I went clubbing solo

[Acne Victim]

Not gonna write some fucking essay but recently I've started going out more, i went out all Fridays since half of january. Most of those times were meh and only worth it with alcohol - today I tried clubbing alone (without alcohol) and got zero fucking results because of my high inhib and even when i approached girls i guess they could sense how non nt i am.

My view on clubs rn is that unless you are a giga mogger, DONT go without a good friend group. Otherwise you will not get SHIT. Drink a lot too

 

[R@m@]

Ive been going out alone and always have a good time, 3 glasses of wine and a joint sets me up for all night

 

[Acne Victim]

Ive been going out alone and always have a good time, 3 glasses of wine and a joint sets me up for all night

honestly i dont get it, how? do you just approach random people and try to make friends?

when im with my social circle going out no one ever appoaches us (even when there are girls with us)

 

[cytoplasm]

Idk how you can to those places without your brain mashed, especially if youre high-inhib. Also age, height, psl?

 

[Acne Victim]

Idk how you can to those places without your brain mashed, especially if youre high-inhib. Also age, height, psl?

18, 5'9, 4.75 PSL

bro i hate them to be honest, the music is always dogshit, men:women ratio is fucked and it smells bad. i tried going alone because i would get depressed if i stayed at home rotting

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Not gonna write some fucking essay but recently I've started going out more, i went out all Fridays since half of january. Most of those times were meh and only worth it with alcohol - today I tried clubbing alone (without alcohol) and got zero fucking results because of my high inhib and even when i approached girls i guess they could sense how non nt i am.

My view on clubs rn is that unless you are a giga mogger, DONT go without a good friend group. Otherwise you will not get SHIT. Drink a lot too

Wouldn't friends be kind of liability and make you inflexible?

 

[Corleone]

Wouldn't friends be kind of liability and make you inflexible?

Got to be giga-NT if you run around a club without friends

 

[Acne Victim]

Wouldn't friends be kind of liability and make you inflexible?

I see what you mean but no - Ive had girls approaching me when i was with my friend group but never when completely alone.

 

[Deleted member 23772]

I see what you mean but no - Ive had girls approaching me when i was with my friend group but never when completely alone.

Cuz being in a group gives you social proof. Start hanging out with a group of friends that are also NT, wingmen and flexible. That shit gave me pussy from the club 2 times. I dont club anymore though

 

[Acne Victim]

Cuz being in a group gives you social proof. Start hanging out with a group of friends that are also NT, wingmen and flexible. That shit gave me pussy from the club 2 times. I dont club anymore though

That's true - when you are around girls for example, other girls will see you as having a higher value and being more good-looking than you really are.

How do you bring girls home? Most of them are always drunk as fuck so its a big hassle

 

[Deleted member 23772]

That's true - when you are around girls for example, other girls will see you as having a higher value and being more good-looking than you really are.

How do you bring girls home? Most of them are always drunk as fuck so its a big hassle

What i did was kissing/making out with them, touch their body parts and then chitchatted for like 5 min( first girl kinda drunk) before asking her to come home with me. So i ordered uber and we got to my small apartment and did the thing. The second girl took me lil longer cuz she was only tipsy but we talked for like 20 min and i saw her vibe was uptuning. So i asked her the same thing and when we came to the apartment we fucked.

 

[Deleted member 23772]

What i did was kissing/making out with them, touch their body parts and then chitchatted for like 5 min( first girl kinda drunk) before asking her to come home with me. So i ordered uber and we got to my small apartment and did the thing. The second girl took me lil longer cuz she was only tipsy but we talked for like 20 min and i saw her vibe was uptuning. So i asked her the same thing and when we came to the apartment we fucked.

However the first girl was ltb, the second was mtb. So i guess the more attractive she is the longer it takes. And if you make any mistakes byt spelling the wrong words or acting weird with your gestures or sum, your fucked. Happened a lot with other mtbs and a few htbs i was trying to bring home @Acne Victim

 

[Acne Victim]

However the first girl was ltb, the second was mtb. So i guess the more attractive she is the longer it takes. And if you make any mistakes byt spelling the wrong words or acting weird with your gestures or sum, your fucked. Happened a lot with other mtbs and a few htbs i was trying to bring home @Acne Victim

Yeah, one thing is that in clubs it's somewhat similar to tinder in the sense that you won't get your looksmatch most likely, so an LTB is pretty decent tbh. Alcohol helps a lot with the NTness but you can't be completely drunk either cuz you will just fuck it up

What i did was kissing/making out with them, touch their body parts and then chitchatted for like 5 min( first girl kinda drunk) before asking her to come home with me. So i ordered uber and we got to my small apartment and did the thing. The second girl took me lil longer cuz she was only tipsy but we talked for like 20 min and i saw her vibe was uptuning. So i asked her the same thing and when we came to the apartment we fucked.

Makes sense, the only problem is that I live with my parents but we can just fuck without too much noise lol.

Btw, I'm curious on what are your stats if you don't mind sharing

 

[Deleted member 23772]

Yeah, one thing is that in clubs it's somewhat similar to tinder in the sense that you won't get your looksmatch most likely, so an LTB is pretty decent tbh. Alcohol helps a lot with the NTness but you can't be completely drunk either cuz you will just fuck it up

Makes sense, the only problem is that I live with my parents but we can just fuck without too much noise lol.

Btw, I'm curious on what are your stats if you don't mind sharing

Dont worry about the living in your parents, you can always book a hotel for a night if you ever get the chance to get a chick from the club. Havent revealed my pics or anything and not into the PSL rating so i keep it lowkey yet

 

[Acne Victim]

Dont worry about the living in your parents, you can always book a hotel for a night if you ever get the chance to get a chick from the club. Havent revealed my pics or anything and not into the PSL rating so i keep it lowkey yet

Yeah all good g, dont worry.

Appreciate the help, I should be more confident next time trying to bring the girl out of the club lol

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

I got a Snapchat contact of a girl..

Are those numbers/contacts even worth / lead to something later on??

 

[Acne Victim]

I got a Snapchat contact of a girl..

Are those numbers/contacts even worth / lead to something later on??

Honestly, I wouldn't even bother depending on the girl.

It also depends on where you got it, if it is a random girl from a bar that you met drunk then it's completely useless.

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Honestly, I wouldn't even bother depending on the girl.

It also depends on where you got it, if it is a random girl from a bar that you met drunk then it's completely useless.

Brutal. I already caught feelings because she responded to my message and showed slight IOI.