I would rather be an introvert than an extrovert

[CorinthianLOX]

I've noticed that extroverts have to be around people constantly otherwise they get depressed or in a low mood. Introverts don't get this very easily because they're comfortable with solitude and being alone.

I've noticed this pattern in one of my irl friends who is an extrovert/ambivert and who used to be an incel. He would constantly vent to me about his troubles about being alone and not finding a girlfriend and friends (he did ascend later).

I probably consider myself as an introvert/ambivert.

 

[superpsycho]

extroversion is ideal imo

 

[asdvek]

"I'd rather be a retarded incel than be NT and possibly get sex"

 

[CorinthianLOX]

extroversion is ideal imo

But the problem is that if you're an extrovert who can't make friends due to being incel. Also extroverts need social validation unlike introverts.

 

[futureschizo]

I've been alone for so long idm it anymore

I feel like many introverts are made not created that way

 

[CorinthianLOX]

"I'd rather be a retarded incel than be NT and possibly get sex"

rira was an introvert wasn't he?

 

[CorinthianLOX]

I've been alone for so long idm it anymore

I feel like many introverts are made not created that way

Many people also think they're introverts whilst in reality they're not.

 

[asdvek]

rira was an introvert wasn't he?

Not the high inhib pussy incel type of introvert

And why r u saying that as if I am rira or something lmao

 

[superpsycho]

But the problem is that if you're an extrovert who can't make friends due to being incel. Extroverts also need social validation unlike introverts.

i havent come across a single extroverted incel in my life

extroversion is only natural imo if you’re an introvert ur just an abused dog or autistic

 

[Yani]

What about being a sextrovert? Mogs

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Not the high inhib pussy incel type of introvert

And why r u saying that as if I am rira or something lmao

Obviously being high inhib and ND is not ideal in any scenario. There's a difference between being an introvert and a high inhib person.

 

[asdvek]

Obviously being high inhib and ND is not ideal in any scenario. There's a difference between being an introvert and a high inhib person.

Yeah but most introverts don't move like rira did

 

[Rhinomaxed]

Ambivert is the way.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

i havent come across a single extroverted incel in my life

I have although it can seem uncommon. For example one guy from my school (not the same guy as my friend) was highly extroverted but he got SA allegations due to being ugly.

extroversion is only natural imo if you’re an introvert ur just an abused dog or autistic

Disagreed. Introverts are naturally drawn to quieter and more solitary places. Introverts also like 1 on 1 socialization more.

 

[SickendExistence]

I've noticed that extroverts have to be around people constantly otherwise they get depressed or in a low mood. Introverts don't get this very easily because they're comfortable with solitude and being alone.

I've noticed this pattern in one of my irl friends who is an extrovert/ambivert and who used to be an incel. He would constantly vent to me about his troubles about being alone and not finding a girlfriend and friends (he did ascend later).

I probably consider myself as an introvert/ambivert.

I like being able to turn being a extrovert on/off with drugs that lower inhib, and then be able to go home and be in isolation perfectly fine

 

[akame]

I've noticed that extroverts have to be around people constantly otherwise they get depressed or in a low mood. Introverts don't get this very easily because they're comfortable with solitude and being alone.

I've noticed this pattern in one of my irl friends who is an extrovert/ambivert and who used to be an incel. He would constantly vent to me about his troubles about being alone and not finding a girlfriend and friends (he did ascend later).

I probably consider myself as an introvert/ambivert.

be a extrovert

 

[Veridic]

I've noticed that extroverts have to be around people constantly otherwise they get depressed or in a low mood. Introverts don't get this very easily because they're comfortable with solitude and being alone.

I've noticed this pattern in one of my irl friends who is an extrovert/ambivert and who used to be an incel. He would constantly vent to me about his troubles about being alone and not finding a girlfriend and friends (he did ascend later).

I probably consider myself as an introvert/ambivert.

So he’s not an extrovert but pretending to be one.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

be a extrovert

Not possible for some people. Do what's natural for your temperament.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

So he’s not an extrovert but pretending to be one.

He is. People here think extrovert=low inhib chad but that's not the case.

 

[valentine]

I've noticed that extroverts have to be around people constantly otherwise they get depressed o

lol i loved covid
how normies were suffering but my life hasnt changed

 

[akame]

Not possible for some people. Do what's natural for your temperament.

i’m nd since a kid, learn to be nt or get left behind, that’s how it works nowadays

 

[CorinthianLOX]

i’m nd since a kid, learn to be nt or get left behind, that’s how it works nowadays

learn to be nt but don't let it destroy your brain chemistry completely

 

[Veridic]

He is. People here think extrovert=low inhib chad but that's not the case.

You do realize you can’t just alter your brain chemistry to work otherwise if you were truly an incel for a period of time overlapping with certain social bonding development, right?

I was an incel for 20 years prior to changing my face, I display being an extrovert and it drains the life out of me. Everything I do has been created because I never inhibited the instincts my peers did throughout my childhood and teen years.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

extroversion is ideal imo

I feel like this isalso cultural. You're from the USA right? I've heard that the socializing culture in usa places high emphasis on everyone being extroverted.

