I went to therapy yesterday, it was horrible

[AlexAP]

I managed to get an appointment by telling my insurance I'm suicidal, which is not true (anymore) but it helps you to find a therapist faster. But it was disgusting. The therapist was an old man, looked like 70 or so, he just sat there and listened to a few things I said about my life, barely responded, asked or commented anything (honestly he didn't respond or comment on anything) and never said any empathetic word. It went for 50 minutes, there were many moments where for 30 seconds or so no one said a word.

When I was still in school, my mother forced me to go therapy, and while I hated it, it was better than this time. These therapists were female and they were much more responsive and actually showed empathy ("This must have been hard", etc.), not like this old man who was cold as ice. I don't think I will go again, or maybe only if it's a female therapist, it seems like men are just cruel to each other. I felt worse after knowing that not even he gave a shit despited being paid to do so, ngl.

 

[Deleted member 23115]

based old man con artist

 

[Deleted member 24278]

David Goggins and Andrew Tate have both been the best therapist I could've had in my life but if you need an actual therapist just watch the Healthy Gamer gg or whatever his name is

 

[AlexAP]

David Goggins and Andrew Tate have both been the best therapist I could've had in my life but if you need an actual therapist just watch the Healthy Gamer gg or whatever his name is

Yeah I know this Indian guy, he says a lot of good stuff.

 

[Deleted member 25059]

Since when the coach need a therapy

 

[LampPostPrime]

Female therapist sounds nightmarish

 

[R@m@]

therapy is cope for the most part, specially for men, try to find something you really enjoy doing, try psychedelic drugs, something that can get you out of your brain for a while

 

[AlexAP]

Female therapist sounds nightmarish

Why. Women seem to have more empathy than men.

 

[LampPostPrime]

Why. Women seem to have more empathy than men.

Strong words for someone posting here lmfao

 

[LampPostPrime]

Imagine complaining about being a friendless 29 yo virgin who cant get a job cuz autism and some disgustingly privileged woke Becky says ur the privileged one and compares your suffering to her having to settle for 8/10 chad and not 9/10 lmao

 

[LampPostPrime]

Also LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO at women having empathy

 

[Gonthar]

I managed to get an appointment by telling my insurance I'm suicidal, which is not true (anymore) but it helps you to find a therapist faster. But it was disgusting. The therapist was an old man, looked like 70 or so, he just sat there and listened to a few things I said about my life, barely responded, asked or commented anything (honestly he didn't respond or comment on anything) and never said any empathetic word. It went for 50 minutes, there were many moments where for 30 seconds or so no one said a word.

Didn't you ask him anything like: "How do I get women?", "Do you have any single female patients you could introduce me to?", "What about relatives - any daughters, nieces, etc.?".

 

[Dr. Bludy]

No shit

 

[Deleted member 23359]

 

[AlexAP]

Strong words for someone posting here lmfao

Well I'm not a PSL autist so I don't see female empathy solely as "having sex with you."

Women indeed listen more to problems than men in my experience, I guess most men don't care about women listening (because they want to sleep with them) but it's true. Call it "friendzone", whatever.

 

[the BULL]

Therapy Is holy cope. Get your shit together

 

[Deleted member 14815]

Why. Women seem to have more empathy than men.

Because you Pay them hundreds of bucks like a cuck

 

[Deleted member 29710]

I managed to get an appointment by telling my insurance I'm suicidal, which is not true (anymore) but it helps you to find a therapist faster. But it was disgusting. The therapist was an old man, looked like 70 or so, he just sat there and listened to a few things I said about my life, barely responded, asked or commented anything (honestly he didn't respond or comment on anything) and never said any empathetic word. It went for 50 minutes, there were many moments where for 30 seconds or so no one said a word.

When I was still in school, my mother forced me to go therapy, and while I hated it, it was better than this time. These therapists were female and they were much more responsive and actually showed empathy ("This must have been hard", etc.), not like this old man who was cold as ice. I don't think I will go again, or maybe only if it's a female therapist, it seems like men are just cruel to each other. I felt worse after knowing that not even he gave a shit despited being paid to do so, ngl.

'good therapist'

 

[AlexAP]

Because you Pay them hundreds of bucks like a cuck

What? I don't pay them anything, and the male therapist I went to got paid by the insurance like any other therapist in my country.

