If you want to get a girl's socials, never do this mistake (high inhibcels gtfih)

[Soter]

So I'm friends with this HTB yapper jb, she was too young for me when we met but we developed a friendship based on mutual help, I give her advice on how to deal with her crushes and stuff and she gives me advice on style and other things in order to appealmaxx to jbs.

She loves yapping about minute details of her social life and I use it as a case study for blackpill truths. The theories peddled here sometimes are hilariously unrealistic, but without real life experience, they sound plausible and it's easy to buy into them. I'm not going to make this into a long post but TLDR: yes, hot foids do want chad but they want him to do the work and they are usually too high inhib or prideful to initiate, the idea that if you reach a certain level of looks you won't have to take risks is fantasy

Anyways, with the context out of the way, I will return to the subject matter as outlined in my title. This girl always tells me stories about how she has been approached randomly and I make sure to get as many details as possible on the looks level of the guys and the type of approach and her reaction to it. What surprised me the most is how often this kind of scenario happens to her: a guy approaches her and says "my friend really likes you, can he get your snap", and then points to the friend. Multiple times, she said that the guy in question was decent looking and she would be willing to give him a chance if it was he himself who came up to her, but the cowardice turned her off so much that it was an instant rejection, last time she said she even told the friend that "your friend is a fucking autist" jfl

So there you have it. My personal theory, based on experience, is that manly boldness can sometimes compensate up to a point on the PSL scale

@6ft4

 

[HeightPilledum]

TLDR: Never trust a "friend" to hook you up with somebody. Do it yourself

Simple advice for inexperienced
I can see why fear of rejection makes some people do that

 

[6ft4]

Good thread, thank you for the anecdotes
How did you befriend her in the first place if she was too young for you?

 

[Soter]

Good thread, thank you for the anecdotes
How did you befriend her in the first place if she was too young for you?

Glad you enjoyed it
I added her on snap last year and wanted to slay her until she told me she was 15, she was teasing me about how I’m not slaying anything if I’m adding random girls on snap and then I started to tell her about my approaches IRL and some girls who were prospects at that time and we kept the convos going and after some time she asked me for advice about her crush and with time we built good rapport and trust. In terms of having good intel to JBmaxx, it’s even better than having a sister

 

[6ft4]

Glad you enjoyed it
I added her on snap last year and wanted to slay her until she told me she was 15, she was teasing me about how I’m not slaying anything if I’m adding random girls on snap and then I started to tell her about my approaches IRL and some girls who were prospects at that time and we kept the convos going and after some time she asked me for advice about her crush and with time we built good rapport and trust. In terms of having good intel to JBmaxx, it’s even better than having a sister

did you add her through the quick add feature or you seen her snap username on her social media?
How common is it for girls who you add randomly to respond when you snap them your face?

 

[Soter]

did you add her through the quick add feature or you seen her snap username on her social media?
How common is it for girls who you add randomly to respond when you snap them your face?

Through quick add, I used to go on adding sprees and tested a whole bunch of things. If I snapped them my face after they added me back, sometimes they would respond but it’s far from the most effective approach, since you’re my favorite user on this site, I’ll share with you this meta strat that brought me the best results:
chat with them for a little bit and acquaint each other with at least the basic details (age and city), bonus if the intro convo is not boring and dry. Then if they haven’t unfriended you because of the age gap, you tell them to show themselves (this is very important, it’s weird that despite them not knowing anything about you, if you basically command them to do it, they will almost always do it but if you ask them they will likely not send you a pic of themselves). She will either ask you to send first or she sends first and then asks you to do it. If she doesn’t want to send, 9 times out of 10 that means she is ugly. If she’s hot, usually she will send first and she will send multiple photos. If she sends a single low quality or photos with filters - she’s ugly.
After you’ve sent your photo in the chat, if she does not like you, she will unfriend right then and there. If she heart reacts or saves your pic in chat - slay chance is decent but there are other obstacles to overcome. But usually she will react neutrally and from that point you chat a bit more and gauge where she’s at, then end the convo, and next day send streaks and then hit her up from time to time

 

[Ruthless]

 

[BWC_virgin]

yes, hot foids do want chad but they want him to do the work and they are usually too high inhib or prideful to initiate, the idea that if you reach a certain level of looks you won't have to take risks is fantasy

yes

retards on this forum dont get it