If it’s not about sex what is it ?

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Anyone can get escorts yet incels are still getting surgery. Because they want genuine desire not transactional romance. But why is this. Why are we programmed to seek this authenticity and validating aspect of sex. From an evolutionary perspective as long as your getting it in and doing the act of procreation shouldn’t that be gratifying. What is the Darwinian explanation of why men want women to be genuinely attracted to them. For example you could get a prostitute who is the best actor in the world and have her pretend to be 100% into where at a physical level the experience is no different than authentic passionate sex yet , there will be a void . Why
 
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People say love is made up but love is real, its complex and theres many components of it, all primal and evolution based chemicals in brain. For some reason, intelligence comes with emotions. Look at all smartest animals and see how much they mourn over dead loved ones compared to far dumber animals.
 
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chinpilled said:
experience is no different than authentic passionate sex yet , there will be a void
No it won't you just think there will be one. You are inside your head
 
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chinpilled said:
Anyone can get escorts yet incels are still getting surgery. Because they want genuine desire not transactional romance. But why is this. Why are we programmed to seek this authenticity and validating aspect of sex. From an evolutionary perspective as long as your getting it in and doing the act of procreation shouldn’t that be gratifying. What is the Darwinian explanation of why men want women to be genuinely attracted to them. For example you could get a prostitute who is the best actor in the world and have her pretend to be 100% into where at a physical level the experience is no different than authentic passionate sex yet , there will be a void . Why
Humans are social animals, they work towards a life filled with respect, love etc. We aren't primitive beings with just the primitive needs. Think about why the asexual population is rising? Aren't they missing out on one of the only two purposes - 'survival and procreation'?, But they decided to concentrate more on their career, social status, genuine friendly bond etc.
 
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maybe because passionate sex makes women release stronger hormones and higher chance of superior baby(s)
 
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i just want to mog other males and feel superior. fuck females, i dont need their validation and love, i couldnt care less about these creatures. i have to be the best and number 1, thats what i strive for, looks are just one category of many where i have to mog oldcell @oldcell
 
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subhuman incel said:
i just want to mog other males and feel superior. fuck females, i dont need their validation and love, i couldnt care less about these creatures. i have to be the best and number 1, thats what i strive for, looks are just one category of many where i have to mog oldcell @oldcell
OldVirgin @OldVirgin
 
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It's about not having a criminal record. Escorts are illegal in many countries, and we're too poor to travel for that. Also, in the U.S. there's something called "sex tourism" laws, so you can't even legally travel to for that reason.

I personally don't want to use hookers because I don't want to take the legal risk. A criminal record affects future travel, jobs, and even finding an apartment. Also, I'm pretty sure that counts as a sex crime, and puts you on the sex offender list, which posts your name and home address publicly so you can be targeted by vigilantes, and when you move you have to update it, or you've committed another crime.
 
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noodlelover said:
It's about not having a criminal record. Escorts are illegal in many countries, and we're too poor to travel for that. Also, in the U.S. there's something called "sex tourism" laws, so you can't even legally travel to for that reason.

I personally don't want to use hookers because I don't want to take the legal risk. A criminal record affects future travel, jobs, and even finding an apartment. Also, I'm pretty sure that counts as a sex crime, and puts you on the sex offender list, which posts your name and home address publicly so you can be targeted by vigilantes, and when you move you have to update it, or you've committed another crime.

From what I've read you don't even need to do escorts, massage parlors in the U.S can provide the same thing as an escort aside from weird degenerate fetishes for fractions of the cost. r/HappyEndingMassage on Reddit ( JFL at the name :lul: ) has a bunch of threads of people's experiences, how to do it, etc. Might try one out honestly eventually.
 
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I've never paid for sex, but I've had plenty of it for free. I guarantee that sex with an escort is in no way fulfilling. Even with sex with girls who WANT your dick, there are degrees to how fulfilling it is. Most of the girls one has sex with are going to

That, and beauty impacts how much you love yourself. Is looking in the mirror a source of happiness, or anxiety and pain?
 
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because you have to use condoms with prostitutes and you can't do whatever you want to them unless you pay a looooot. but i agree with you if i'm rich enough to get one escort a week i don't need a girlfriend.
 
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chinpilled said:
Anyone can get escorts yet incels are still getting surgery. Because they want genuine desire not transactional romance. But why is this. Why are we programmed to seek this authenticity and validating aspect of sex. From an evolutionary perspective as long as your getting it in and doing the act of procreation shouldn’t that be gratifying. What is the Darwinian explanation of why men want women to be genuinely attracted to them. For example you could get a prostitute who is the best actor in the world and have her pretend to be 100% into where at a physical level the experience is no different than authentic passionate sex yet , there will be a void . Why
Incels want to get treated the way a chick does. Only chicks and extremely good looking guys get loads of unsolicited attention, the kind incels want. Most don't want to deal with the fact that normal guys have to do a lot of pursuing.
 
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noodlelover said:
It's about not having a criminal record. Escorts are illegal in many countries, and we're too poor to travel for that. Also, in the U.S. there's something called "sex tourism" laws, so you can't even legally travel to for that reason.

