If a girl is leading you on in the friendzone is there anything you can do

[Deleted member 5927]

So I think I figured it out.
@tyronelite youre a fucking god for instantly realizing this bitch was leading me on and telling me before the fact. Funny shit now I think she is. I think she was denying any past interest (I brought it up with her about how she asked me out before and she was like “whaaat I just wanted to get some food and stuff from the store and I was happy I got it”) I was like “what the hell lmao no you wanted to chill what are you talking about you were mad at me afterwards because you thought I rejected you and then you friendzoned me as a result” and she just kept denying all of it with terrible arguments back lmao. I told her straight up I know what you are doing.

anyways yeah now I think she just was using me for entertainment by showing interest once again but she’s adamant about friendzoning my ass and her showing interest and leading me on worked and I’m sort of pissed right now.

 

[Mouthbreath]

So you fucked it up. I thought it would be impossible, but you mangaged to fuck it up with a whore that was basically begging for your cock jfl

 

[karbo]

youre a fucking god for instantly realizing this bitch was leading me on

should be obvious after spending 60 days on a blackpill forum

 

[Deleted member 5048]

Girl will always shit test you trying to put you down/bitch you up, you have to lead her and be in control, be assertive and dominant

 

[Deleted member 4310]

What happened yesterday bro

 

[Deleted member 5927]

So you fucked it up. I thought it would be impossible, but you mangaged to fuck it up with a whore that was basically begging for your cock jfl

I didn’t do anything wrong I’m just inexperienced I did my best and this shit happens all the time with relationships. I really, truly, did my absolute best.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

What happened yesterday bro

We hung out and it was chill and we drove around and the whole mood was good but at the end we got into deep convo and I’m very philosophical so we were talking about how you always want to be popular and high status and this is the way the brain works and she disagreed with some blue pill shit about you determining your own worth. I then went personal and said “remember the first day u asked me out to chill and I cold shouldered you because I thought u were dating someone and then you treated me like shit afterwards? That’s because I hurt your ego and you felt rejected and as a result wanted to hurt me, but you misinterpreted the entire situation” and then we both started laughing and arguing at the same time lmao and it was a good convo but then I realized damn this bitch is just leading me on afterwards bc I realized she just wants to be friends and she’s using me for entertainment and my car and someone to go places with.

 

[tyronelite]

So I think I figured it out.
@tyronelite youre a fucking god for instantly realizing this bitch was leading me on and telling me before the fact. Funny shit now I think she is. I think she was denying any past interest (I brought it up with her about how she asked me out before and she was like “whaaat I just wanted to get some food and stuff from the store and I was happy I got it”) I was like “what the hell lmao no you wanted to chill what are you talking about you were mad at me afterwards because you thought I rejected you and then you friendzoned me as a result” and she just kept denying all of it with terrible arguments back lmao. I told her straight up I know what you are doing.

anyways yeah now I think she just was using me for entertainment by showing interest once again but she’s adamant about friendzoning my ass and her showing interest and leading me on worked and I’m sort of pissed right now.

Block her Delete her

She's dead to you moving on forward

Onto the next girl

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Block her Delete her

She's dead to you moving on forward

Onto the next girl

I have the hardest time finding new chicks bro ngl there’s none at all around me brutal shit brutal as hell why can’t this bitch work with me I literally mog everyone here and I can chill with her daily lmao what more could u want

 

[Deleted member 5393]

I have the hardest time finding new chicks bro ngl there’s none at all around me brutal shit brutal as hell why can’t this bitch work with me I literally mog everyone here and I can chill with her daily lmao what more could u want

take some nt pics and get tinder u mong

 

[Deleted member 5927]

take some nt pics and get tinder u mong

You’re right. Gotta get some pics.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

So I think I figured it out.
@tyronelite youre a fucking god for instantly realizing this bitch was leading me on and telling me before the fact. Funny shit now I think she is. I think she was denying any past interest (I brought it up with her about how she asked me out before and she was like “whaaat I just wanted to get some food and stuff from the store and I was happy I got it”) I was like “what the hell lmao no you wanted to chill what are you talking about you were mad at me afterwards because you thought I rejected you and then you friendzoned me as a result” and she just kept denying all of it with terrible arguments back lmao. I told her straight up I know what you are doing.

anyways yeah now I think she just was using me for entertainment by showing interest once again but she’s adamant about friendzoning my ass and her showing interest and leading me on worked and I’m sort of pissed right now.

