I want to rope

[bleedskin]

Im 16 years old, I think i have social anxiety, I literally can't start a conversation with anyone in real life, especially females. I tried opening up to one of my friends about it, then he goes ahead to tell more people about it, and one of them said they hope I do end up roping. Im ugly as fuck and im a gymcell which is the only thing giving me happiness rn since im going up in strength, but every other aspect in my life has gone to complete shit. I have horrible grades, i cant talk to women, i dont have a job, and im not fucking good for anything, I really want someone I can actually talk to, I can't trust any of my friends and I want to die every single fucking night. I just really need advice or least painful methods to rope.

 

[H@rry]

nigga just get high and ull realise that talking to people isnt hard

 

[green_fn_2033]

those arent real friends bro. Don't rope, at 16 you have a lot of potential to make improvements your life at that age. I personally know people who were completely socially inept in their youth who are now working normal jobs where they manage people. If you need someone to talk to or need any advice you can pm me

 

[bleedskin]

nigga just get high and ull realise that talking to people isnt hard

Doesn't fix everything else, I literally have no one to rely on, and im ugly asf

 

[bleedskin]

those arent real friends bro. Don't rope, at 16 you have a lot of potential to make improvements your life at that age. I personally know people who were completely socially inept in their youth who are now working normal jobs where they manage people. If you need someone to talk to or need any advice you can pm me

Ty bro, I just really need advice on how to talk to people irl and improve my looks, im also 5'5 so I get lots of people saying im cooked no matter what

 

[H@rry]

Doesn't fix everything else, I literally have no one to rely on, and im ugly asf

puts things in perspective tho and at least for me doesnt make me wanna cap ma shit nigga

 

[bleedskin]

puts things in perspective tho and at least for me doesnt make me wanna cap ma shit nigga

Yeah fair enough

 

[green_fn_2033]

Ty bro, I just really need advice on how to talk to people irl and improve my looks, im also 5'5 so I get lots of people saying im cooked no matter what

the best advice i can give you here is just practice making a little bit of small talk throughout your day to day life. Try this with a cashier, normies at your school, etc. Observe what other people around you talk about and how they make conversation. Social skills can be learned and improved just like any other skill. You may say some dumb shit here and there while you learn but dont stress, everyone has.

 

[bleedskin]

the best advice i can give you here is just practice making a little bit of small talk throughout your day to day life. Try this with a cashier, normies at your school, etc. Observe what other people around you talk about and how they make conversation. Social skills can be learned and improved just like any other skill. You may say some dumb shit here and there while you learn but dont stress, everyone has.

I'll try doing that, but its really hard for me, since most times I just freeze up when someone talks to me I genuinely dont know what's wrong