I want to be driven by a purpose rather than an avoidance of suffering

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Because the truth is I’m going to need to suffer a whole lot if I want to get better.

My life is utterly fucked. I don’t know if there even is a chance that things get better. But I cannot continue on like this. I have been doing the absolute bare minimum with my life for the past year (really Ive been like this my whole life, but the past year it’s gotten way worse)

I wake up late; cry a bit thinking about my life, do my assignments, eat something, workout, take a shower, doomscroll, and back to sleep. I am not living. I’m just holding on. It gets more challenging each month to even do what I described to you. It feels very dark and bleak what my life has come to.

I will never have the vision of the average person. I am always going to be held back in that regard because I was born that way. But there is a possibility to change the other things. I want to look in the mirror once and see something that makes me feel ok.

My strabismus, my horrifically recessed jaw, my overbite, prepubescent frame, short legs, everything about my face is to the point of deformity, every time I catch a reflection of myself, I think about the genetic lottery that I lost on all fronts.

I haven’t talked to anyone for an eternity because I can’t see myself as an equal to anybody. I’m inferior, and deep down Ive known this for all my life, it’s been reflected in all my behavior and actions, and at this point I just think that’s who I am rather than something I picked up or a phase I went through.

I hate myself, and with hate comes a desire to fail. Yet I also want to succeed at doing the impossible. So how am I supposed to deal with such a paradox and conflict within myself. I think too much and not enough. I make problems where there aren’t any, and I ignore all the problems that already are.

I just hope I find the strength to put myself through every surgery in the book for my eyes, put my shame and fear aside to start working and saving up for a double jaw surgery, and above all else, I hope I find it in me to do whatever it takes, by any means necessary. Because at the end of the day, when this year flies by and I find myself in 2027, of I’m still stuck in this exact spot, I’ll hate myself even more, and suffer even harder, with nothing to show for my miserable life of nothingness, no realized payoff for all the time I spent in pain
 
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ran into my old bully (rival top tier private school, a year older, 6'7.75 WASP, rich dad in PE, 280lb lean football defensive back) at the top bar in my hometown this weekend, got lil bro'ed at 6'5.5 235lb lean:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:

he put his arm around my shoulder condescendingly and said "hows it been buddy havent seen you since last summer" and squeezed my arm and was like "looking leaner nowadays MY NAME" while laughing to his other trust fund jock friends.

i was with a couple friends on the smaller side (6'5-6'6 230-255lb average) and he was with 7 other guys (6'8-6'10 270-305lb average) so i couldnt do shit but god it was so humilating:feelswhy::feelswhy:
ran into my old bully (rival top tier private school, a year older, 6'7.75 WASP, rich dad in PE, 280lb lean football defensive back) at the top bar in my hometown this weekend, got lil bro'ed at 6'5.5 235lb lean:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:

he put his arm around my shoulder condescendingly and said "hows it been buddy havent seen you since last summer" and squeezed my arm and was like "looking leaner nowadays MY NAME" while laughing to his other trust fund jock friends.

i was with a couple friends on the smaller side (6'5-6'6 230-255lb average) and he was with 7 other guys (6'8-6'10 270-305lb average) so i couldnt do shit but god it was so humilating:feelswhy::feelswhy:
ran into my old bully (rival top tier private school, a year older, 6'7.75 WASP, rich dad in PE, 280lb lean football defensive back) at the top bar in my hometown this weekend, got lil bro'ed at 6'5.5 235lb lean:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:

he put his arm around my shoulder condescendingly and said "hows it been buddy havent seen you since last summer" and squeezed my arm and was like "looking leaner nowadays MY NAME" while laughing to his other trust fund jock friends.

i was with a couple friends on the smaller side (6'5-6'6 230-255lb average) and he was with 7 other guys (6'8-6'10 270-305lb average) so i couldnt do shit but god it was so humilating:feelswhy::feelswhy:
ran into my old bully (rival top tier private school, a year older, 6'7.75 WASP, rich dad in PE, 280lb lean football defensive back) at the top bar in my hometown this weekend, got lil bro'ed at 6'5.5 235lb lean:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:

he put his arm around my shoulder condescendingly and said "hows it been buddy havent seen you since last summer" and squeezed my arm and was like "looking leaner nowadays MY NAME" while laughing to his other trust fund jock friends.