It's good that you confronted her and told her you know what she's doing.

Yes, there's only one thing you can do when a girl puts you in the friendzone. Refuse to be there.

Just walk away from her. Drop her like a bad habit and only be around her when you have to be, because of your job (class, CQ, formations, or other details). You're not gonna be able to salvage anything with her.

This is gonna be especially hard for you because you're not in a position to get her out of your life. And trust me, she won't make it easy. It's a good learning experience though.

First, do like I said and ignore her. Don't make it obvious that that's what you're doing. Just genuinely focus on other interests and look to the future. Now, she's gonna ramp up her sl*ttyness to make you jealous. It's easier said than done, but don't let it get to you and don't pay her any mind. DO NOT confront her about it. The best way to handle this is to have the right perspective. When she's talking to other guys you need to understand that she's just "dancing" for you. This isn't a cope, it's the truth. So let her dance like the clown sl*t she is. If she knows what she's doing she'll be subtle about it. If that's the case don't let it make you rack your brain thinking whether or not she's actually doing it for you. That's what she wants. And, believe me, she's doing it for you. You're the best looking guy in her proximity.

If you make it past that point, and it will take some time, she's eventually gonna throw you a bone. She's gonna try to bait you. She'll want you right back in the friendzone for her ego, and she's gonna make it seem like she's interested in you again. Do not take it. I repeat, do not take it. Just continue to ignore her.

Finally, if you've made it that far, she'll want to talk to you about why you've been ignoring her. At that point bluntly tell her that you're now only interested in f*cking. Tell her that, under no circumstance, are you gonna continue to have any kind of relationship with her unless you f*ck her first. If her response is anything but, "Ok, when and where?", just laugh at her and curtly walk away. Don't let her draw you into any kind of arguement. You both know the score. Hold your ground.

This is the only way to salvage it.

 

[Deleted member 5927]

It's good that you confronted her and told her you know what she's doing.

Yes, there's only one thing you can do when a girl puts you in the friendzone. Refuse to be there.

Just walk away from her. Drop her like a bad habit and only be around her when you have to be, because of your job (class, CQ, formations, or other details). You're not gonna be able to salvage anything with her.

This is gonna be especially hard for you because you're not in a position to get her out of your life. And trust me, she won't make it easy. It's a good learning experience though.

First, do like I said and ignore her. Don't make it obvious that that's what you're doing. Just genuinely focus on other interests and look to the future. Now, she's gonna ramp up her sl*ttyness to make you jealous. It's easier said than done, but don't let it get to you and don't pay her any mind. DO NOT confront her about it. The best way to handle this is to have the right perspective. When she's talking to other guys you need to understand that she's just "dancing" for you. This isn't a cope, it's the truth. So let her dance like the clown sl*t she is. If she knows what she's doing she'll be subtle about it. If that's the case don't let it make you rack your brain thinking whether or not she's actually doing it for you. That's what she wants. And, believe me, she's doing it for you. You're the best looking guy in her proximity.

If you make it past that point, and it will take some time, she's eventually gonna throw you a bone. She's gonna try to bait you. She'll want you right back in the friendzone for her ego, and she's gonna make it seem like she's interested in you again. Do not take it. I repeat, do not take it. Just continue to ignore her.

Finally, if you've made it that far, she'll want to talk to you about why you've been ignoring her. At that point bluntly tell her that you're now only interested in f*cking. Tell her that, under no circumstance, are you gonna continue to have any kind of relationship with her unless you f*ck her first. If her response is anything but, "Ok, when and where?", just laugh at her and curtly walk away. Don't let her draw you into any kind of arguement. You both know the score. Hold your ground.

