I wonder how having a gf feels like

[ethnic subhuman]

I guess fucking & kissing constantly

 

[Glorious King]

These people saying it's boring didn't have a girlfriend they actually loved.
You will feel like you would actually do anything for her, feel like you would defend her with your life.
You would feel that if you guys broke up life is incomplete without her, that nobody will understand you like she did.
She will feel like your best friend that even talking to each other is more entertaining than any movie or game you can play.
It's everything you think it will be it's the best thing a man can feel. And when you sleep at night, you will sleep better when you guys sing songs together is so much fun you won't wanna get out of the car.
It is amazing

YEA I'VE BEEN THERE, THE WORST PART IS THE OBSESSION
LIKE EVEN IF THERE ARE BETTER LOOKIN GIRLS OUT THERE ULL STILL FEEL LIKE SHE'S THE ONE
BUT IRL SHE WONT AND WILL BE READY TO HOP OFF ONCE SHE FINDS CHAD

 

[Luquier]

You're unfortunately making a fantasy out of this, which is not realistic

You already do these things (got to places, do cool things, but alone), or they seem normal to you, but if a random girl comes along to accompany you in all this, it won't be anything special or different (except that other people will stare at you, and you might feel good if she's very attractive, and the rest of the people see that she's yours)

First of all, you're in a public space, so at most you might give her a kiss, a hug, and hold her hand (and even that gets boring at some point, your hand gets sweaty) but otherwise it's like going with a friend/family member/colleague

We're not in the movies, in an isolated environment, where it's always the middle of the day, time seems to stop, nothing matters or happens anymore, and everything revolves around us, for us, and we're always doing things and allocating all our time and energy..

In real life, having a girlfriend is like having a random friend, you see them sometimes, you meet them sometimes, you text them sometimes, you come to each other's houses sometimes, you cuddle, and sometimes when you both feel like it, you kiss and maybe have sex, but otherwise everyone with their own life, with their family, with their friends, with your activities

You still have 24 hours a day, school lasts the same amount of time, so does work, and all the other things you used to do alone

You think that if you have a girlfriend, you free up / unlock like in a video game some extra time (and energy, very important) each day beyond the normal 24 hours that she and you can allocate to doing couple things

Reality unfortunately doesn't work that way

Things will be better when you eventually move in together, but even then you will have a lot of things to do and your time and energy are limited

The reality of a couple is very monotonous, you quickly get into a routine, and you will look for other things to do because at some point you will get bored of each other, of your personality / voice / behavior / way of thinking, given that you will be together 24/7, no matter how attractive she is

Many users here, including you probably, think that ''a girlfriend'' is:

- a sex doll that:
- doesn't grow hair everywhere
- that doesn't go to the bathroom
- that doesn't sweat constantly
- that doesn't menstruate
- that doesn't smell bad
- that doesn't have activities she wants to do alone without you being around or interrupting her
- she is not hungry 3 times per day or more
- that has the energy, the time, the lack of worries & problems & responsibilities, the health, the availability, the kindness and goodwill of a girl from an fucking anime, always there for you at your disposal
- that she is not another human being like you, who also has health problems, worse conditions from menstruation, a job, responsibilities, friends and family that she constantly keeps in touch with, etc.

What you describe is ''love bombing'', and it is unrealistic to maintain in the medium and long term, and always generally comes from only one side, not from both partners in the couple

A real relationship means maturity, it means time and energy scheduled in advance to be spent together, it means preparations before any meeting (clothes, hair, hygiene, etc. and these take extra time and energy to always have them when you need them), and 90% of the time spent together will be just yapping from both of you about boring daily things, and only 10% of lying in bed, hugging, kissing, and eventually sex, and then unfortunately you will both continue your boring and hard lives..

That's why a lot of men who have had 1-2-3 relationships say afterwards that they don't need them anymore because they're better off without them, that they have more free time and fewer worries

Sure, you don't have sex and kisses for like 20-30 minutes every 2-3 nights, but hey, that's it, life goes on..

Life unfortunately remains just as complex, hard, complicated and energy-consuming with or without a girlfriend. A girlfriend won't come from heaven to change our entire life/daily routine like it seems in the movies, where from that moment the relationship begins, all the focus and everything we do is for us and about us..

Brutal life and reality pill..

Even if it isn’t some 24/7 lala land, LTRs allow you to do a lot of things you otherwise couldn’t which adds up over time.

If you’re single you’ll start to realise over time that something is missing, like an anniversary of a relationship never realised or the birthday of a child you’ll never have.

 

[emomaxx]

its really boring half the time and the other half she wants your cock its alr ig
i just want someone to hold me and not use me for my dick though.

