I wish I could turn my loneliness into motivation

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But sadly it does the exact opposite. I don't want to leave my bed, I don't want to go out, I don't want to do work, nothing...
 
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I'll give you some genuine advice. Go stand in front of a mirror look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself to stop being a bitch.

How could you sleep at night knowing there are other men outperforming you?

It is your duty as a man to succeed and be the best possible version of you that you can be.

There's so much you NEED to do.
As a man you should be hyper competitive and anything that prevents you from doing so should be erased.

Happiness shouldn't be the end goal as a man your purpose should be being as Competent, Dangerous, And as Important as you can be.
 
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I'll give you some genuine advice. Go stand in front of a mirror look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself to stop being a bitch.

How could you sleep at night knowing there are other men outperforming you?

It's your duty as a man to succeed and be the best possible version of you that you can be.

Theres so much you NEED to do
As a man you should be hyper competitive and anything that prevents you from doing so should be erased
I did this and I felt like I was a lonely faggot instead of just being lonely
 
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I'll give you some genuine advice. Go stand in front of a mirror look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself to stop being a bitch.

How could you sleep at night knowing there are other men outperforming you?

It is your duty as a man to succeed and be the best possible version of you that you can be.

Theres so much you NEED to do.
As a man you should be hyper competitive and anything that prevents you from doing so should be erased
so tuff
 
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I'll give you some genuine advice. Go stand in front of a mirror look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself to stop being a bitch.

How could you sleep at night knowing there are other men outperforming you?

It is your duty as a man to succeed and be the best possible version of you that you can be.

Theres so much you NEED to do.
As a man you should be hyper competitive and anything that prevents you from doing so should be erased.

Happiness shouldn't be the end goal as a man your purpose should be to be as Competent, Dangerous, And as important as possible
LMAO this is NPC motivational slop. You’re regurgitating Andrew Tate TikTok captions like it’s divine scripture.

Telling someone who said they’re lonely to “stop being a bitch” isn’t discipline, it’s emotional illiteracy. That’s not masculinity, that’s just low IQ stoicism cosplay.

“Other men outperforming you” congrats, there will always be someone ahead. If your entire self-worth is built on imaginary Chads living rent-free in your head, you’ve already lost.

Real self-improvement starts with awareness, not autistic rage fuel. You don’t erase emotions, you integrate them but I wouldn’t expect you to understand that when your entire worldview is gym clips + sigma edits.

You’re not hyper-competitive, you’re just insecure and projecting it as “duty.” Fix that first before preaching.
 
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How could you sleep at night knowing there are other men outperforming you?

It is your duty as a man to succeed and be the best possible version of you that you can be.

It’s not a level playing field. The best possible version of me gets outcompeted by most half-assed normie efforts. So these two statements do not really work together.

Only results matter. Nobody cares about effort. For most of us there is no point to even try.

I am even saying this as a Redpill coper myself. I’ve been weightlifting for ten years only to have my lifts surpassed by guys with 6 months of training. Yet I keep trying. I try and side hustle for money but everything is saturated now. Yet I keep trying. My softmaxxing efforts (and probably hardmaxxing) have taken me from incel to incel. Yet… I keep trying.

I don’t know why I bother any more.
 
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LMAO this is NPC motivational slop. You’re regurgitating Andrew Tate TikTok captions like it’s divine scripture.

Telling someone who said they’re lonely to “stop being a bitch” isn’t discipline, it’s emotional illiteracy. That’s not masculinity, that’s just low IQ stoicism cosplay.

“Other men outperforming you” congrats, there will always be someone ahead. If your entire self-worth is built on imaginary Chads living rent-free in your head, you’ve already lost.

Real self-improvement starts with awareness, not autistic rage fuel. You don’t erase emotions, you integrate them but I wouldn’t expect you to understand that when your entire worldview is gym clips + sigma edits.

You’re not hyper-competitive, you’re just insecure and projecting it as “duty.” Fix that first before preaching.
I can tell you're a weak-minded bitchmade loser that's destined for mediocrity and thinks it's okay to live a normal life.

Loneliness and anxiety don't exist. Do you think you would feel anxious walking into a room full of people that you know you run laps around in every metric?

I quoted "other men outperforming you" Because if you genuinely have a competitive mindset of striving to be better than your current position and are uncomfortable with complacency and stagnation your work ethic will display it and so will your success.

Awareness of what? There are kids your age and even younger than you who outperform you in every metric and you have the TIME to be depressed?

Me personally I wouldn't be able to function knowing there's someone in a worse position than i am in life putting in 10x the effort while i lay in my bed like an anxious weak minded bitch.
 
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I can tell you're a weak-minded bitchmade loser that's destined for mediocrity and thinks it's okay to live a normal life.

