ill be alone forever because dating is retarded

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everything about relationships in 2025 is just gross and screams degeneracy to me. no girl is pure or innocent enough and the lack of femininity adds on top of that. dating apps are trash too, all of them are whores. theres quite literally 0 chance so i should just focus on being a good and respected person and hobbymaxx
 
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The climate is tumultuous for sure, but there's always going to be hope. Love, and our instinct for it, is too strong. Just have to remain pure, honest, and active, and something beautiful will come your way. I truly believe that.
 
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The climate is tumultuous for sure, but there's always going to be hope. Love, and our instinct for it, is too strong. Just have to remain pure, honest, and active, and something beautiful will come your way. I truly believe that.
thanks it just seems unfair and the whole dating scene is brutal. i feel like what i desire is impossible to get in 2025
 
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no girl is pure or innocent
True, but if you really want to strive in the dating market lowering your standards may be a good idea. Think about it, even Chads are with ran through whores, there's no escaping the modern dating scene, I guess you just have to adapt brother. But yeah getting a hobby like gym really does wonders for you mentally.
 
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True, but if you really want to strive in the dating market lowering your standards may be a good idea. Think about it, even Chads are with ran through whores, there's no escaping the modern dating scene, I guess you just have to adapt brother. But yeah getting a hobby like gym really does wonders for you mentally.
im lowkey against the gym but all your other points are valid. ur right im just not willing to lower my standarts. ill keep improving my looks until ill be able to achieve what i want
 
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This is why I will be GeoMaxxing as a passport bro, western women to be are essentially public toilets with no reedeming qualities.
 
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im lowkey against the gym but all your other points are valid. ur right im just not willing to lower my standarts. ill keep improving my looks until ill be able to achieve what i want
Honestly lowering your standards to be with a female with a body count of more than 0 is difficult 😭. You could do what amnesia does and just f around with girls but don't get into anything commited as at the end of the day, girls just have a nature of leaving u for a better man.
 
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You could do what amnesia does and just f around with girls but don't get into anything commited
i look more feminine than alot of girls if i wanna be successful at dating i might have to stop it with the self expression and make myself look more normal. dont think its worth it tho
 
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The climate is tumultuous for sure, but there's always going to be hope. Love, and our instinct for it, is too strong. Just have to remain pure, honest, and active, and something beautiful will come your way. I truly believe that.
tales
 
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how old are you
 
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everything about relationships in 2025 is just gross and screams degeneracy to me. no girl is pure or innocent enough and the lack of femininity adds on top of that. dating apps are trash too, all of them are whores. theres quite literally 0 chance so i should just focus on being a good and respected person and hobbymaxx
brother i understand. this day and age, either you lower your standards or give up. on the off chance one that fits your standards comes along, she doesn't like you back.

then again, who am i to be making such sweeping comments, when i am the one unable to attract, rather than the one making the decision?
 
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dont think its worth it tho
Ehhh u never know until you try, get lean and do stuff to look more masculine and than go out there and see what happens. At least this way if u get rejected by society u can comfortably binge eat McDonald's knowing u did what u could 😂. Also hobbymaxxing is underrated, you can meet some nice women who have similar interest with u and they may let u hit. Don't know till you try man.
 
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youre still young you can easily pull teen foid with little baggage just gotta look out for sheltered next door types
girls do show interest in me sometimes but im mentalcel + look and dress too feminine and loud to be appealing to 99% of girls
i dont think sacrificing self expression for dating is worth it tho
 
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brother i understand. this day and age, either you lower your standards or give up. on the off chance one that fits your standards comes along, she doesn't like you back.
yeah you get it, this is exactly what i mean
 
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Ehhh u never know until you try, get lean and do stuff to look more masculine and than go out there and see what happens. At least this way if u get rejected by society u can comfortably binge eat McDonald's knowing u did what u could 😂. Also hobbymaxxing is underrated, you can meet some nice women who have similar interest with u and they may let u hit. Don't know till you try man.
honestly this is good advice im just too commited to my current look
 
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girls do show interest in me sometimes but im mentalcel + look and dress too feminine and loud to be appealing to 99% of girls
i dont think sacrificing self expression for dating is worth it tho
yeah if is not something that does harm to other people neither directly benefits you (like improving looks, health, fitness and so on) then you shouldnt change who you are just to appeal to more foids thats kinda cucked
 
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girls do show interest in me sometimes but im mentalcel + look and dress too feminine and loud to be appealing to 99% of girls
i dont think sacrificing self expression for dating is worth it tho
looking and dressing fem is neutral to smv usually, unless it borders on twink territory. being loud is a huge turnoff because i am loud and confident. shut up - that's the only advice.

sometimes it's worth sacrificing a bit of your personality for female attention. especially if you're 'cel because you're lacking in the personality/mentality aspect, that is the only path to ascension.

looksmaxing without personalitymaxxing is what fools do.
 
