If You Don't Have These Things By 25, It's Giga Ultra Mega Over

[Daddy's Home]

How you look is important, but others may have the look as well, so other things will make the difference whether a girl will stay with you or not, and whether she will consider having an LTR/marriage with you, or others with a similar look would steal her from you.

By that, you should have these things in your life by the time you're 25, things that reflect the fact that you're no longer a teenager, but a ''Real Man'', ready to have a serious relationship with a girl..

- Having a rental / apartment / house to live in on your own (so not living with your parents)
- Owning and driving a car
- Having a stable job where you earn at least as much as your girlfriend does
- Know how to cook, and if not, at least know how to do housekeeping
- Having lots of friends/relationships/contacts that you can turn to when any random shit happens and they can come to your rescue
- Having lots of experiences in lots of places, which you can experience afterwards with your girlfriend
- Having intimate and sexual experience with girls in general, which then you can use with your girlfriend
- Be very self-aware and smart, so that you can offer her emotional support and life advice when she needs it + to excite her mentally
- Giving up most childhood habits / coping methods / hobbies, so you can focus more of your attention on work, housekeeping, and spending time with your girlfriend
- Being moved to a better city if you happen to be born in a small town with no future and depopulation
- Having a big family / brothers / sisters / parents to support you in your relationship (money for a bigger house / better car / wedding / taking care of future children etc.) [relatively optional, but it's pretty ideal]

That's about the minimum necessary at the beginning of 2025 to be considered by the average girl who knows what she wants out of life, without mental illness as a possible partner, and therefore a real man. Some things are more important than others, but the lack of certain things can lead to conflicts in the relationship, and by default the relationship may end sooner or later because of them.

That's why you need to have these things by the age of 25. The 7 year window from 18 to 25 it's when you should be full focus on achieving and getting to the point where you have as many of these points as possible. If maybe you manage to Ascend based on Looks, but you don't manage to have these things.. well.. the title answers..

 

[Alucard69]

Maybe a problem for those who date old hags

 

[New Poster]

surprisingly reasonable list

 

[Spidermanne2returns]

-Not having 22inch bideltoid
-not being 5PSL+

 

[kyrre]

not a bad list tbh,, was expecting something like "Not getting a 5inch growth spurt or 20mm maxillary projection from subliminals"

 

[Orc]

having no hobbies is incredibly sad.

 

[edodalic29]

Everything is utter cope except having your own place and income .

How to be a cuck by 25

 

[Daddy's Home]

having no hobbies is incredibly sad.

Childhood hobbies*

Hobbies that reflect status / power / masculinity or athleticism, such as extreme sports / things the average guy doesn't do seem extremely impressive to the mind of the average girl, such as 80% of the ones below..

So obviously we're not talking about "I'm going out with the boys to play soccer and then have a beer / I'm going fishing / I want to play video games with the boys on Discord" things that the average poor dumb subhuman does with other subhumans..

 

[Daddy's Home]

.

 

[Clown Show]

Pseuodscience

 

[Charisma]

On point my nigga

 

[Zenis]

P

Childhood hobbies*

Hobbies that reflect status / power / masculinity or athleticism, such as extreme sports / things the average guy doesn't do seem extremely impressive to the mind of the average girl, such as 80% of the ones below..

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So obviously we're not talking about "I'm going out with the boys to play soccer and then have a beer / I'm going fishing / I want to play video games with the boys on Discord" things that the average poor dumb subhuman does with other subhumans..

Cope

 

[Tallooksmaxxer]

some things in the list are essential but some are not. you are a man, just be yourself.

 

[Pikabro]

Makes sense but the third to last point about making ur life revolve around your gf doesn’t seem so good

 

[Tenshi]

having no hobbies is incredibly sad.

It's complicated, hard to enjoy these things when you're ain't getting the main thing addressed.

Can't put your head to enjoy a good hobby if you're starving or living under a bridge etc.

 

[Foreverbrad]

Sounds trivial but you have to somehow balance it with getting absurdly expensive surgeries and building a top 1% physique.

 

[TheMaxxer333]

Just be neurotypical theory

 

[Daddy's Home]

@raabla
You may find the above things helpful, especially in at your age

 

[Daddy's Home]

Makes sense but the third to last point about making ur life revolve around your gf doesn’t seem so good

That's what most relationships that work are based on, namely the guy focusing as much as possible on their woman. Women are like pets, they want attention and to have fun, but if you don't do these things for them, they may verbalize it and possibly even leave..

 

[Pikabro]

That's what most relationships that work are based on, namely the guy focusing as much as possible on their woman. Women are like pets, they want attention and to have fun, but if you don't do these things for them, they may verbalize it and possibly even leave..

Yeah but if you end up becoming a homebody won’t you will lose the traits that attracted her to you in the first place

 

[Daddy's Home]

Yeah but if you end up becoming a homebody won’t you will lose the traits that attracted her to you in the first place

You have to balance things. There will be times when she doesn't want your attention, or there will be times when you explain to her that you have other things to do now compared to giving her attention, and she will understand, especially if the rest of the time you give her your attention that she he needs.

