrownacnecel @HundredManSlayer

Dnr it isn’t as bad as you think
Just get someone not nt and brainwashed, they’d be loyal

 

[boxing-cel]

I’m in the exact same boat and honestly I don’t know what to do. It’s blackpilling. I could definitely get laid a lot but I don’t want to. I want to like…have 1 girl who I love a lot, who’s a virgin and only for me and marry her and she doesn’t cheat or leave me lol

 

[lyre]

then what do i do? i can't force myself to be a player. goatis said forcing yourself to do soething you dont want to do is called slavery. i would be living in slavery. i know i want real love but knowing that i cant have it and go for something that goes against my values feels like im being a slave

then you don’t have to be

find peace with this world in other ways

 

[itssoover0457]

loyalty is only possible with a virgin

and even then not guaranteed in our world

all this tech and development can seem pointless

when most people cannot have the simple things

i understand how you feel because i was once there

but we don’t live forever and cannot waste time lamenting

i know, it feels like everyone here agrees with me but said "fuck it" and just did what everybody else is doing and went against their instincts. if i do that then proceed to fuck bimbos and other whores i will feel so empty and sad i wouldnt be able to bear it. im sorry. maybe you can do it, but i cant. its like forcing yourself to eat something you dont want to eat. your body is rejecting it. i guess ill just ldar forever, i will not force myself to be with people that my instincts constantly tell me to avoid. i was always a sensitive lonely kid, i never played by the social rules. i wanted real friends, real people to connect with. everyone else understood life was a game and they played by the rules. me just saying fuck it and fucking whores will be the day i die

 

[itssoover0457]

I’m in the exact same boat and honestly I don’t know what to do. It’s blackpilling. I could definitely get laid a lot but I don’t want to. I want to like…have 1 girl who I love a lot, who’s a virgin and only for me and marry her and she doesn’t cheat or leave me lol

in this world u never know. its hard trying to be loyal when u think everyone is going to stab u in the back, and ur right to think that way

 

[itssoover0457]

then you don’t have to be

find peace with this world in other ways

i know but it would suck knowing i never found true love in my lifetime

 

[lyre]

i know, it feels like everyone here agrees with me but said "fuck it" and just did what everybody else is doing and went against their instincts. if i do that then proceed to fuck bimbos and other whores i will feel so empty and sad i wouldnt be able to bear it. im sorry. maybe you can do it, but i cant. its like forcing yourself to eat something you dont want to eat. your body is rejecting it. i guess ill just ldar forever, i will not force myself to be with people that my instincts constantly tell me to avoid. i was always a sensitive lonely kid, i never played by the social rules. i wanted real friends, real people to connect with. everyone else understood life was a game and they played by the rules. me just saying fuck it and fucking whores will be the day i die

that is okay brother

this planet has a lot more to offer than that

do what makes you happy and find other interests

we are all just apes with limited time on a space rock

so don’t spend that time being miserable

 

[lyre]

i know but it would suck knowing i never found true love in my lifetime

realize that “true love” is a fantasy

a psyop pushed by corporations and systems

a carrot on a stick to make men work

an sadistic form of emotional brainwashing

free yourself and don’t let that myth define your life

 

[itssoover0457]

that is okay brother

this planet has a lot more to offer than that

do what makes you happy and find other interests

we are all just apes with limited time on a space rock

so don’t spend that time being miserable

i know. but it feels like this whole world is all about sex. biology and evolution are all about passing on ur genes and reproducing. it feels like im missing out on the most important part of life, but yeah. i get it. i appreciate the advice

 

[itssoover0457]

realize that “true love” is a fantasy

a psyop pushed by corporations and systems

a carrot on a stick to make men work

an sadistic form of emotional brainwashing

free yourself and don’t let that myth define your life

i know its a fantasy but i wish it were true. i wish i could find my soulmate. i wish me and my future partner would have unconditional love for each other. i hate this world we live in unfortunately. i would think "ok this hookup culture and partying isn't for me" ill spend my youth working hard so in the future i can have money and find the right person, but i know thats bullshit. theres genuinely no point in trying anymore. even if i were good looking and high status i would still not feel fulfilled fucking bimbos and having a rotation of women. it doesn't sit right with me. how do i say it? it sounds weird to you probably. it hurts my soul to disregard my emotional needs and just chase meaningless sex. so i guess i will die a virgin since i wont find what i want in this life.