Loneliness and anxiety don't exist. Do you think you would feel anxious walking into a room full of people that you know you run laps around in every metric?

I quoted "other men outperforming you" Because if you genuinely have a competitive mindset of striving to be better than your current position and are uncomfortable with complacency and stagnation your work ethic will display it and so will your success.

Awareness of what? There are kids your age and even younger than you who outperform you in every metric and you have the TIME to be depressed?

Me personally I wouldn't be able to function knowing there's someone in a worse position than i am in life putting in 10x the effort while i lay in my bed like an anxious weak minded bitch.
all this yapping just to say you built your personality around imaginary competition is faggotry

pretending loneliness and anxiety dont exist isnt strength its emotional illiteracy dumb fuck

you dont outwork anyone you just moralize grindset to feel superior

flexing kids outperforming others is weird behavior not motivation

if your only fuel is comparing yourself to strangers you already lost

this isnt discipline its insecurity with a podcast accent
 
all this yapping just to say you built your personality around imaginary competition is faggotry

pretending loneliness and anxiety dont exist isnt strength its emotional illiteracy dumb fuck

you dont outwork anyone you just moralize grindset to feel superior

flexing kids outperforming others is weird behavior not motivation

if your only fuel is comparing yourself to strangers you already lost

this isnt discipline its insecurity with a podcast accent
All the nonsense you're spewing yet i'm a multimillionaire with 80+ body count becuase I WORKED for it.

Not because I thought anxiety and depression didn't exist, But becuase I grabbed it by the neck and made it my bitch.

I guess your perception is your reality there are losers and there are winners in the world.
 
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every time someone calls themselves a multimillionaire online it just confirms the opposite

real money moves silent you wouldnt be flexing body count like a teenager discovering podcasts

saying anxiety and depression dont exist isnt strength its denial

humans arent fucking machines and pretending you erased emotions just means they run you subconsciously

your entire worldview is built on comparison and imaginary ladders

winners losers metrics body count money
thats not confidence thats external validation addiction

if you actually dominated life you wouldnt be in in fucking org trying to posture over strangers
youd be busy living not roleplaying success

work ethic doesnt come from screaming at people online

discipline shows in consistency not in essays about how tough you are

the funniest part is you think acknowledging struggle equals weakness
in reality its the first step to improvement

but you skip that because self awareness threatens the character you cosplay

keep calling yourself a winner if it helps you sleep

the need to announce it already says enough
@dezzy
 
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LMAO this is NPC motivational slop. You’re regurgitating Andrew Tate TikTok captions like it’s divine scripture.

Telling someone who said they’re lonely to “stop being a bitch” isn’t discipline, it’s emotional illiteracy. That’s not masculinity, that’s just low IQ stoicism cosplay.

“Other men outperforming you” congrats, there will always be someone ahead. If your entire self-worth is built on imaginary Chads living rent-free in your head, you’ve already lost.

Real self-improvement starts with awareness, not autistic rage fuel. You don’t erase emotions, you integrate them but I wouldn’t expect you to understand that when your entire worldview is gym clips + sigma edits.

You’re not hyper-competitive, you’re just insecure and projecting it as “duty.” Fix that first before preaching.
Gpt slop post

“You’re not just X. You’re Y. :soy:
 
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There are kids your age and even younger than you who outperform you in every metric and you have the TIME to be depressed?

Me personally I wouldn't be able to function knowing there's someone in a worse position than i am in life putting in 10x the effort while i lay in my bed like an anxious weak minded bitch.

Tf are you talking about bro..

Everything is circumstance, context, and odds. You can't beat them..

The rich stay rich, the poor stay poor, it's that simple. 99% of people in both categories cannot change anything about this in their lifetime

The average guy is born, goes to school, get his average job, marries an average girl who is a little overweight from compulsive eating due to the stress and risks of the average life, has 1-2 average kids, grows old, retires, and dies

It's that simple..

No one ''outperforms'' someone lol

Everyone strives to be as relaxed as possible, exert as little effort as possible, and have as much free time as possible..

Time flies, life is relative, there is a very short window of youth & prime, after which you just get older, more prone to illness, losing energy and drive year after year, and then you just wait to die..

