gribsufer1
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It makes sense that it feels difficult, even though, on the surface, conversation seems simple. The "resistance" you're feeling could be rooted in several things:
1. Overthinking: You might feel pressure to say the “right” thing, which can create hesitation and block the natural flow of conversation.
2. Fear of Judgment: Worrying about how others will perceive your words can make it hard to speak freely or be vulnerable in interactions.
3. Emotional Energy: Social interactions, especially deeper conversations, can require emotional energy, and if you’re naturally more reserved, this might feel draining.
4. Uncertainty or Inexperience: If you feel unsure about social norms or how to navigate certain types of conversations, it can feel like you’re navigating without a guide, which builds resistance.
5. Internal Critic: A strong internal voice critiquing your thoughts before you even speak might be slowing you down or holding you back.
Understanding this resistance takes time, but you’re already doing the hard part by being aware of it. Starting small, practicing self-compassion, and focusing on lowering expectations for yourself in conversations could help ease that resistance over time.
1. Overthinking: You might feel pressure to say the “right” thing, which can create hesitation and block the natural flow of conversation.
2. Fear of Judgment: Worrying about how others will perceive your words can make it hard to speak freely or be vulnerable in interactions.
3. Emotional Energy: Social interactions, especially deeper conversations, can require emotional energy, and if you’re naturally more reserved, this might feel draining.
4. Uncertainty or Inexperience: If you feel unsure about social norms or how to navigate certain types of conversations, it can feel like you’re navigating without a guide, which builds resistance.
5. Internal Critic: A strong internal voice critiquing your thoughts before you even speak might be slowing you down or holding you back.
Understanding this resistance takes time, but you’re already doing the hard part by being aware of it. Starting small, practicing self-compassion, and focusing on lowering expectations for yourself in conversations could help ease that resistance over time.
