If you aren't ugly but are non-nt you will disappoint people

[nonntfreak]

Alot of non-nt people have a "look" to them. Like you can see/feel their nerdy aura etheir because of looks or their clothes or the autism is more severe so they have weird movements. You can somewhat sense they are nerds.

But then there are people like me, who look normal but are non-nt.

People meet me and act normal but eventually they realize I'm non-nt and lose interest.

This happened for the few girls that showed me IoIs, but also happens alot through people trying to be friends/colleagues.

You can see the disappointement in people faces when they realise you are not normal like there is a mismatch between the look and the personality.

 

[chad_prodigy]

correct.

exactly because, contrary to what most delusional rotters on this site are telling themselves, everyone outside is aware that the only real obstacle to living a normal life/"being nt" are shit looks. so, if you have average+ looks and are still failing at it, there's no reason anyone would engage with you, given they have other options

 

[IOS]

how to become nt?

 

[zerotohero]

Happens to me all the time. People think I’m normal at first, but once they realize I’m non-NT, it’s over. With girls, especially, it’s why I’ve ended up with such a bad reputation.

 

[Esky1911]

how to become nt?

If you aren't NT, then the only possible way is to mimic people.

I was a little bit non-NT few years back, where I like to spend my time alone like a Sigma and just avoid people.

I think you can mimic others or you can just build another "you".

 

[taxidrivermaxxer]

If you aren't NT, then the only possible way is to mimic people.

I was a little bit non-NT few years back, where I like to spend my time alone like a Sigma and just avoid people.

I think you can mimic others or you can just build another "you".

good advice

 

[taxidrivermaxxer]

Alot of non-nt people have a "look" to them. Like you can see/feel their nerdy aura etheir because of looks or their clothes or the autism is more severe so they have weird movements. You can somewhat sense they are nerds.

But then there are people like me, who look normal but are non-nt.

People meet me and act normal but eventually they realize I'm non-nt and lose interest.

This happened for the few girls that showed me IoIs, but also happens alot through people trying to be friends/colleagues.

You can see the disappointement in people faces when they realise you are not normal like there is a mismatch between the look and the personality.

same over here