 

[RAITEIII]

I managed to get an appointment by telling my insurance I'm suicidal, which is not true (anymore) but it helps you to find a therapist faster. But it was disgusting. The therapist was an old man, looked like 70 or so, he just sat there and listened to a few things I said about my life, barely responded, asked or commented anything (honestly he didn't respond or comment on anything) and never said any empathetic word. It went for 50 minutes, there were many moments where for 30 seconds or so no one said a word.

When I was still in school, my mother forced me to go therapy, and while I hated it, it was better than this time. These therapists were female and they were much more responsive and actually showed empathy ("This must have been hard", etc.), not like this old man who was cold as ice. I don't think I will go again, or maybe only if it's a female therapist, it seems like men are just cruel to each other. I felt worse after knowing that not even he gave a shit despited being paid to do so, ngl.

U should be careful with claims of being suicidal all of this is put on record...

Anyways male therapist fogs...

 

[RAITEIII]

U should be careful with claims of being suicidal all of this is put on record...

Anyways male therapist fogs...

Just go to Therapy Therapy outside the west

 

[AlexAP]

Anyways male therapist fogs...

How do you know? Do you have experience with this?

 

[Deleted member 14815]

I managed to get an appointment by telling my insurance I'm suicidal, which is not true (anymore) but it helps you to find a therapist faster. But it was disgusting. I don't think I will go again, or maybe only if it's a female therapist, it seems like men are just cruel to each other.

seems like you're a whiny bitch who got abused when he was younger. you claim men are cruel yet act like a bitch who no one likes. This is why you are alone, nobody likes a soft faggot like you because you have no good values or purpose (like myself who has both good qualities). If I were your father I would tell you grow the hell up and stop being a little panzy.

 

[Deleted member 28904]

Get a female therapist and ask her for sex

 

[Deleted member 26116]

No therapy for your face.

 

[RAITEIII]

How do you know? Do you have experience with this?

50/50


Honestly speaking I believe a woman is more unlikely to understand you. Because of the difference in lifes. Personally, I don't think id be capable of advising a woman in multiple areas... although I could in some.

actually, if you have the money or resources perhaps explore with both to add insights.

Im not sure what your issues are. .
Ive had male therapists and to my surprise they were always spot on in many things. I actually felt mogged and they were capable of dissecting things... but this was always in a an enviroment where no bluepill was mandatory. If they considered I was a nutjob and an infamous person id be told so... no hold back

 

[LampPostPrime]

Well I'm not a PSL autist so I don't see female empathy solely as "having sex with you."

Women indeed listen more to problems than men in my experience, I guess most men don't care about women listening (because they want to sleep with them) but it's true. Call it "friendzone", whatever.

No I'm not talking about being entitled to sex. (Western) Women seem unable to get out of the woke bubble and cant be empathetic to problems they dont understand (and in their super limited experience most normal life problems they cant understand).

Also you should know from being here they have zero empathy if you are ugly or even slightly non woke

 

[LampPostPrime]

Real empathy is mostly done by men as people have pointed out here. Women only pretend to have empathy to benefit thenselves, wanting to appear nice, only being nice to chads, etc. Men have real bonding and empathy for its own sake. Thats why male therapists are better. Plus they're way more likely to call you on your shit

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Therapy Is holy cope. Get your shit together

It can help but you really need to do your research first. Insurance companies have their list of referrals but that doesn't mean whichever therapist they select is the only available one. I learned from OP's mistake a long time ago. I discovered I had a choice of who I tell my problems to. And I always selected single horny women. I was into the union types in my teens but after learning the pain involved in affairs, I wouldn't touch that married vagina with a ten-foot pole. But pretty much all female therapists are singles. For some odd reason.

 

[Bewusst]

Sounds like you went to a psychoanalyst rather than a psychologist or psychiatrist. I went to one when I was a child. Psychoanalysis isn't meant to comfort you or prescribe drugs but trying to identify the underlying emotional conflicts and subconcious processes behind your issues through observation and listening. Basically trying to get to the root of the problem without symptomatic treatment

 

[LampPostPrime]

Because you Pay them hundreds of bucks like a cuck

Also they absolutely do not have empathy. Op is either overrating their empathy because of the women are wonderful effect or he's attractive and the female therapists are being nice to him because of that