 

[Glorious King]

I guess fucking & kissing constantly

DEPENDS BRUV, LIKE HER OVULATION PERIOD MATTERS
ALSO HOW FAR SHE IS

 

[zethock]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

i hated having a girlfriend, i like being alone much better

 

[isis_Bleach]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

feels great like u can just demand a water and sandwich and you get one without having to get up

 

[d0wnpour_]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

its nice yeah you'll get there brah

 

[Ascending2Tyrone]

You're unfortunately making a fantasy out of this, which is not realistic

You already do these things (got to places, do cool things, but alone), or they seem normal to you, but if a random girl comes along to accompany you in all this, it won't be anything special or different (except that other people will stare at you, and you might feel good if she's very attractive, and the rest of the people see that she's yours)

First of all, you're in a public space, so at most you might give her a kiss, a hug, and hold her hand (and even that gets boring at some point, your hand gets sweaty) but otherwise it's like going with a friend/family member/colleague

We're not in the movies, in an isolated environment, where it's always the middle of the day, time seems to stop, nothing matters or happens anymore, and everything revolves around us, for us, and we're always doing things and allocating all our time and energy..

In real life, having a girlfriend is like having a random friend, you see them sometimes, you meet them sometimes, you text them sometimes, you come to each other's houses sometimes, you cuddle, and sometimes when you both feel like it, you kiss and maybe have sex, but otherwise everyone with their own life, with their family, with their friends, with your activities

You still have 24 hours a day, school lasts the same amount of time, so does work, and all the other things you used to do alone

You think that if you have a girlfriend, you free up / unlock like in a video game some extra time (and energy, very important) each day beyond the normal 24 hours that she and you can allocate to doing couple things

Reality unfortunately doesn't work that way

Things will be better when you eventually move in together, but even then you will have a lot of things to do and your time and energy are limited

The reality of a couple is very monotonous, you quickly get into a routine, and you will look for other things to do because at some point you will get bored of each other, of your personality / voice / behavior / way of thinking, given that you will be together 24/7, no matter how attractive she is

Many users here, including you probably, think that ''a girlfriend'' is:

- a sex doll that:
- doesn't grow hair everywhere
- that doesn't go to the bathroom
- that doesn't sweat constantly
- that doesn't menstruate
- that doesn't smell bad
- that doesn't have activities she wants to do alone without you being around or interrupting her
- she is not hungry 3 times per day or more
- that has the energy, the time, the lack of worries & problems & responsibilities, the health, the availability, the kindness and goodwill of a girl from an fucking anime, always there for you at your disposal
- that she is not another human being like you, who also has health problems, worse conditions from menstruation, a job, responsibilities, friends and family that she constantly keeps in touch with, etc.

What you describe is ''love bombing'', and it is unrealistic to maintain in the medium and long term, and always generally comes from only one side, not from both partners in the couple

A real relationship means maturity, it means time and energy scheduled in advance to be spent together, it means preparations before any meeting (clothes, hair, hygiene, etc. and these take extra time and energy to always have them when you need them), and 90% of the time spent together will be just yapping from both of you about boring daily things, and only 10% of lying in bed, hugging, kissing, and eventually sex, and then unfortunately you will both continue your boring and hard lives..

That's why a lot of men who have had 1-2-3 relationships say afterwards that they don't need them anymore because they're better off without them, that they have more free time and fewer worries

Sure, you don't have sex and kisses for like 20-30 minutes every 2-3 nights, but hey, that's it, life goes on..

Life unfortunately remains just as complex, hard, complicated and energy-consuming with or without a girlfriend. A girlfriend won't come from heaven to change our entire life/daily routine like it seems in the movies, where from that moment the relationship begins, all the focus and everything we do is for us and about us..

Brutal life and reality pill..

I feel like once/if you meet the one who you know is the one and you want to spend the rest of your life with them then you'll understand. im not trying to be blue pilled but you're looking at it from a blackpilled perspective and listing mainly cons and a harsher reality than what it really is. once you experience TRUE love then you'll understand and not everyone can find their person in their lifetime

 

[lastredeemer]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

The girl has to be white for me to love her

 

[svarddre]

Being in love for real is great. I dated a girl from 14-21. 23 now and even though we aren’t together anymore those years were very fun and important.

Your first relationship is doomed to fail but it’s essential for your growth and learning how you love and want to be loved

 

[Ascending2Tyrone]

I dated a girl from 14-21.

go get your soulmate back brother

 

[svarddre]

go get your soulmate back brother

Nah that’s over with. We were both completely different people by the end of the relationship

 

[Ascending2Tyrone]

Nah that’s over with. We were both completely different people by the end of the relationship

i dont mean to twist the knife or make you have false hope but maybe youll cross paths again later on in life

 

[joan]

good

 

[svarddre]

i dont mean to twist the knife or make you have false hope but maybe youll cross paths again later on in life

Unlikely but that would certainly be interesting

 

[momslayer]

what your describing is the honeymoon phase no? also it kinda just depends on the girl you meet