The problem is when you could be giving her attention, like you really have nothing better to do (like stay at pc / ps5, stay on your phone on social media or TikTok, etc.), but you don't give it to her, and she sees it..

 

[qazw]

Childhood hobbies*

Hobbies that reflect status / power / masculinity or athleticism, such as extreme sports / things the average guy doesn't do seem extremely impressive to the mind of the average girl, such as 80% of the ones below..

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So obviously we're not talking about "I'm going out with the boys to play soccer and then have a beer / I'm going fishing / I want to play video games with the boys on Discord" things that the average poor dumb subhuman does with other subhumans..

Soccer and beer is socially acceptable

 

[Sprinkles]

Giving up most childhood habits / coping methods / hobbies, so you can focus more of your attention on work, housekeeping, and spending time with your girlfriend

this nigga lost his mind

 

[NumbThePain]

This went natural and was normal 10-20 years ago, but now you have to be an elite. Looks, height and status. Unless you're some giga NT tall MTN this can happen too for you

 

[raabla]

@raabla
You may find the above things helpful, especially in at your age

Thanks for the tag! Very good advice for the young users

 

[Daddy's Home]

Soccer and beer is socially acceptable

If your partner looks like this, she would certainly accept it.. She'd probably be a little upset inside, but she'll get over it quickly..

But if your gf looks, let's say more or less "similar" to smt like this, she probably won't find your beer or soccer time the most "optimal" way to spend your free time, even if it's for your entertainment, and will most likely insist on a counter offer to spend time, which you will refuse, and in time she will end up telling you that she doesn't like you "going out that much for beer and soccer instead of hanging out with me", even if you would still do these things in a reasonable manner and still give her enough time and attention..

But what she means by that is that she actually finds this activity inappropriate for you, like you could do "more" than that, or smt more interesting, etc.

 

[Daddy's Home]

This went natural and was normal 10-20 years ago, but now you have to be an elite. Looks, height and status. Unless you're some giga NT tall MTN this can happen too for you

That's why I said that what I wrote is the "minimum" for a girl to at least consider you, looks or height aside, as a possible partner for LTR..

As time goes on, as women move up the social ladder and move up the career ladder, as worse the economy will get and men will have fewer and fewer white collar job options, the more important a man's status becomes..

 

[longjohnmong]

0-17 is tutorial mode. 18-death is the actual game. It's not over ~11% through, unless you're a victim of severe facial burns or something, even then there's a chance science will advance or you will achieve Buddhist enlightenment or haunt an opera house.

 

[MeKKa]

Inb4 OP is a teenagercel

 

[Pikabro]

You have to balance things. There will be times when she doesn't want your attention, or there will be times when you explain to her that you have other things to do now compared to giving her attention, and she will understand, especially if the rest of the time you give her your attention that she he needs.

The problem is when you could be giving her attention, like you really have nothing better to do (like stay at pc / ps5, stay on your phone on social media or TikTok, etc.), but you don't give it to her, and she sees it..

You should be making time to do stuff with her I agree.

 

[HighLtn]

How you look is important, but others may have the look as well, so other things will make the difference whether a girl will stay with you or not, and whether she will consider having an LTR/marriage with you, or others with a similar look would steal her from you.

By that, you should have these things in your life by the time you're 25, things that reflect the fact that you're no longer a teenager, but a ''Real Man'', ready to have a serious relationship with a girl..

- Having a rental / apartment / house to live in on your own (so not living with your parents)
- Owning and driving a car
- Having a stable job where you earn at least as much as your girlfriend does
- Know how to cook, and if not, at least know how to do housekeeping
- Having lots of friends/relationships/contacts that you can turn to when any random shit happens and they can come to your rescue
- Having lots of experiences in lots of places, which you can experience afterwards with your girlfriend
- Having intimate and sexual experience with girls in general, which then you can use with your girlfriend
- Be very self-aware and smart, so that you can offer her emotional support and life advice when she needs it + to excite her mentally
- Giving up most childhood habits / coping methods / hobbies, so you can focus more of your attention on work, housekeeping, and spending time with your girlfriend
- Being moved to a better city if you happen to be born in a small town with no future and depopulation
- Having a big family / brothers / sisters / parents to support you in your relationship (money for a bigger house / better car / wedding / taking care of future children etc.) [relatively optional, but it's pretty ideal]

That's about the minimum necessary at the beginning of 2025 to be considered by the average girl who knows what she wants out of life, without mental illness as a possible partner, and therefore a real man. Some things are more important than others, but the lack of certain things can lead to conflicts in the relationship, and by default the relationship may end sooner or later because of them.

That's why you need to have these things by the age of 25. The 7 year window from 18 to 25 it's when you should be full focus on achieving and getting to the point where you have as many of these points as possible. If maybe you manage to Ascend based on Looks, but you don't manage to have these things.. well.. the title answers..

Dnr bro sorry

 

[uksucks]

How you look is important, but others may have the look as well, so other things will make the difference whether a girl will stay with you or not, and whether she will consider having an LTR/marriage with you, or others with a similar look would steal her from you.

