Idk how to cope

[Deleted member 11053]

Since January 2021 my life is a nightmare i got tmj etd and tinnitus that i couldn't really accept but this looks descension is the nail in the coffin i can't cope with it.

All my life i had potential to be very gl but wasn't able to take full advantage of this gift, cause of low confidence and not being really aware of my potential and how much looks are important in life, and now that i finally realize all of this, life decide to take my looks away from me.

I fucked up a lot in the past but i was able to forgive myself cause i knew i was still young and i had plenty of time to fix my mistakes. I would've been able to accept a descension later in life as i age cause its a natural part of life, you got to accept that your time is over and helps the younger generation but to accept it now at just 20yo is very hard, i have no motivation to really improve myself anymore, cause ik that no matter how much i try, im never going to look as good, be as smart and enjoy life as much as i was able to before and before i was putting 0 efforts in my life.

How do you cope realizing that you missed your chance in life and that life will never be as good as before?

 

[Deleted member 6380]

become Muslim

 

[Deleted member 11053]

become Muslim

Im already but i dont fully believe in it tbh

 

[Deleted member 6380]

Im already but i dont fully believe in it tbh

start studying it, simple, otherwise ofc your gonna get lost in life

 

[Deleted member 11053]

start studying it, simple, otherwise ofc your gonna get lost in life

My problem is that ik that at the end of the day, i will do this cause i want to go to paradise and to get what i want at the end and it feel wrong if i was god i wouldn't accept this. I did some quick research about this the past few days and it said that the people's who are Muslim and follow the religion but for their own agenda are even worst than non believer but i should study it more you're right.

 

[Deleted member 6380]

My problem is that ik that at the end of the day, i will do this cause i want to go to paradise and to get what i want at the end and it feel wrong if i was god i wouldn't accept this i did some quick research about this the past few days and it said that the people's who are Muslim and follow the religion but for their own agenda are even worst than non believer but i should study it more you're right.

dnr, stay kafir

 

[Acnno]

 

[Deleted member 11053]

Pizza time?

 

[Deleted member 7465]

Fast food, video games, YouTube, sports. These are my copes

 

[Deleted member 11053]

Fast food, video games, YouTube, sports. These are my copes

I stopped all this things in 2020 apart from sports and, i felt better than ever i feel like going back to this would momentarily fill this void i have right now but i will pay it big time at a certain point when it wont be able to fill the void who is probably going to get bigger with time .

 

[Deleted member 6695]

I will pray for you getting better.
And why dont you improve anyways, better late than sorry bro

 

[Deleted member 11053]

I will pray for you getting better.
And why dont you improve anyways, better late than sorry bro

Cause im losing hope and can't get over the pain i have, but you're right i should still try to improve even if i dont feel better. Im probably going to get back on track but i really lost my motivation rn, also thank you for trying to help me bro you really are a good person.

 

[Deleted member 6695]

Cause im losing hope and can't get over the pain i have, but you're right i should still try to improve even if i dont feel better. Im probably going to get back on track but i really lost my motivation rn, also thank you for trying to help me bro you really are a good person.

No problem, Take week long breaks from here every now then too, good stuff. Lets have a good time here on earth

 

[Deleted member 11053]

Almost kms yesterday

 

[Schnitzel]

How do you cope realizing that you missed your chance in life and that life will never be as good as before?

No cure for life

 

[Deleted member 756]

Almost kms yesterday

Why?

 

[Deleted member 11053]

Why?

Explained already in the thread

 

[Deleted member 756]

Explained already in the thread

I know but it seems deeper than that

 

[goat2x]

good luck bro

 

[Deleted member 8576]

How do you cope realizing that you missed your chance in life and that life will never be as good as before?

there is no way to cope with that

but pretending a religion is true wont fix anything just try to reach some goals u set for urself and believe you can do it

 

[Pietrosiek]

Fast food, video games, YouTube, sports. These are my copes

same, good food while watching ut and then working out mogs everything

 

[Bitch]

Drinking alcohol is one of my favourite copes

 

[goat2x]

 

[Deleted member 11053]

Im going on a month of no fap and see if things get better

 

[Uglyandfat]

How do you cope realizing that you missed your chance in life and that life will never be as good as before?

you really dont tbh there is no better dopamine rush then validation and women begging to get fucked by you

 

[Deleted member 11053]

you really dont tbh there is no better dopamine rush then validation and women begging to get fucked by you

Yeah but i will probably not get it anymore so i need to find something else maybe if i can get out of this depression and get my motivation back im going to be proud of myself and that might be enough for the rest of my life but im not sure, i will see.

 

[Uglyandfat]

Yeah but i will probably not get it anymore so i need to find something else maybe if i can get out of this depression and get my motivation back im going to be proud of myself and that might be enough for the rest of my life but im not sure, i will see.

tbh i’m in this rutt aswell but getting friends helps a lot

 

[Deleted member 10172]

Fast food, video games, YouTube, sports. These are my copes

everyone watches youtube to cope

without youtube life isnt worth living