If you aren't ugly but are non-nt you will disappoint people

[nonntfreak]

Alot of non-nt people have a "look" to them. Like you can see/feel their nerdy aura etheir because of looks or their clothes or the autism is more severe so they have weird movements. You can somewhat sense they are nerds.

But then there are people like me, who look normal but are non-nt.

People meet me and act normal but eventually they realize I'm non-nt and lose interest.

This happened for the few girls that showed me IoIs, but also happens alot through people trying to be friends/colleagues.

You can see the disappointement in people faces when they realise you are not normal like there is a mismatch between the look and the personality.

 

[chad_prodigy]

correct.

exactly because, contrary to what most delusional rotters on this site are telling themselves, everyone outside is aware that the only real obstacle to living a normal life/"being nt" are shit looks. so, if you have average+ looks and are still failing at it, there's no reason anyone would engage with you, given they have other options

 

[IOS]

how to become nt?

 

[zerotohero]

Happens to me all the time. People think I’m normal at first, but once they realize I’m non-NT, it’s over. With girls, especially, it’s why I’ve ended up with such a bad reputation.

 

[Deleted member 108191]

how to become nt?

If you aren't NT, then the only possible way is to mimic people.

I was a little bit non-NT few years back, where I like to spend my time alone like a Sigma and just avoid people.

I think you can mimic others or you can just build another "you".

 

[Deleted member 104790]

If you aren't NT, then the only possible way is to mimic people.

I was a little bit non-NT few years back, where I like to spend my time alone like a Sigma and just avoid people.

I think you can mimic others or you can just build another "you".

good advice

 

[Deleted member 104790]

Alot of non-nt people have a "look" to them. Like you can see/feel their nerdy aura etheir because of looks or their clothes or the autism is more severe so they have weird movements. You can somewhat sense they are nerds.

But then there are people like me, who look normal but are non-nt.

People meet me and act normal but eventually they realize I'm non-nt and lose interest.

This happened for the few girls that showed me IoIs, but also happens alot through people trying to be friends/colleagues.

You can see the disappointement in people faces when they realise you are not normal like there is a mismatch between the look and the personality.

same over here

 

[iblamericky]

I’m not ugly, and have had multiple high mtb’s, even a stacylite have crushes on me before to my surprise, but I am simply just non nt which kinda sucks, even if I try to change it that’s just my rep now until I leave hs

 

[Deleted member 110111]

Just eq and iq maxx

 

[Klasik616]

I cannot flirt with a woman, even if she's interested idk how to escalate. They think I'm a normal guy but suddenly notice my boring personality and quit. If I were a woman ofc this wouldnt happen. It's about gender roles we are forced to be confident and smart, otherwise you're not a man. And I don't have the looks to maintain them.

When you're a handsome man for example, women expect you to have a lot of experience, this is why slayers exist because slayers know what the fuck they should do to manipulate women with their looks and women are attracted to it.