By that, you should have these things in your life by the time you're 25, things that reflect the fact that you're no longer a teenager, but a ''Real Man'', ready to have a serious relationship with a girl..

- Having a rental / apartment / house to live in on your own (so not living with your parents)
- Owning and driving a car
- Having a stable job where you earn at least as much as your girlfriend does
- Know how to cook, and if not, at least know how to do housekeeping
- Having lots of friends/relationships/contacts that you can turn to when any random shit happens and they can come to your rescue
- Having lots of experiences in lots of places, which you can experience afterwards with your girlfriend
- Having intimate and sexual experience with girls in general, which then you can use with your girlfriend
- Be very self-aware and smart, so that you can offer her emotional support and life advice when she needs it + to excite her mentally
- Giving up most childhood habits / coping methods / hobbies, so you can focus more of your attention on work, housekeeping, and spending time with your girlfriend
- Being moved to a better city if you happen to be born in a small town with no future and depopulation
- Having a big family / brothers / sisters / parents to support you in your relationship (money for a bigger house / better car / wedding / taking care of future children etc.) [relatively optional, but it's pretty ideal]

That's about the minimum necessary at the beginning of 2025 to be considered by the average girl who knows what she wants out of life, without mental illness as a possible partner, and therefore a real man. Some things are more important than others, but the lack of certain things can lead to conflicts in the relationship, and by default the relationship may end sooner or later because of them.

That's why you need to have these things by the age of 25. The 7 year window from 18 to 25 it's when you should be full focus on achieving and getting to the point where you have as many of these points as possible. If maybe you manage to Ascend based on Looks, but you don't manage to have these things.. well.. the title answers..

Living on your own is cope

 

[ProBono]

Brutal reminder that most of looksmaxxing is just done to cheat the NTpill

Utter brutality

 

[Xangsane]

How you look is important, but others may have the look as well, so other things will make the difference whether a girl will stay with you or not, and whether she will consider having an LTR/marriage with you, or others with a similar look would steal her from you.

By that, you should have these things in your life by the time you're 25, things that reflect the fact that you're no longer a teenager, but a ''Real Man'', ready to have a serious relationship with a girl..

- Having a rental / apartment / house to live in on your own (so not living with your parents)
- Owning and driving a car
- Having a stable job where you earn at least as much as your girlfriend does
- Know how to cook, and if not, at least know how to do housekeeping
- Having lots of friends/relationships/contacts that you can turn to when any random shit happens and they can come to your rescue
- Having lots of experiences in lots of places, which you can experience afterwards with your girlfriend
- Having intimate and sexual experience with girls in general, which then you can use with your girlfriend
- Be very self-aware and smart, so that you can offer her emotional support and life advice when she needs it + to excite her mentally
- Giving up most childhood habits / coping methods / hobbies, so you can focus more of your attention on work, housekeeping, and spending time with your girlfriend
- Being moved to a better city if you happen to be born in a small town with no future and depopulation
- Having a big family / brothers / sisters / parents to support you in your relationship (money for a bigger house / better car / wedding / taking care of future children etc.) [relatively optional, but it's pretty ideal]

That's about the minimum necessary at the beginning of 2025 to be considered by the average girl who knows what she wants out of life, without mental illness as a possible partner, and therefore a real man. Some things are more important than others, but the lack of certain things can lead to conflicts in the relationship, and by default the relationship may end sooner or later because of them.

That's why you need to have these things by the age of 25. The 7 year window from 18 to 25 it's when you should be full focus on achieving and getting to the point where you have as many of these points as possible. If maybe you manage to Ascend based on Looks, but you don't manage to have these things.. well.. the title answers..

Over for most men then

 

[Xangsane]

But if your gf looks, let's say more or less "similar" to smt like this, she probably won't find your beer or soccer time the most "optimal" way to spend your free time, even if it's for your entertainment, and will most likely insist on a counter offer to spend time, which you will refuse, and in time she will end up telling you that she doesn't like you "going out that much for beer and soccer instead of hanging out with me", even if you would still do these things in a reasonable manner and still give her enough time and attention..

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But what she means by that is that she actually finds this activity inappropriate for you, like you could do "more" than that, or smt more interesting, etc.

Magnate only

 

[R@m@]

All of that for her to cheat on a hood dude who doesnt care about any of that

All you need is low inhib, no low inhib no life

 

[Klasik616]

You only need the looks, house and car, rest is cope

 

[Daddy's Home]

Dnr bro sorry

 

[mirrormogger]

just be a societal slave by 25 theory

 

[JohnDoe]

Imagine doing all this just to get a used up roastie entitled girlfriend. Our parents never had to do any of it, just had to own a home/car and have a job.

 

[Deusmaximus]

Why should you move out of your moms basement if you cant get laid frequently? Just save the money.

 

[Alucard69]

JFL i rather be a NEET incel rotter than have to follow all this cucked bullshit. Imagine living by others' conditions

 

[ihatereddit]

It's ober for me