I was always shy around attractive girls

[BoredPrince]

In other words became non NT, which sucked because around non attractive girls I was relaxed and extrovert


Which is also why, the girls I was not attracted at all, had a crush on me

Maybe they thought it was flirting but I was just being me without any anxiety


Wish I knew how to act like that around attractive girls...

 

[kana]

In other words became non NT, which sucked because around non attractive girls I was relaxed and extrovert


Which is also why, the girls I was not attracted at all, had a crush on me

Maybe they thought it was flirting but I was just being me without any anxiety


Wish I knew how to act like that around attractive girls...

holy abused dog, this is literally normal for like 80% of men

 

[fuxkdakikez]

very normal experience tbh

 

[Mosh12]

Chad trait tbh

 

[BoredPrince]

holy abused dog, this is literally normal for like 80% of men

And how do we fix it?

Drugs and alcohol are only temporary solutions, i need something permanent

 

[BoredPrince]

very normal experience tbh

So the problem isn't looks (as long as we're not LTN) but being non NT?

But is it really since we have no problems interacting with ugly girls


Maybe we're just putting girls on too high of a pedestal and thinking we don't deserve them!?

 

[fuxkdakikez]

So the problem isn't looks (as long as we're not LTN) but being non NT?

But is it really since we have no problems interacting with ugly girls


Maybe we're just putting girls on too high of a pedestal and thinking we don't deserve them!?

it’s probably because when we’re around attractive people were more under pressure to perform in front of them for their validation. you probably weren’t shy, just overly cautious of what you were doing

 

[TalesFromTheSlums]

They were probably Beckies.

To you they seemed attractive/like Stacies because you were a subhuman.

 

[BoredPrince]

@Suns9999 I do wonder do you know that there are other reactions besides jfl

 

[BoredPrince]

They were probably Beckies.

To you they seemed attractive/like Stacies because you were a subhuman.

I'm not denying that.

 

[Mosh12]

Chad trait tbh

I mean it

 

[Mosh12]

I mean it

I really do

 

[BoredPrince]

I really do

Then it's only Chad trait I have (I'm delusional)

 

[Mosh12]

Then it's only Chad trait I have (I'm delusional)

Ok Chad

 

[TigranTheGreat]

let go of the fear of losing
let go of expectations
law of detachment
strive to be more low inhib without the risks

low inhib is law if done properly to avoid the pitfalls