A girl from China, popular on social media, has a very good quote:

''We don't live to leave a deep impression on others, we just need to live comfortably''

Here is a very good thread about social classes, how they influence everything, and how, realistically and probabilistically speaking, there is nothing you can do about it:

 
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every time someone calls themselves a multimillionaire online it just confirms the opposite

real money moves silent you wouldnt be flexing body count like a teenager discovering podcasts

saying anxiety and depression dont exist isnt strength its denial

humans arent fucking machines and pretending you erased emotions just means they run you subconsciously

your entire worldview is built on comparison and imaginary ladders

winners losers metrics body count money
thats not confidence thats external validation addiction

if you actually dominated life you wouldnt be in in fucking org trying to posture over strangers
youd be busy living not roleplaying success

work ethic doesnt come from screaming at people online

discipline shows in consistency not in essays about how tough you are

the funniest part is you think acknowledging struggle equals weakness
in reality its the first step to improvement

but you skip that because self awareness threatens the character you cosplay

keep calling yourself a winner if it helps you sleep

the need to announce it already says enough
@dezzy
you don't believe it because you can't comprehend it.

You have never tasted an ounce of success and your mindset reflects that.

"real money moves silent" actual clown i'm caging so hard. Jeff bezos got a bridge deconstructed because his yacht was too big and parties in ibiza with multiple women and bottles of champagne, You just don't know about it because you're an insignificant brokie with 0 weight to his name.

Money amplifies your already set personality if you like flexing you'll be flashy when you're rich, if you're a fucking geek you'll be more conservative.

where did i say that "acknowledging struggle is weakness"? I said to grab it by the fucking throat and overcome it. Not dwell in poverty and depression like your ideologies.

Tell me what matters more in life than money, looks and sex? if it's "loser metrics and external validation addiction" ?
 
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you don't believe it because you can't comprehend it.

You have never tasted an ounce of success and your mindset reflects that.

"real money moves silent" actual clown i'm caging so hard. Jeff bezos got a bridge deconstructed because his yacht was too big and parties in ibiza with multiple women and bottles of champagne, You just don't know about it because you're an insignificant brokie with 0 weight to his name.

Money amplifies your already set personality if you like flexing you'll be flashy when you're rich, if you're a fucking geek you'll be more conservative.

where did i say that "acknowledging struggle is weakness"? I said to grab it by the fucking throat and overcome it. Not dwell in poverty and depression like your ideologies.

Tell me what matters more in life than money, looks and sex? if it's "loser metrics and external validation addiction" ?
flexing bezos yachts while arguing online is peak spectator mindset🤣🤣🤣
 
I'll give you some genuine advice. Go stand in front of a mirror look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself to stop being a bitch.

How could you sleep at night knowing there are other men outperforming you?

It is your duty as a man to succeed and be the best possible version of you that you can be.

There's so much you NEED to do.
As a man you should be hyper competitive and anything that prevents you from doing so should be erased.

Happiness shouldn't be the end goal as a man your purpose should be being as Competent, Dangerous, And as Important as you can be.
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I'll give you some genuine advice. Go stand in front of a mirror look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself to stop being a bitch.

How could you sleep at night knowing there are other men outperforming you?

It is your duty as a man to succeed and be the best possible version of you that you can be.

There's so much you NEED to do.
As a man you should be hyper competitive and anything that prevents you from doing so should be erased.

Happiness shouldn't be the end goal as a man your purpose should be being as Competent, Dangerous, And as Important as you can be.
I laughed out loud :feelskek:
 
I can tell you're a weak-minded bitchmade loser that's destined for mediocrity and thinks it's okay to live a normal life.

Loneliness and anxiety don't exist. Do you think you would feel anxious walking into a room full of people that you know you run laps around in every metric?

I quoted "other men outperforming you" Because if you genuinely have a competitive mindset of striving to be better than your current position and are uncomfortable with complacency and stagnation your work ethic will display it and so will your success.

Awareness of what? There are kids your age and even younger than you who outperform you in every metric and you have the TIME to be depressed?

Me personally I wouldn't be able to function knowing there's someone in a worse position than i am in life putting in 10x the effort while i lay in my bed like an anxious weak minded bitch.
haha lol, if u compare yourself to others you will never get far:ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO: when u start comparing your yesterday to today thats how u perform
 
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But sadly it does the exact opposite. I don't want to leave my bed, I don't want to go out, I don't want to do work, nothing...
unfortunate turthnuke
 
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Having unmet basic needs just demoralizes you. Inceldom is a curse
 
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But sadly it does the exact opposite. I don't want to leave my bed, I don't want to go out, I don't want to do work, nothing...
Ehhhh
Just start test today
You have Stock anyways
 
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But sadly it does the exact opposite. I don't want to leave my bed, I don't want to go out, I don't want to do work, nothing...
Self fulfilling cycle
You’re waiting for some magical motivation to appear whilst you continue to propagate the same cycle you’re trapped in

Currently writing a very lengthy and detailed thread that may be of some use to you because it touches on this stuff
The core idea is that your identity is a product of your actions and you act upon your identity

Bad lifestyle makes you depressed -> you are a depressed person ->you are depressed so you live a bad lifestyle
You need to manipulate the subconscious mind and your sense of self to get out of this hole, by whatever means necessary
 
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I'll give you some genuine advice. Go stand in front of a mirror look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself to stop being a bitch.

