I will never get a girlfriend

[2chudded2care]

Literally no matter what I do I can't talk to women. It's not even my looks, I'm somewhat above average (especially for my city) and have had many talking stages but the moment anyone catches a glimpse of my autism they run the other way. I went through trying so hard, giving up completely, and then finally being happy and at peace and accepting that I'll be fine on my own as long as I have God but then I got a girlfriend. Well, on the internet but still, I became so fucking attached to her and now I just desperately need female attention but because I was with the same girl for 9 months I completely forgot how to start a relationship from the bottom. Infact my ex didn't even like my personality. She just fucking imagined me to be like some other dream model tradhusband or whatever the fuck you want to call it. Now thanks to her I'm left with nothing and it's impossible for me to even approach a relationship with a woman. It's literally always the same. I meet someone I like, don't know how to make any moves so I just end up befriending them and end up becoming like the stereotypical looser guy bestfriend, the obsession starts to become unbearable and so I finally tell them how I feel and it's always the exact same response. I fucking hate living like this and I wish i wasn't so desperate for attention I wish I could just wait for the right person to eventually come along and then everything will be alright.
Sorry for the gay poorly structured rant but I need to get this off my chest and literally nobody will listen to me

 

[Carbine]

I'm a mentalcel as well but your too high level for my liking

 

[Funnyunenjoyer1]

Literally no matter what I do I can't talk to women. It's not even my looks, I'm somewhat above average (especially for my city) and have had many talking stages but the moment anyone catches a glimpse of my autism they run the other way. I went through trying so hard, giving up completely, and then finally being happy and at peace and accepting that I'll be fine on my own as long as I have God but then I got a girlfriend. Well, on the internet but still, I became so fucking attached to her and now I just desperately need female attention but because I was with the same girl for 9 months I completely forgot how to start a relationship from the bottom. Infact my ex didn't even like my personality. She just fucking imagined me to be like some other dream model tradhusband or whatever the fuck you want to call it. Now thanks to her I'm left with nothing and it's impossible for me to even approach a relationship with a woman. It's literally always the same. I meet someone I like, don't know how to make any moves so I just end up befriending them and end up becoming like the stereotypical looser guy bestfriend, the obsession starts to become unbearable and so I finally tell them how I feel and it's always the exact same response. I fucking hate living like this and I wish i wasn't so desperate for attention I wish I could just wait for the right person to eventually come along and then everything will be alright.

Brutal NT pill

 

[druiyaw]

same but i dont befriend them ever

 

[2chudded2care]

same but i dont befriend them ever

I could say that I'm "lucky" for being able to befriend them. But in reality it's a curse. Even when I'm friends with a girl who I don't currently like, the moment that whoever I'm crushing on tells me they're not interested I just get interested in the other girl and ruin it. Literally just ruined a long friendship over this shit. I fucking hate it

 

[sexy]

I couldn't make sense of what you wrote. What's exactly the reason you can't get a girlfriend?

 

[2chudded2care]

I couldn't make sense of what you wrote. What's exactly the reason you can't get a girlfriend?

1. Autism
2. Overenthusiastic as fuck
3. Attachment/obsession issues (I get attached to literally anybody who gives me a little attention)
4. I'm not confident and have no idea how to make a move. I just be friendly and become friends with girls instead of actually trying to flirt

 

[druiyaw]

I could say that I'm "lucky" for being able to befriend them. But in reality it's a curse. Even when I'm friends with a girl who I don't currently like, the moment that whoever I'm crushing on tells me they're not interested I just get interested in the other girl and ruin it. Literally just ruined a long friendship over this shit. I fucking hate it

you are not lucky for being able to befriend them, if they have no interest on me i just ditch them

 

[2chudded2care]

you are not lucky for being able to befriend them, if they have no interest on me i just ditch them

Yeah it's ruined a lot of friendships for me so there's honestly no point.

 

[watah]

Ur just ugly

 

[druiyaw]

Yeah it's ruined a lot of friendships for me so there's honestly no point.

bro I was similar to you a couple months ago, you can just get unhealthy or healthy coping mechanisms to deal with it, for me i first gym, then just hang out with uni friends and drink alcohol or smoke shit and NT fraudmaxx so i dont feel any attention needs

 

[2chudded2care]

Ur just ugly

before my first long-term relationship that's not what any of my like 20 talking stages said

im just retarded and socially awkward, but that's probably not something i'll be able to fix. hopefully someone as niggerey as me comes along and loves me

 

[watah]

before my first long-term relationship that's not what any of my like 20 talking stages said

im just retarded and socially awkward, but that's probably not something i'll be able to fix. hopefully someone as niggerey as me comes along and loves me

Ur problem is being sub htn sir

 

[2chudded2care]

bro I was similar to you a couple months ago, you can just get unhealthy or healthy coping mechanisms to deal with it, for me i first gym, then just hang out with uni friends and drink alcohol or smoke shit and NT fraudmaxx so i dont feel any attention needs

I used to go gym but quit at the start of this year cause I'm a lazy fucker, I'm going back with my dad in a few weeks tho. I mean I know that if I just started praying again it would all be better. Even if I'm wrong about religion (which I'm not), the happiest I've ever been was when I was pious, so I just need to stop being a nigger and go back to Church

 

[2chudded2care]

Ur problem is being sub htn sir

maybe

i got rejected by a girl who wanted someone whose face she's never seen doe. so with her you can't see that problem ig.

im probably just mtn, 6'3 so i've atleast got a decent height so i'm nothing to chase after but at the very least i wouldn't say that i'm ugly or undesirable

 

[druiyaw]

maybe

i got rejected by a girl who wanted someone whose face she's never seen doe. so with her you can't see that problem ig.

im probably just mtn, 6'3 so i've atleast got a decent height so i'm nothing to chase after but at the very least i wouldn't say that i'm ugly or undesirable

he kinda right as most girls would date you if you were good looking enough, thats just sad bitter truth

 

[2chudded2care]

he kinda right as most girls would date you if you were good looking enough, thats just sad bitter truth

Well they were serious talking stages, nothing that you'd get into with someone you wouldn't want to date. But I agree I'm not the most attractive guy, and compared to some countries could be ltn