i was with a couple friends on the smaller side (6'5-6'6 230-255lb average) and he was with 7 other guys (6'8-6'10 270-305lb average) so i couldnt do shit but god it was so humilating:feelswhy::feelswhy:
ran into my old bully (rival top tier private school, a year older, 6'7.75 WASP, rich dad in PE, 280lb lean football defensive back) at the top bar in my hometown this weekend, got lil bro'ed at 6'5.5 235lb lean:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:

he put his arm around my shoulder condescendingly and said "hows it been buddy havent seen you since last summer" and squeezed my arm and was like "looking leaner nowadays MY NAME" while laughing to his other trust fund jock friends.

i was with a couple friends on the smaller side (6'5-6'6 230-255lb average) and he was with 7 other guys (6'8-6'10 270-305lb average) so i couldnt do shit but god it was so humilating:feelswhy::feelswhy:
ran into my old bully (rival top tier private school, a year older, 6'7.75 WASP, rich dad in PE, 280lb lean football defensive back) at the top bar in my hometown this weekend, got lil bro'ed at 6'5.5 235lb lean:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:

he put his arm around my shoulder condescendingly and said "hows it been buddy havent seen you since last summer" and squeezed my arm and was like "looking leaner nowadays MY NAME" while laughing to his other trust fund jock friends.

i was with a couple friends on the smaller side (6'5-6'6 230-255lb average) and he was with 7 other guys (6'8-6'10 270-305lb average) so i couldnt do shit but god it was so humilating:feelswhy::feelswhy:
ran into my old bully (rival top tier private school, a year older, 6'7.75 WASP, rich dad in PE, 280lb lean football defensive back) at the top bar in my hometown this weekend, got lil bro'ed at 6'5.5 235lb lean:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:

he put his arm around my shoulder condescendingly and said "hows it been buddy havent seen you since last summer" and squeezed my arm and was like "looking leaner nowadays MY NAME" while laughing to his other trust fund jock friends.

i was with a couple friends on the smaller side (6'5-6'6 230-255lb average) and he was with 7 other guys (6'8-6'10 270-305lb average) so i couldnt do shit but god it was so humilating:feelswhy::feelswhy:
ran into my old bully (rival top tier private school, a year older, 6'7.75 WASP, rich dad in PE, 280lb lean football defensive back) at the top bar in my hometown this weekend, got lil bro'ed at 6'5.5 235lb lean:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:

he put his arm around my shoulder condescendingly and said "hows it been buddy havent seen you since last summer" and squeezed my arm and was like "looking leaner nowadays MY NAME" while laughing to his other trust fund jock friends.

i was with a couple friends on the smaller side (6'5-6'6 230-255lb average) and he was with 7 other guys (6'8-6'10 270-305lb average) so i couldnt do shit but god it was so humilating:feelswhy::feelswhy:
 
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😢😢😢😢
 
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Why don't you hardmaxx and end all your sufferings?
 
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@LTNUser hi :love:
 
Why don't you hardmaxx and end all your sufferings?
I’m tortured by waiting, been waiting for my eye surgery since last summer and I don’t even have my first consult until this spring, I’m going insane from the waiting. The suffering scares me, the waiting depresses me
 
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I’m tortured by waiting, been waiting for my eye surgery since last summer and I don’t even have my first consult until this spring, I’m going insane from the waiting. The suffering scares me, the waiting depresses me

I’ve been waiting nearly four years for my Trimax and that’s only the first of a series of needed surgeries. I’ll add:

  • The uncertainty that hardmax will even matter with a bad base.
  • The dread that by the time you finished your surgeries, so will everyone else and you’re back where you started in the hierarchy.
  • The awareness that you’re financially crippling yourself for life compared to your peers just in a desperate attempt to buy your own humanity.
 
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You need to let the hope of surgeries uplift you day to day tbh. Focus on jaw/chin enhancements first of all before even considering anything else. Eye area is the stupidest starting place to hardmax. Also save more money, it will literally make you more confident the more you have in your bank account.
 
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