This is the only way to salvage it.

Dude you’re a fucking god. You had it EXACTLY right but I fucked up at the 2nd to last step she threw me a bone and I’m back in the friend zone. I swear this is exactly what happened. I can’t ignore her now basically she’s denying right now that she ever liked me in front of a bunch of people so it’s awkward now. Fucking hell.

 

[Deleted member 7192]

Reading this shit is frustrating jfl, maybe it's cause I'm more experienced but even with my first girl I was more experienced than you.


Native, my nigga my guy. You currently have ONEITIS. This girl leaves in your head rent free. Girls really aren't that complex bro, she likes you, she makes it easy for you. All you have to do is be brave and go in for a kiss.

All these other guys writing paragraphs and going to detail. It's really not that deep bro. Go in for a kiss, if she rejects you she rejected you. If not don't come on the forum saying you got rejected and lead on and all this other shit

 

[Deleted member 2403]

Netive netive netive netive

 

[sandcelmuttcel]

no just leave and quit gigivng her attention
she might even bounce back

 

[SeiGun]

increase your psl
or
made her assume she cant get any man higher psl than you (which is unlikely)

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Dude you’re a fucking god. You had it EXACTLY right but I fucked up at the 2nd to last step she threw me a bone and I’m back in the friend zone. I swear this is exactly what happened. I can’t ignore her now basically she’s denying right now that she ever liked me in front of a bunch of people so it’s awkward now. Fucking hell.

Yeah, I've been there before. A woman did that to me at work over the course of a year and a half when I was 21. It went back and forth for the longest time with me ignoring her, her throwing me bones, then me ending up right back where I started. Finally I stopped taking the bait. I told her that "Unless I f*ck you, I will not talk to you."

She walked away from me at first and went back to trying to make me jealous. But when she seen it wasn't gonna work anymore she actually surprised me and came to me crying, sheepishly asking me if I wanted to go back to her apartment after work. I just laughed at her and called her a wh*re, then went on ignoring her. She'd played with me too much, and lost her chance. About a month later she transfered her job. She couldn't stand being around someone whom she used to have so much power over, that she had none anymore. Her ego couldn't abide it. She hated her new position. She tried to play the victim and told everyone that I had ruined her life by making her transfer to a job she hated, becsuse I wouldn't talk to her. Nobody had any sympathy fir her though.

You can still ignore her. Don't be fooled. Just go right back to where you left off, and follow through this time.

 

[one job away]

Block her Delete her

She's dead to you moving on forward

Onto the next girl

of you're such a psychic mastermind please tell me how I can test if she's into me or playing with me or trying to friendzone me when I know her a long time . give me some tests and mind tricks I can do just like girls test us

 

[tyronelite]

of you're such a psychic mastermind please tell me how I can test if she's into me or playing with me or trying to friendzone me when I know her a long time . give me some tests and mind tricks I can do just like girls test us

Who said I was a psychic jfl. I don't do mind tricks or manipulate. Just be up front & let em know what you tryna do lol

 

[Deleted member 10524]

Who said I was a psychic jfl. I don't do mind tricks or manipulate. Just be up front & let em know what you tryna do lol

how to flirt?1?!!?? pls

 

[tyronelite]

how to flirt?1?!!?? pls

Honestly I do all the flirting in person.

I don’t text back n forth I only text to setup a time to meet up.

Flirting isn’t that hard. Compliment her on her body, her lips, hair whatever you find attractive about her & follow up with an action. Best way is to whisper in her ear

For ex:
“Damn Stacey you got really nice lips, I can’t wait to taste them later”
“I love how long your hair is, I can’t wait to pull on it when we get together tonight ”
“I see you keep yourself in shape, let’s see if you can keep up with me in bed”

You get the idea. What you’re showing is your not afraid to tell her you’re attracted to her & you want to have sex with her (subtly). Keep in mind you have to say all this with a confident, smooth seductive tone.

