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Zephir
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Observing and reflecting on my relationships and reading the experience of some members here. I have the opinion that many here are not necessarily virgins just because they are ugly, in fact it is not even the main reason, because in a way we see ugly people who are not virgins (men).
Poor social skills, awkwardness and lack of a solid social circle are the main reasons, and this will sound bluepill but I can give examples in my life.
Just because you are in school or in a university, does not mean that you have a social circle. However both are good places for forming interest groups that you can fit in. The problem is that many people here on this forum don't have friends, don't fit anywhere and have bad social skills, and then end up blaming only their appearance.
Pay attention, I have considerable success when it comes to dating, but it wasn't always that way. A few years ago around 2018 I was a virgin and honestly it's not because of my appearance, from 2018 onwards I haven't changed almost anything. What really changed was;
1- I started to leave my house, walk around the neighborhood and play sports.
2- I started to train my conversation, either through small talk with people or by studying how to improve my rhetoric and dialectic.
3- In college, I joined a select group (tribe).
{Yes, it's basically a tribe, at least in my college there are the party guys, country people, nerds, leftists, normies who don't belong to any group [most people], the rich, sports and etc. .. I'm in to two groups; sports and the rich. I recommend participating in a maximum of two groups, either at college or school}
4- This people will call a cope, but it helps me to make friends and in dating. Be a good person, a person who respects and treats others with the respect and dignity that every human being deserves. Being a bitter and unpleasant person will not help at all, I know that many people's lives here suck, but after all, who said that life would be easy and without suffering? Even the richest and most privileged people have their problems and many here also have to understand one thing... it's not just you who goes through suffering, many of you are still extremely privileged compared to people who live in the third world or in a situation of war, be grateful for what you have and be better.
5- Consume normie content.
This is the hardest for me and I think it is also for many, unfortunately a lot of people talk about reality shows, football and those horrible netflix series. We have to understand that most people are normies and unfortunately that's what they mostly consume. So to have a minute of conversation with them, it is necessary to be aware of these contents.
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... ok whatever you think
