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"When I was in my 20s, I wanted a family. I wanted a wife, children, home, pets, job I didn't hate. I was spurned and rejected on average at least 7 of 10 attempts. I'm not ugly, I'm polite, I walk and talk with confidence. But the women I would ask, even I spent time getting to know them, would decline even a date. By the time I hit 30, I had given up. I was never into hookups or one night stands. But I was hitting 30. Past the age where I wanted to be to have a first child, much less more than one. I'm in my 40s now. I have moments where I wish I had someone, but I've lost my trust in women, in more than just relationships. Am I bitter? In some ways, yes. I still don't know or understand what I did wrong in my 20s, or even if I did anything wrong. But I see what's happening in today's world, with twitch/onlyfans/etc, women from prestigious careers walking away from that and making ten times as much on onlyfans just for showing their body. I see men being rejected more and more and more. If you're a young man, I'm sorry you're living in this hateful time. I wish you the best and I hope you find someone that will appreciate you. Fight against becoming the grumpy old curmudgeon I've become. Cynical as I am, I'm still hoping for the best for you."
"When I was in my 20s, I wanted a family. I wanted a wife, children, home, pets, job I didn't hate. I was spurned and rejected on average at least 7 of 10 attempts. I'm not ugly, I'm polite, I walk and talk with confidence. But the women I would ask, even I spent time getting to know them, would decline even a date. By the time I hit 30, I had given up. I was never into hookups or one night stands. But I was hitting 30. Past the age where I wanted to be to have a first child, much less more than one. I'm in my 40s now. I have moments where I wish I had someone, but I've lost my trust in women, in more than just relationships. Am I bitter? In some ways, yes. I still don't know or understand what I did wrong in my 20s, or even if I did anything wrong. But I see what's happening in today's world, with twitch/onlyfans/etc, women from prestigious careers walking away from that and making ten times as much on onlyfans just for showing their body. I see men being rejected more and more and more. If you're a young man, I'm sorry you're living in this hateful time. I wish you the best and I hope you find someone that will appreciate you. Fight against becoming the grumpy old curmudgeon I've become. Cynical as I am, I'm still hoping for the best for you."