 

[lyre]

i know its a fantasy but i wish it were true. i wish i could find my soulmate. i wish me and my future partner would have unconditional love for each other. i hate this world we live in unfortunately. i would think "ok this hookup culture and partying isn't for me" ill spend my youth working hard so in the future i can have money and find the right person, but i know thats bullshit. theres genuinely no point in trying anymore. even if i were good looking and high status i would still not feel fulfilled fucking bimbos and having a rotation of women. it doesn't sit right with me. how do i say it? it sounds weird to you probably. it hurts my soul to disregard my emotional needs and just chase meaningless sex. so i guess i will die a virgin since i wont find what i want in this life.

here is my last advice for you today

i can feel your struggle and have empathy

move to utah and convert to mormonism

find a virgin wife through the church community

live the rest of your life in the calm utah suburbs

assuming you are white

 

[itssoover0457]

here is my last advice for you today

i can feel your struggle and have empathy

move to utah and convert to mormonism

find a virgin wife through the church community

live the rest of your life in the calm utah suburbs

assuming you are white

i am. thank you for your advice. but i know the most religious woman whos a virgin deep down still wants to suck as many chad cocks as possible, it doesnt erase what they truly want

 

[lyre]

i am. thank you for your advice. but i know the most religious woman whos a virgin deep down still wants to suck as many chad cocks as possible, it doesnt erase what they truly want

exposure is everything

women can be conditioned against their nature

just like they can be conditioned to exercise it fully

all it takes is the right environment and a level of authority from you

i wish you the best of luck

 

[itssoover0457]

exposure is everything

women can be conditioned against their nature

just like they can be conditioned to exercise it fully

all it takes is the right environment and a level of authority from you

i wish you the best of luck

thank you man. good luck with your life

 

[HundredManSlayer]

it’s not possible

 

[itssoover0457]

it’s not possible

fuck this life man

 

[itssoover0457]

 

[t3000]

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this never happend bruh

 

[sixonebutmtn]

I’ve always had this autistic obsession with loyalty and purity. Never hooked up, never even kissed a girl properly. Not because I’m ugly or scared (even though I am), I just physically can’t bring myself to fuck some random bimbo at a party or pay a prostitute. The thought makes me feel empty and disgusting.

Every single guy I know (and every girl too) is out there racking up bodies like it’s a video game. Parties, hookups, dating apps, rotations. Even the “nice” ones are lowkey sluts when nobody’s watching.

The blackpill says everyone is selfish and wants the best genes/status/pleasure possible. If there were no rules, society would collapse into everyone being sluts 24/7. I get that. But I still want a loyal wife who only wants me, who doesn’t look at other guys, who doesn’t have a past. I want to be the same for her.

The problem is I feel like I’m the only one on earth who actually means it. Everyone else is playing the game. Men want to fuck as many 10s as possible, women want Chad’s validation + beta buxx. Loyalty is just a cope or a lie to keep the other person from leaving.

So how do I survive this? How do I get rich, ascend looks/status/money without constantly being surrounded by the hookup culture that makes me want to kms?How do I meet a girl who’s actually loyal and not just waiting for a better option?Or am I just coping and true love doesn’t exist and I should accept being alone or become a whore myself?

I understand that true loyalty died with religion and shame. Women are only loyal when they have no better option. Once she gets a chance at Chad, she’s gone. I have no idea how to make it out in this world. I can't be a player, that's not who I am. What do I do?

Be brutally honest. Roast me if I’m delusional. I need to hear it.