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ts dating thing pmo
 
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you shouldnt change who you are just to appeal to more foids thats kinda cucked
Easy said than done when your a virgin ibr, I get your point it'll kill your self esteem to do something you don't want to do all for foids but sometimes minor adjustments such as acting more NT is worth it.
 
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looksmaxing without personalitymaxxing is what fools do.
As I grow older I realise this has some truth to it 😭. You can't be acting like a manchild at 20 no more otherwise everyone will be icked tf out. Regardless of your chad.
 
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As I grow older I realise this has some truth to it 😭. You can't be acting like a manchild at 20 no more otherwise everyone will be icked tf out. Regardless of your chad.
half of .org seems to not understand. they equate good looks = instant wife. ugh.

once you pass the threshold, the BLUEpill takes ahold and it becomes very subjective. we should strive to maximise not our looks, but the proportion of women's thresholds you pass. usually redpill elements are what throw you over the edge of the threshold, so do not ignore status/money either.

no point forcing a relationship that you won't enjoy. bluepill is almost just as important as blackpill.
 
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everything about relationships in 2025 is just gross and screams degeneracy to me. no girl is pure or innocent enough and the lack of femininity adds on top of that. dating apps are trash too, all of them are whores. theres quite literally 0 chance so i should just focus on being a good and respected person and hobbymaxx
Fuck you I hate you but this is a quality thread.
 
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looking and dressing fem is neutral to smv usually, unless it borders on twink territory. being loud is a huge turnoff because i am loud and confident. shut up - that's the only advice.

sometimes it's worth sacrificing a bit of your personality for female attention. especially if you're 'cel because you're lacking in the personality/mentality aspect, that is the only path to ascension.

looksmaxing without personalitymaxxing is what fools do.
yes good advice ive recently been trying to figure out how to work on my style to make it a bit less theatrical and more approachable
 
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Yeah, honestly there is a strong element of luck. PSL is just the bare minimum to maximize in.
 
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half of .org seems to not understand. they equate good looks = instant wife. ugh.

once you pass the threshold, the BLUEpill takes ahold and it becomes very subjective. we should strive to maximise not our looks, but the proportion of women's thresholds you pass. usually redpill elements are what throw you over the edge of the threshold, so do not ignore status/money either.

no point forcing a relationship that you won't enjoy. bluepill is almost just as important as blackpill.
I wouldn't say bluepill is necessarily as important as blackpill, the mid point of red pill ibr applies to 90% of the forum unless you live in a heavy lookism area such as LA or Miami. Only thing about the redpill that I don't agree with is they don't put looks on a higher importance but they've definitely got the money and status pull correct, that alone will pull more than being Chad. Who would pull more: 6'2 wageslaving Chadelite or Jeff Bezos 😂 kinda obvious hence why Girls do OF cuz they don't wanna wageslave, you can't deny the MONEY PILL.
 
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Who would pull more: 6'2 wageslaving Chadelite or Jeff Bezos 😂 kinda obvious
yes but nobody is actually sexually attracted to bezos. wageslaving chad still wins imo
 
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yes but nobody is actually sexually attracted to bezos. wageslaving chad still wins imo
I agree they'd still go to Chads house for a sneaky link 😂. This system is truly messed up, bring back traditional women.
 
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yes but nobody is actually sexually attracted to bezos. wageslaving chad still wins imo
True but imagine being that rich and looksmaxxed.
 
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im lowkey against the gym but all your other points are valid. ur right im just not willing to lower my standarts. ill keep improving my looks until ill be able to achieve what i want
well there you go, your just low iq which is why you made this post
 
well there you go, your just low iq which is why you made this post
can we not use insults in my threads thank you
i love being 100lbs and im not willing to sacrifice self expression to appeal to girls who are too shallow to appreciate me in my authentic form
 
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can we not use insults in my threads thank you
i love being 100lbs and im not willing to sacrifice self expression to appeal to girls who are too shallow to appreciate me in my authentic form
who said anything about you going to the gym? your just spreading misinformation even the pretty boy chads you dick suck most likely go the gym. anyone who thinks its a looksmin is low iq
 
who said anything about you going to the gym? your just spreading misinformation even the pretty boy chads you dick suck most likely go the gym. anyone who thinks its a looksmin is low iq
im naturally skinny and theres no fat to burn. and gaining weight and bulding muscle is out of the question. you lowkey seem low iq for not understanding my point lol. also ur avi pmo
 
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im naturally skinny and theres no fat to burn. and gaining weight and bulding muscle is out of the question. you lowkey seem low iq for not understanding my point lol. also ur avi pmo
idk bro you seem a little chubby
 
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Working out can be good for the mind though in general, looks aside. Can be a good hobby to invest in, even.
 
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I'm 174-ish cm (5'8) myself, and I am like 73 kg (161 lbs). Need to leanmaxx but I feel pretty skinny.
 
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everything about relationships in 2025 is just gross and screams degeneracy to me. no girl is pure or innocent enough and the lack of femininity adds on top of that. dating apps are trash too, all of them are whores. theres quite literally 0 chance so i should just focus on being a good and respected person and hobbymaxx
Womp womp
 

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