I personally don't want to use hookers because I don't want to take the legal risk. A criminal record affects future travel, jobs, and even finding an apartment. Also, I'm pretty sure that counts as a sex crime, and puts you on the sex offender list, which posts your name and home address publicly so you can be targeted by vigilantes, and when you move you have to update it, or you've committed another crime.
what is this gigacope , who's gonna know u fucked a hooker on ur trip to thailand lol. prostistitikn laws are so laid back relax
 
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Idiot go on abstinence for 6 months without spilling seed. Controlling yourself is a far greater high than being some chad who keeps giving in to downward pushing materiality.
 
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chinpilled said:
as long as your getting it in and doing the act of procreation shouldn’t that be gratifying.
What is the Darwinian explanation of why men want women to be genuinely attracted to them.
The genetic program is, 2 fold. And these 2 programms often are not in sync with each other. So a person makes an internal (struggle) compromise,

1. seed as much offspring as possible.
2. make sure your offspring survives and get raised well the first (lets say) 10 years. basically your offspring surving + makings sure good environment factor that he/she can reach it's max potential (which will later mean, your child looks good, healthy, etc.. and gets chosen by other when he/she adult to mate; and doesn't end up a subhuman whom dies incel).

Now. for that 2nd programm part. It's most ideal, a woman is attracted to you, and likes you, loves you, wants to be with you, etc.... because than, you can both work together to raise children in a good environment factor.

So, I see, perfectly fine. why we are programmed to want from women: validation that we are great, and they want to be with us for longer time.
 
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It's because humans aren't a product of evolution, at least not undirected.
 
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WontStopNorwooding said:
Its about drive
Its about power
Everything in life is about sex and sex is about power
Oscar Wilde
 
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PubertyMaxxer said:
The advantage of good looks reach far beyond just obtaining sex
This
PubertyMaxxer said:
The advantage of good looks reach far beyond just obtaining sex
to spoon feed the incels, advantages like.........
 
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you all normies, surgeries are useless for you
chads are born. end of thread. close the forum
 
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eduardkoopman said:
The genetic program is, 2 fold. And these 2 programms often are not in sync with each other. So a person makes an internal (struggle) compromise,

1. seed as much offspring as possible.
2. make sure your offspring survives and get raised well the first (lets say) 10 years. basically your offspring surving + makings sure good environment factor that he/she can reach it's max potential (which will later mean, your child looks good, healthy, etc.. and gets chosen by other when he/she adult to mate; and doesn't end up a subhuman whom dies incel).

Now. for that 2nd programm part. It's most ideal, a woman is attracted to you, and likes you, loves you, wants to be with you, etc.... because than, you can both work together to raise children in a good environment factor.

So, I see, perfectly fine. why we are programmed to want from women: validation that we are great, and they want to be with us for longer time.
3000 IQ, this makes perfect sense
 
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chinpilled said:
Anyone can get escorts yet incels are still getting surgery. Because they want genuine desire not transactional romance. But why is this. Why are we programmed to seek this authenticity and validating aspect of sex. From an evolutionary perspective as long as your getting it in and doing the act of procreation shouldn’t that be gratifying. What is the Darwinian explanation of why men want women to be genuinely attracted to them. For example you could get a prostitute who is the best actor in the world and have her pretend to be 100% into where at a physical level the experience is no different than authentic passionate sex yet , there will be a void . Why
Everything is about getting close to happiness as possible

The formula is simple for male. Sex, Variety, Freedom, Power Status...etc=Dominant Male=High baseline dopamine

It's about having Sex Frequency+Sex variety+Money=Ultimate Life Mog and Happiness

Multiple Females in Relationships with you over the course of the year=Harem=Awesome
Money=Freedom, Power, Status, TIME so you cans self actualize do what you want

Normies Choose, not by choice, 1 LTR/Wife and wagecuckery=Misreable exsistence

Here's other example of misery

1 Old Rich Gheezer=Nasty Roastie Wife=Misreable Sexless.
2 LTR 1 year+ or Marriagecel=Misreable Sexless( or boring/same old same old)
3 Incel=Misreable sexless

So you want to look good enough to be able to have 5-10 Relatively attractive girls in Mini LTRs/STRs for a few months at a time while moneymaxxing so you can life max now and later.
 
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chinpilled said:
Anyone can get escorts yet incels are still getting surgery. Because they want genuine desire not transactional romance. But why is this. Why are we programmed to seek this authenticity and validating aspect of sex. From an evolutionary perspective as long as your getting it in and doing the act of procreation shouldn’t that be gratifying. What is the Darwinian explanation of why men want women to be genuinely attracted to them. For example you could get a prostitute who is the best actor in the world and have her pretend to be 100% into where at a physical level the experience is no different than authentic passionate sex yet , there will be a void . Why
Desire causes suffering. Meditate, achieve a good physique and then at your prime kill yourself with a sword or go to a monastery and escape samsara. Foids detract us from the noble path and this website is an abomination. No real men here .
 
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Escortcels are Fakecels
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They get punished
 
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