How could you sleep at night knowing there are other men outperforming you?

It is your duty as a man to succeed and be the best possible version of you that you can be.

There's so much you NEED to do.
As a man you should be hyper competitive and anything that prevents you from doing so should be erased.

Happiness shouldn't be the end goal as a man your purpose should be being as Competent, Dangerous, And as Important as you can be.
Self talk helps but this is not the optimal way to do it
The brain does not respond to instructions as well as it does cycles, rituals, identity
Don’t tell yourself to man up. Tell yourself that you ARE a man. Don’t tell yourself to be successful, tell yourself you are going to succeed.

Commands are externalised, the brain treats them as a suggestion. You need to convince yourself that you have traits, act upon them and thus reinforce the trait in yourself
 
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I'll give you some genuine advice. Go stand in front of a mirror look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself to stop being a bitch.

How could you sleep at night knowing there are other men outperforming you?

It is your duty as a man to succeed and be the best possible version of you that you can be.

There's so much you NEED to do.
As a man you should be hyper competitive and anything that prevents you from doing so should be erased.

Happiness shouldn't be the end goal as a man your purpose should be being as Competent, Dangerous, And as Important as you can be.
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Self talk helps but this is not the optimal way to do it
The brain does not respond to instructions
Don’t tell yourself to man up. Tell yourself that you ARE a man. Don’t tell yourself to be successful, tell yourself you are going to succeed.

Commands are externalised, the brain treats them as a suggestion. You need to convince yourself that you have traits, act upon them and thus reinforce the trait in yourself
facts I always say you can rewire your brain to work in your favor.
 
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I've achieved what I wanted but still feel lonely
 
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facts I always say you can rewire your brain to work in your favor.
Absolutely
As I said before I’m writing a very comprehensive thread on this it’ll probably be done by the end of today
Its basically about how to psyop yourself for your own benefit I’ve been doing some self-experimentation recently and it has given me a greater ROI than any looksmaxxing i’ve done so far
 
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Absolutely
As I said before I’m writing a very comprehensive thread on this it’ll probably be done by the end of today
Its basically about how to psyop yourself for your own benefit I’ve been doing some self-experimentation recently and it has given me a greater ROI than any looksmaxxing i’ve done so far
def wanna see that and i can say the same for myself too brother gg.
 
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Same
 
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Tf are you talking about bro..

Everything is circumstance, context, and odds. You can't beat them..

The rich stay rich, the poor stay poor, it's that simple. 99% of people in both categories cannot change anything about this in their lifetime

The average guy is born, goes to school, get his average job, marries an average girl who is a little overweight from compulsive eating due to the stress and risks of the average life, has 1-2 average kids, grows old, retires, and dies

It's that simple..

No one ''outperforms'' someone lol

Everyone strives to be as relaxed as possible, exert as little effort as possible, and have as much free time as possible..

Time flies, life is relative, there is a very short window of youth & prime, after which you just get older, more prone to illness, losing energy and drive year after year, and then you just wait to die..

A girl from China, popular on social media, has a very good quote:

''We don't live to leave a deep impression on others, we just need to live comfortably''

Here is a very good thread about social classes, how they influence everything, and how, realistically and probabilistically speaking, there is nothing you can do about it:

this is a very nihilistic approach I think like I am in a better position in life rn then I was before I worked my way through it if I didn't have worked on my situation I would have roped a long time ago. While I do agree that most successful ppl are just lucky and 80% of what your life is gonna be is already decided by birth but I think one should always try to better his conditions instead of giving up
 
But sadly it does the exact opposite. I don't want to leave my bed, I don't want to go out, I don't want to do work, nothing...
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@MyDreamIsToBe183CM can you help this fellow nigger?
 
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literally me :feelswhy:
 
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understandable
 
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But sadly it does the exact opposite. I don't want to leave my bed, I don't want to go out, I don't want to do work, nothing...
Sadness keeps u soft while anger pushes u further, at least thats how those feelings and thoughs affect my behaviour and actions.
Try to actually be mad at your situation, you should be frustraded after realizing how shitty your current situation is, and do everything you can to work towards changing that mate.
 
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But sadly it does the exact opposite. I don't want to leave my bed, I don't want to go out, I don't want to do work, nothing...
I mean what could you do ?
 
But sadly it does the exact opposite. I don't want to leave my bed, I don't want to go out, I don't want to do work, nothing...
I was exactly the same. Until it started making me extremely anxious. Then i was kinda forced to start doing things to escape it.
 

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