 

[FiendFiend]

I've noticed that extroverts have to be around people constantly otherwise they get depressed or in a low mood. Introverts don't get this very easily because they're comfortable with solitude and being alone.

I've noticed this pattern in one of my irl friends who is an extrovert/ambivert and who used to be an incel. He would constantly vent to me about his troubles about being alone and not finding a girlfriend and friends (he did ascend later).

I probably consider myself as an introvert/ambivert.

The only ever reason I feel sad is because theres an expectation for me to go and talk to people a lot.

I genually realized i enjoy my own company a lot and if i do talk to friends irl and hang out i get fautiged so easily. Being an introvert is a superpower man.

If your introverted, but u also have drive to succeed in life, your gonna do amazing. The issue is if your introverted, but you have no interest in achieving anything. Thats when it can fuck you. If you love spending time by yourself, learn shit by yourself, be it with youtube videos, making money, gymcelling, fishing, doing large trecks.

I find so much peace in myself i see most people as been like actual mentally ill retards and im the normal one, not them.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

You do realize you can’t just alter your brain chemistry to work otherwise if you were truly an incel for a period of time overlapping with certain social bonding development, right?

I was an incel for 20 years prior to changing my face, I display being an extrovert and it drains the life out of me. Everything I do has been created because I never inhibited the instincts my peers did throughout my childhood and teen years.

Yes. Like I said my friend ascended (improved his looks and nichemaxxed) and it helped him.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

The only ever reason I feel sad is because theres an expectation for me to go and talk to people a lot.

I genually realized i enjoy my own company a lot and if i do talk to friends irl and hang out i get fautiged so easily. Being an introvert is a superpower man.

If your introverted, but u also have drive to succeed in life, your gonna do amazing. The issue is if your introverted, but you have no interest in achieving anything. Thats when it can fuck you. If you love spending time by yourself, learn shit by yourself, be it with youtube videos, making money, gymcelling, fishing, doing large trecks.

I find so much peace in myself i see most people as been like actual mentally ill retards and im the normal one, not them.

Agreed. I feel like this is a natural fennobaltic attitude jfl.

 

[Veridic]

Yes. Like I said my friend ascended (improved his looks and nichemaxxed) and it helped him.

I’m aware of that you mentioned him not being an incel anymore. Was he an incel throughout the majority of his teen years? Did he experience teen love? Was his childhood, one similar to a loner? If at least 2/3 of these are correct your brain chemistry doesn’t shift as easily because it’s the wiring you develop with to perceive the world as.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

I’m aware of that you mentioned him not being an incel anymore. Was he an incel throughout the majority of his teen years? Did he experience teen love? Was his childhood, one similar to a loner? If at least 2/3 of these are correct your brain chemistry doesn’t shift as easily because it’s the wiring you develop with to perceive the world as.

He was incel for his teens and childhood but he got a gf when he was 18 during his last year of high school. And obviously your brain chemistry gets fucked from loneliness no one's denying that. In fact I believe it affects extroverts more if they're forced into loneliness because they seek socializing more than introverts.

 

[Gargantuan]

Most people also view introversion as a social deficiency and extroversion as social competence, when this is completely untrue.
Quite often, extroversion is just anxiety expressed outwardly. Some people avoid social situations because they’re anxious, whilst others compulsively seek them out because they’re anxious about exclusion or being unseen.

They’re just different coping strategies, one is socially anxious and the other is anxiously social.

 

[Veridic]

He was incel for his teens and childhood but he got a gf when he was 18 during his last year of high school. And obviously your brain chemistry gets fucked from loneliness no one's denying that. In fact I believe it affects extroverts more if they're forced into loneliness because they seek socializing more than introverts.

Then he didn’t miss teen love and he’ll be mostly fine, with minor damage.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Most people also view introversion as a social deficiency and extroversion as social competence, when this is completely untrue.
Quite often, extroversion is just anxiety expressed outwardly. Some people avoid social situations because they’re anxious, whilst others compulsively seek them out because they’re anxious about exclusion or being unseen.

They’re just different coping strategies, one is socially anxious and the other is anxiously social.

Yeah this is what I was trying to say thank you.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Then he didn’t miss teen love and he’ll be mostly fine, with minor damage.

I wouldn't say so he was bullied mercilessly in elementary school.

 

[Veridic]

I wouldn't say so he was bullied mercilessly in elementary school.

I’d say it’s safe to assume he’s not as negatively impacted by this social drainage you spoke about due to being a mix of something in between normies and larping neurotypicality

 

[CorinthianLOX]

He was beaten up everyday in elementary school for being smaller etc.

I’d say it’s safe to assume he’s not as negatively impacted by this social drainage you spoke about due to being a mix of something in between normies and larping neurotypicality

 

[superpsycho]

I feel like this isalso cultural. You're from the USA right? I've heard that the socializing culture in usa places high emphasis on everyone being extroverted.

yea i never see fellow Non-NTs outside of a classroom/job setting, we just dont leave the house