 

[buddhistking]

You're unfortunately making a fantasy out of this, which is not realistic

You already do these things (got to places, do cool things, but alone), or they seem normal to you, but if a random girl comes along to accompany you in all this, it won't be anything special or different (except that other people will stare at you, and you might feel good if she's very attractive, and the rest of the people see that she's yours)

First of all, you're in a public space, so at most you might give her a kiss, a hug, and hold her hand (and even that gets boring at some point, your hand gets sweaty) but otherwise it's like going with a friend/family member/colleague

We're not in the movies, in an isolated environment, where it's always the middle of the day, time seems to stop, nothing matters or happens anymore, and everything revolves around us, for us, and we're always doing things and allocating all our time and energy..

In real life, having a girlfriend is like having a random friend, you see them sometimes, you meet them sometimes, you text them sometimes, you come to each other's houses sometimes, you cuddle, and sometimes when you both feel like it, you kiss and maybe have sex, but otherwise everyone with their own life, with their family, with their friends, with your activities

You still have 24 hours a day, school lasts the same amount of time, so does work, and all the other things you used to do alone

You think that if you have a girlfriend, you free up / unlock like in a video game some extra time (and energy, very important) each day beyond the normal 24 hours that she and you can allocate to doing couple things

Reality unfortunately doesn't work that way

Things will be better when you eventually move in together, but even then you will have a lot of things to do and your time and energy are limited

The reality of a couple is very monotonous, you quickly get into a routine, and you will look for other things to do because at some point you will get bored of each other, of your personality / voice / behavior / way of thinking, given that you will be together 24/7, no matter how attractive she is

Many users here, including you probably, think that ''a girlfriend'' is:

- a sex doll that:
- doesn't grow hair everywhere
- that doesn't go to the bathroom
- that doesn't sweat constantly
- that doesn't menstruate
- that doesn't smell bad
- that doesn't have activities she wants to do alone without you being around or interrupting her
- she is not hungry 3 times per day or more
- that has the energy, the time, the lack of worries & problems & responsibilities, the health, the availability, the kindness and goodwill of a girl from an fucking anime, always there for you at your disposal
- that she is not another human being like you, who also has health problems, worse conditions from menstruation, a job, responsibilities, friends and family that she constantly keeps in touch with, etc.

What you describe is ''love bombing'', and it is unrealistic to maintain in the medium and long term, and always generally comes from only one side, not from both partners in the couple

A real relationship means maturity, it means time and energy scheduled in advance to be spent together, it means preparations before any meeting (clothes, hair, hygiene, etc. and these take extra time and energy to always have them when you need them), and 90% of the time spent together will be just yapping from both of you about boring daily things, and only 10% of lying in bed, hugging, kissing, and eventually sex, and then unfortunately you will both continue your boring and hard lives..

That's why a lot of men who have had 1-2-3 relationships say afterwards that they don't need them anymore because they're better off without them, that they have more free time and fewer worries

Sure, you don't have sex and kisses for like 20-30 minutes every 2-3 nights, but hey, that's it, life goes on..

Life unfortunately remains just as complex, hard, complicated and energy-consuming with or without a girlfriend. A girlfriend won't come from heaven to change our entire life/daily routine like it seems in the movies, where from that moment the relationship begins, all the focus and everything we do is for us and about us..

Brutal life and reality pill..

So its not like this? Or this is just selective and not reality like a fake depiction of an LTR?

 

[SplashJuice]

From looking at everyone else's relationships around me over the years, I'd say it's good for the first 6-24 months (the honeymoon phase), then it tapers off and becomes routine. It's like living with a roommate you have sex with every now and then. Not bad, but not tempting either. I believe it's a lot like a second job too, that's how you would have to treat an LTR, I see my friends a lot less now because not only are they busy with their careers but their partners too. You get a lot less personal time, whether that's something you value or not it's worth considering.

 

[Tusseleif]

I’m considering going for a LTB I’m talking to. I’m tired of being lonely

 

[gymceltard]

Yes. Do you consider it being virgin? I asked many people and they said no because I got my dick sucked and had the opportunity to fuck them but I didn't.

FAKECEL SUBHUMAN GET THE FUCK OUT

 

[gymceltard]

Most women my age don't seem interested in LTR tbh. They all want to hookup and looking for something casual that's why it hasn't worked out for me

Who gives a shit what they’re looking for, they are women you TELL THEM what to do.

If you’re hooking up with a girl and you tell her she’s your gf now then she will obey. Women are children they want to be dominated and told what to do.

 

[browncurrycel]

I'll message her and tell her about my day.

i used to think a lot like this a few years ago tbh

young, innocent love was all i craved for

but then you see the shit these women pulll on their boyfriends in school and its crazy to imagine how two faced some people can be

i doubt ill ever have that innocence again.