@Htncel1 @ragingmanlet @ltnbrownacnecel @HundredManSlayer

Wtf man, I thought I was reading my own text.
I am in the same exact boat.
I do think it could be cool to slay lots of foids but in the end it'll only make you more empty..
It's highly unnatural to sleep around with hundreds of women and not have any kids..
Anyway I'd advice you to do the looksmaxxing if you want to and then find good copes to survive, maybe talk to friends if you have some, go golfing or pick up some form of hobbies or some shit
Ofc it's all a cope by definition
I wish I lived in nature, like long time ago
I'd be taller more handsome and have children already
Goatis is so based

 

[Centurion_Hunter]

I’ve always had this autistic obsession with loyalty and purity. Never hooked up, never even kissed a girl properly. Not because I’m ugly or scared (even though I am), I just physically can’t bring myself to fuck some random bimbo at a party or pay a prostitute. The thought makes me feel empty and disgusting.

Every single guy I know (and every girl too) is out there racking up bodies like it’s a video game. Parties, hookups, dating apps, rotations. Even the “nice” ones are lowkey sluts when nobody’s watching.

The blackpill says everyone is selfish and wants the best genes/status/pleasure possible. If there were no rules, society would collapse into everyone being sluts 24/7. I get that. But I still want a loyal wife who only wants me, who doesn’t look at other guys, who doesn’t have a past. I want to be the same for her.

The problem is I feel like I’m the only one on earth who actually means it. Everyone else is playing the game. Men want to fuck as many 10s as possible, women want Chad’s validation + beta buxx. Loyalty is just a cope or a lie to keep the other person from leaving.

So how do I survive this? How do I get rich, ascend looks/status/money without constantly being surrounded by the hookup culture that makes me want to kms?How do I meet a girl who’s actually loyal and not just waiting for a better option?Or am I just coping and true love doesn’t exist and I should accept being alone or become a whore myself?

I understand that true loyalty died with religion and shame. Women are only loyal when they have no better option. Once she gets a chance at Chad, she’s gone. I have no idea how to make it out in this world. I can't be a player, that's not who I am. What do I do?

Be brutally honest. Roast me if I’m delusional. I need to hear it.

@Htncel1 @ragingmanlet @ltnbrownacnecel @HundredManSlayer

Well you arent made for this age brother
Best bet is geomaxx

 

[livermore]

I’ve always had this autistic obsession with loyalty and purity. Never hooked up, never even kissed a girl properly. Not because I’m ugly or scared (even though I am), I just physically can’t bring myself to fuck some random bimbo at a party or pay a prostitute. The thought makes me feel empty and disgusting.

Every single guy I know (and every girl too) is out there racking up bodies like it’s a video game. Parties, hookups, dating apps, rotations. Even the “nice” ones are lowkey sluts when nobody’s watching.

The blackpill says everyone is selfish and wants the best genes/status/pleasure possible. If there were no rules, society would collapse into everyone being sluts 24/7. I get that. But I still want a loyal wife who only wants me, who doesn’t look at other guys, who doesn’t have a past. I want to be the same for her.

The problem is I feel like I’m the only one on earth who actually means it. Everyone else is playing the game. Men want to fuck as many 10s as possible, women want Chad’s validation + beta buxx. Loyalty is just a cope or a lie to keep the other person from leaving.

So how do I survive this? How do I get rich, ascend looks/status/money without constantly being surrounded by the hookup culture that makes me want to kms?How do I meet a girl who’s actually loyal and not just waiting for a better option?Or am I just coping and true love doesn’t exist and I should accept being alone or become a whore myself?

I understand that true loyalty died with religion and shame. Women are only loyal when they have no better option. Once she gets a chance at Chad, she’s gone. I have no idea how to make it out in this world. I can't be a player, that's not who I am. What do I do?

Be brutally honest. Roast me if I’m delusional. I need to hear it.

@Htncel1 @ragingmanlet @ltnbrownacnecel @HundredManSlayer

i agree with you, but i mean like sex isn’t a bad thing when you are young if its with your gf/bf, even if she’s not a virgin, but didn’t hook up with nobody except her bf, and she’s loyal too then ill take it