If you sound hesitant, nervous, scared she’ll get turned off. I’d practice a lot if this is your first time but you don’t have to use the extreme examples I gave you.

 

[Deleted member 10524]

Honestly I do all the flirting in person.

I don’t text back n forth I only text to setup a time to meet up.

Flirting isn’t that hard. Compliment her on her body, her lips, hair whatever you find attractive about her & follow up with an action. Best way is to whisper in her ear

For ex:
“Damn Stacey you got really nice lips, I can’t wait to taste them later”
“I love how long your hair is, I can’t wait to pull on it when we get together tonight ”
“I see you keep yourself in shape, let’s see if you can keep up with me in bed”

You get the idea. What you’re showing is your not afraid to tell her you’re attracted to her & you want to have sex with her (subtly). Keep in mind you have to say all this with a confident, smooth seductive tone.

If you sound hesitant, nervous, scared she’ll get turned off. I’d practice a lot if this is your first time but you don’t have to use the extreme examples I gave you.

those are extreme tbh what about
"you have cute hands, want me to keep them warm?"

that's the kinda thing I said to my ex

 

[tyronelite]

those are extreme tbh what about
"you have cute hands, want me to keep them warm?"

that's the kinda thing I said to my ex

Yeah it’s ok since you’re a beginner.

Once you get used to saying similar shit like that, take it up a notch & make it more sexual

 

[Jamal2222]

Girl will always shit test you trying to put you down/bitch you up, you have to lead her and be in control, be assertive and dominant

Yes whores have torn me down with shit tests. It’s actually funny I was tested constantly I couldn’t keep it up forever. That’s why true alpha makes win. girls aren’t stupid lmao, they wanna make sure you’re solid before you can smash. One hoe penetrated my weak alpha male persona and exposed me and dominated. Foids are powerful

 

[MikeMew'sBitch]

thats why u have to be mentally untouchable, instead of asking her "why this? why that?" like a little crying bitch u have to bring some carrots, nuts or any hard food with you next time you go on a date and chew that shit in front of her exactly at same time when she starts shit testing you. first of all it will stop you from saying something stupid and second ull show her capability of your mandible

 

[doll]

We hung out and it was chill and we drove around and the whole mood was good but at the end we got into deep convo and I’m very philosophical so we were talking about how you always want to be popular and high status and this is the way the brain works and she disagreed with some blue pill shit about you determining your own worth. I then went personal and said “remember the first day u asked me out to chill and I cold shouldered you because I thought u were dating someone and then you treated me like shit afterwards? That’s because I hurt your ego and you felt rejected and as a result wanted to hurt me, but you misinterpreted the entire situation” and then we both started laughing and arguing at the same time lmao and it was a good convo but then I realized damn this bitch is just leading me on afterwards bc I realized she just wants to be friends and she’s using me for entertainment and my car and someone to go places with.

not sure how a girl can go from begging for your d to wanting to be your friend?

clearly her ego is hurt bc you can’t “lead on someone” you were attracted to? jfl i don’t understand girls tbh

 

[Deleted member 4887]

We hung out and it was chill and we drove around and the whole mood was good but at the end we got into deep convo and I’m very philosophical so we were talking about how you always want to be popular and high status and this is the way the brain works and she disagreed with some blue pill shit about you determining your own worth. I then went personal and said “remember the first day u asked me out to chill and I cold shouldered you because I thought u were dating someone and then you treated me like shit afterwards? That’s because I hurt your ego and you felt rejected and as a result wanted to hurt me, but you misinterpreted the entire situation” and then we both started laughing and arguing at the same time lmao and it was a good convo but then I realized damn this bitch is just leading me on afterwards bc I realized she just wants to be friends and she’s using me for entertainment and my car and someone to go places with.

This is so cringe mate

 

[Deleted member 3573]

JFL at trying to advance a friendship with a female to something sexual as a non-chad. Over

 

[skull_mogger]

go er